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TTC following an ectopic pregnancy

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PinkElephant · 01/01/2007 18:35

Hi, My DH and I have been TTC for the last 8 months and finally found out I was pregnant before christmas. Since then I have been in hospital and have been treated for an ectopic pregnancy. I was given a hefty dose of Methotrexate which has made me feel rotten and should induce a miscarriage soon. We can't start TTC for 3 months now which is really hard to take as it took us a while the first time - but everything will have to be on hold until the summer now. Has anyone experienced this?

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PinkElephant · 16/05/2007 18:30

Genidef - I had the HSG done on the NHS. Maybe its dependant on your particular hospital/trust, funding and protocols etc. I must admit I was a bit pushy for it and nagged till I got one, but it didn't seem to be a problem as the ward sister said that everyone who had experienced an ectopic has one to rue out problems conceiving again. Could you ask for one perhaps?

Hi Lissie and Cedar - I'll let you know what happens tommorow. Do not fear, I shall be hanging around until you all get your BFP and I can celebrate with you......erm thats if you don't mind?

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cedar12 · 16/05/2007 09:08

If you need to go private for hsg I think bupa quoted me about £550 but i ended up having it done on the nhs. A fertility clinic quoted me about £250 for a hycosy which is an ultra sound instead of an xray. But I had both mine done on nhs as wait wasnt to long.

Genidef · 15/05/2007 20:47

Pink Elephant _ I don't think BUPA will pay for the HSG. It would be considered a fertility treatment. A friend who had this done said hers cost a grand all told. The doctor was saying £175. Can I be cheeky and ask how much your procedure was?

cedar12 · 15/05/2007 14:37

Good luck with your scan I will be thinking of you on thursday pe. I am sure everything will be fine make sure you keep on popping back to let us know how you are getting on. I felt morning sickness from 5-6 wks I think with dd.

lissielou · 15/05/2007 14:25

PE, yes am quite positive about this month tbh. good news about your appt. i got ms from 3w with all my pgs but i think it varies from pg to pg as well as woman to woman

PinkElephant · 15/05/2007 09:28

Genidef - yes I felt better for having an HSG xray too. I was scared of TTC again after the ectopic and although the HSG xray result did put my mind at rest that there were no blockages in my tubes, it still couldn't tell whether my cilia were working (which are the hairs in your tubes which push the egg to the womb). What they medic did say after it was done was that it heps to flush your tubes which can help you pregnant and I am proof of that!! It took us 8mths the first time and one month this time....I'm sure its the HSG which helped. I'd definately ask for one.
Lissie - talking of HSG's....how are you doing? If you don't get an appoint for another few months will you TTC anyway?
Cedar - Good luck this month....lets hope its worked. Yes I know what you mean about going privately, you just want to get things rolling don't you....its so sad that we have to pay a fortune for this to be done.
I have my first scan on thursday....hoping that as my beta HCG's are above 2000 that they will see where my beanie is. Can't relax until I've got the result. keep getting odd bit of cramping in an evening and got overwhelming nausea last night uuugh!! I'm not 6wks until thursday....when do all the symptoms morning sickness etc start?

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cedar12 · 15/05/2007 08:03

I felt better after having an hsg. As after my 1st ep they didnt do one and we ttc for 18 months only to be told when I did eventually have hsg tube was slightly blocked and I needed lap and dye to unblock it. It might put your mind at rest but remember as with all procedures there is a risk of infection. I took some antibiotics to cover my self. Good luck with your appointment and let us know how you get on.

cedar12 · 15/05/2007 07:56

I am not sure with the connection with ep either but I remember Aitch saying she took it. She hasnt been around for a while so if anyone sees her point her in this direction. I read an article about it generaly increasing fertility. But I am a bit worried about self prescribing.

lissielou · 14/05/2007 21:51

not sure if it helps with a history of ep but helps with blood flow.

Genidef · 14/05/2007 21:23

Thanks for your responses. I have a two year old daughter - we actually got pregnant the second time within a couple of months of trying. Found out about the ectopic at 6 wks - no choice whatsoever but to remove the tube. They found endo symptoms during the surgery but then told me that sometimes this is common in pregnancy (?!) At first the surgeon said she would do an HSG before I ttc, then she decided against that for whatever reason, told me to go for it, and that she would do it if I had problems getting pregnant. Which of course, i'm panicking could mean another ectopic. Anyway, it was a fortuitous time to try this weekend, so we went for it...I am actually booked to see her on Weds (for this and other reasons)...am wondering if I have been crazy to try but she did say not to bother with the HSG. SO who knows? I've never had symptoms of endo before, I'm nearly 37, and felt basically, why not?

