I am unsure who the father of my unborn child is! Please help!!

I don't understand why would I be making up a fake story about a pregnancy and be able to have so much detail about everything? It wouldn't add up surely...

Also why would I replying comments that are clearly a response to what specific people have said if I was a "troll"

I don't understand the meaning of "I smell a troll"
Is that implying I am lying?

I believe he has a right to have a say into the decision as well but I am 100% sure I want to have the baby. So it's a bit difficult for him to try and persuade my decision otherwise

I can talk to family about it which is good, but sometimes I think it's not always good to talk to someone who is completely on my side. As I like to have unbiased opinions

Thank you

If you don't agree with abortion then why were you not using contraception ? Sorry but this couldn't have been such a shock for you and you will have to tell both men the situation and do a DNA test after the baby has arrived.

Then report horse. It may or may not be true, but the OP has explained where and why she had the scan, and actually just sounds confused or mixed up. I'm sick of seeing on literally every thread troll accusations, whether in the end they were correct or not.

Because of the short time between the 2 men and the fact that you can possibly ovulate more than once a month, there really is no way to tell at all until the baby is born and you do a DNA. You'll be calculating it forever and there really is no way to tell.
Just tell both of them you're not sure, then wait till baby is here.
It YOUR baby and that's all that's important. You made the decision to keep the baby and whatever struggles that may mean along the way. It's not the end of the world. You'll be ok xx

Sorry Bobo, totally disagree with you. He has no say in this. If he didn't want to potentially become a dad then he knew what to do!

Because I was considering termination they sent me to a clinic where they gave me a scan and then told me the information about believing I had conceived 3 weeks prior

I've never had a previous pregnancy or miscarriage, I'm not sure as to why it was so fast as I've never been through this before sorry

OP I think perhaps you just came across angry in posts without meaning to (it's always hard to judge how something was meant to be said when typed).

I agree with the others that it's most like your ex's and all you can really do is do a dna after baby is born. In the mean time you ought to tell both potential fathers and find out how they feel. It's important to know if you are going to have to raise the baby alone.

Some may disagree with me here but I do also believe the father has a right to express a wish that they would prefer a termination. I am all for equality and believe no one should be forced to be a dad.

Keep taking those vitamins and looking after yourself op. Can you talk to family or support? X

Also you claim your well educated too so surely having unprotected sex with two men close together you must have be know you would be attempting to get pregnant and therefore need a DNA test

How and why did you get an NHS scan so early on?

You clearly knew your dates?

Also by your description it's the first one you had so no sign of previous pregnancies?

Women's with difficulties or miscarriage history don't even get one so I don't see why you were rushed through.

He doesn't know he could not be the father, but the second guy does know about my ex and the situation I'm in now

But I was just worried of telling him because I'm scared of his reaction and then I'm scared if he is then the father he would hold a grudge against me or the child

I think that's the best thing sbz. Firstly clear up any confusion about your dates. Find out your EDD first and then it will be easier to almost 'count backwards' to see which is the more likely.

Well it's tough for your ex isn't? It's not his decision to make

Well you don't even know that the ex is the baby's dad! Does he know that it may not be his?
Can you afford to pay for testing?

They didn't give me a copy of the scan report but when I go to the doctors today I will ask if they have a copy

I am perfectly capable of being a good parent and I have support from my family and everyone around me. I have a good education and I am just finishing my degree, I believe I am strong enough. And I will do nothing but the very best to provide and be the best parent I can for my baby. I have lots of love and support

Except from my ex who isn't exactly sure he wants to have the baby.

Did they give you a copy of the scan report?

I am taking my vitamins and I decided I was keeping the baby a couple days after I had the scan.
I just wrote the post to see if anyone else could give me an insight.

I have a doctors appointment later today.

People can only post on the information they've been given. People (myself included) posted about condoms because we are concerned you are putting your health at risk, not because we are judging you. I had a baby when I was your age and it was really hard and I don't envy you having the worry of not knowing who the dad is on top, but no one can answer your question :(

If you think your period started nearer to the 20th, I'd say from your dates alone it's your ex boyfriend.

Can you ask to go to an Early Pregnancy Unit in a hospital and be scanned again? It's likely to be an internal one, but they will give you a better idea of the 'age' of the foetus.

Good luck OP, it sounds like a stressful situation.