April 2014 thread! - still continually supporting one another!

Haha lulu, the people in the village I grew up in think they are match makers now I split up with stbxh they aren't very good at it!

I had a message absolutely ages ago from a friend I haven't seen in about 9 years asking if I would like to meet up for a drink. I messaged her the other day and she said she'll meet up with me. So I'm actually going out

Ducky, where are you finding all these men 🙂

Well that lasted long. I saved up some money, I had it for a bit. I haven't brought myself anything in ages and I only wear leggings and strappy tops, so I went out and brought a whole outfit for Saturday along with some new make up. It used up all my spare money. He's cancelled . Now I'm feeling right bleh!

I feel like stbxh was right and I won't ever meet anyone else.... and I've wasted a lot of money and organised a baby sitter (which was a pain in the arse!) all for nothing. I can't even go out with any friends cus I don't really have any!

Just after I got told that, another guy asked me out but I just said no. He wasn't my type, but I think I'll be like you cupcake and stay away from men.

Poor ds1 cupcake! Is he feeling any better now? How many rooms does your house have? Did you save ds2 Moses basket and stuff?

My ds fell over earlier and bashed his face and I think he bit his lip because there was quite a bit of blood he keeps saying it's sore and asking me to kiss it better

CupcAke I had the breathless thing!! It was awful! Has stbxh been helping out?

I have another date for Saturday now so nervous! X

Thanks lulu. I haven't heard from him again.

Do you have any birth plan this time? Or are you just going to see what happens?

How you doing cupcake?

Don't be down, be glad you didn't get involved with another man who is a 'drainer'. Don't contact him again Ducky, he will draw you into this. You deserve someone who is mentally well-balanced and knd to you- not another 'me me me' self-obsessed and self-indulgent man.

That's why it won't go ahead I think lulu I dealt with stbxh sucking the life out of me for 10 years so can't go through anything that could do that again.

Just feeling down now, I'd been saying to my friend for quite a while now that I liked him. Then that happened. I had been smiling all day, but now just feel kind of blah

You don't want a depressed man anyway- he'd suck the life out of you.

Yea don't think it's going to happen.

It's someone who lives by my grandad. I'd known him when we were little bit lost contact. Started seeing him about recently and started messaging today.

He asked me to go for a drink and I said yes. We had been messaging all day non stop. But about an hour ago it kind of slowed down and was seeming kind of disinterested.

Then about 15 mins ago he said he felt like shit, I said why, he said he felt depressed and just wants to sleep so I just kind of left it at that

Kind of gutted tbh now.

Oooh who? Is he nice? How did that happen? When is it? Where are you going? 😉

I think I just agreed to a date with someone

Did you bf ds2 cupcake? I can't remember?

I still haven't heard anything regarding the divorce, just can't wait until it's all over and done with.

I'm sick of seeing pictures of stbxh girlfriend sat in my house, using my stuff but unfortunately until this is over I can't delete him as I need to take evidence of stuff, like when he's saying he can't afford to pay a penny towards his kids yet he's taking her out for meals, buying a whole new wardrobe and buying her flowers and booze and take always and going to concerts.

I think he's trying to get my name removed from the mortgage too secretly so he can keep the house. It's a long story but to cut it short, on our income (my income!) we shouldn't have got a mortgage as big as we did, but stbxh grandad was very very high up in the bank, he'd passed away but his dad still had connections there, so our mortgage was 'dodgy' and done through his connections. I'm worried that he may actually be able to remove my name somehow which would leave me without a penny from the house I had paid for, every bill, I had paid to decorate and furnish. He had everything. But I spose we will cross that bridge when it comes to it.

Oooh exciting cupcake! Is your cousin far from you? We all share a room too

I'm almost 28 weeks. Only 12 to go, over 2/3 of the way there.

What did they mean Cupcake - about his stomach? It can't be too worrying or they would do it immediately- I hope.

Thank you cupcake.

Sorry to hear your appointment didn't go as you wanted what does that mean if his stomach is growing fast? What date is it?

Went out with the new pushchair today, there were a couple of small doors but I managed to get through dragging it sideways. Looked a bit silly but I did it! Ds enjoyed it at first, but the decided he was bored and wanted to 'run away' he kept shouting that he was stuck! And he kept putting his feet across dd which he thought was funny, she wasn't impressed.

It is dd1's birthday this weekend she would have been 3. I've wound myself up again as stbxh brought his gf a huge bouquet of flowers, I bet any money he will not put even a single flower on dd 1's grave for her birthday. He's only been there twice. Once was for the funeral and the second time was because I asked him to come with me because he hadn't been there.

I'm having a tough week this week but suspect it's because of the time of year. I'm hoping next week I will feel better once it's all done with.

Ha lulu I hope he touched wood after as there is still time is this pregnancy a lot different from with ds you think?

Cupcake stbxh should want to be there!! That's rubbish going on your own, you need someone for support! Could your dm come with you? My hosp have never let dc in the scans but they did let ds in with me because of what happened with dd1 I needed my dm with me for support because i was always so anxious and there was no one else to have ds.