Is the asprin particularly helpful against Ectopics?! Have never heard that but would be interested to understand reason for the aspirin. I have heard about it in connection with miscarriages.

cedar12 · 14/05/2007 19:51

I always thought I had a 28 day cycle to until I worked it out properly I cant count either
Do you think I should make an app with my gp about aspirin or wait until I get pg or see the consultant.

lissielou · 14/05/2007 18:45

friday. im due to ov from my tubed side too. ive self medicated 75mg asprin too, doesnt do any harm but you should tell docs you are taking it. tbh im v positive about this month. im fertile from thurs on, going on a 29d cycle. i always thought i had a 28d one coz af always starts 4w later to the day but worked it out properly and its 29d

iykwim

cedar12 · 14/05/2007 18:33

Hello Genidef its really scary ttc again isnt it I am deserate to get pg again but so scared it will happen again. But remember its only 15% chance of it happening again so the odds are in your favour. Have you had any follow up or tests since have they told you if your other tube is ok.
Me and Lissie are in the same boat as you so lets hope we get some more bfp soon on this thread. Pink elephant had an ep at about the same time as you and has just found out she is pg 1st month ttc.
Hi Lissie started to take 75mg aspirin at the begining of this cycle. Not sure if I should or not I am starting to rattle all these tablets and vitamin I am taking. It a shame you cant get hsg done before your appointment but at least its all booked. How are you feeling this month about ttc, I am pretty sure I ov from my side with the tube this month so I am really hoping it works this month. Other wise it will be july before we properly try again. I did say if I wasnt pg by June I would start looking into other options Might see my consultant privatly. I dont know if I can face ivf but if that the only way. I dont know where we will get the money from my mum said she will help a bit but we will have to find most of it. Everyone says it will only be a matter time but I just want a baby now.
When are you going on holiday?

lissielou · 14/05/2007 15:33

totally understandable to be scared. ttc is a scary business without the added complication of a previous ep. how long were you ttc fpor?

Genidef · 14/05/2007 15:30

My husband and I finally went for it last night (following ectopic in Dec 06 - right tube removed). I'M SO SCARED - can I ask everyone for positive thoughts?!

lissielou · 14/05/2007 13:34

what dosages asprin are you taking. in asda they have a 75mg asprin thats used for clotting probs/strokes etc and thats what i take.

next hsg appt will be next month but go back to specialist on 4th so will have to traipse back to them again after the hsg

arrrrrgggggghhhhh!

how are we all today?

cedar12 · 14/05/2007 09:36

I have been taking aspirin all this month, but a bit worried in case I shouldnt be. Read on the internet it was good for fertility in general as it increases blood flow to womb etc and ovaries. I was also a bit worried about mc as well as my mum had 4 before she had me and my sister. Not to worried but just remember aitch saying she took it and wondered if she had any words of wisedom on the subject.

PinkElephant · 14/05/2007 09:30

Hi ladies,
Ooops got my HSG muddles up with HCG's by the looks of it!! Bloody nightmare Lissie, everything becomes such a struggles doesn't it!!! If you don't get an appoint this week when will the next possible date be for you?
Cedar - happy BD'ing. Haven't a clue about asprin, hasn't MrsMcJr on the other thread been taking it for some coagulant problem but didn't wait for medical advice either and now is now PG. So sorry its the last thing you want to here about PG!!!

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cedar12 · 13/05/2007 17:27

I think I am due to ov today or tomorrow I think not temping or using ov tests this month.Have had the odd cramp not as bad as last couple of months thank goodness. Its 3 months since ep so it true what they say about your body needing time to heal.
Aitch wondering about the aspirin you took when ttc I have only found info on mc and aspirin not ep. Wondering if I should take it as I have had 2 ep and my mum had 4 mc before she had me. How long did you take it for once you were pg? Thanks

lissielou · 12/05/2007 11:32

arms not too bad ta. my you do havwe abusy day!

when are you due to ov?

cedar12 · 12/05/2007 09:08

Sounds good pink elephant. We have been busy lately, looking after my friends little one today aswell then having dd cousin to stay tonight so it will be mad house today.
Hope your arm not to bruised today Lissie.
Think I am going to ov soon so got a busy weekend planned hopefully will be from the left side this month.

lissielou · 11/05/2007 19:45

well, had my day 8 bloods taken today and the fecking nurse really hurt me and my arms bruised to buggery! arrrrggggggghhhhhhh am so fed up of this crap. wish i could just give up, but i cant.

lissielou · 11/05/2007 19:37

oooh sounds promising!

tbh not holding out much hope. the only day they could do it is tuesday and not heard anything about it.

PinkElephant · 11/05/2007 19:27

Oh Lissie - I really hope you can get a cancellation. Everything crossed for you.
Cedar - it sounds very busy in your household!! How are you this month?
Just got the second lot of Beta HSG's back tonight and they have gone from just over 1000 to just over 2000 in 48hrs. This is good news and has relieved some of the anxiety I was feeling....next is the scan which they are going to try and book me in for next week

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lissielou · 11/05/2007 13:23

im taking asprin at the mo on the off chance.