April 2014 thread! - still continually supporting one another!

Can you have any longer off cupcake? Would you be able to afford any unpaid time? Or add any holidays onto the end of your leave?

My gp messed up my referral so I had been on the phone to the hospital all day yesterday trying to sort it. My referral only got sent yesterday, it got sent to the wrong place and said I knew my dates. I then found out the consultant I really wanted to see was on long term sick so I won't get to see her.

The consultant secretary was very helpful and managed to sort everything out for me and I have a scan a week today. Am feeling very nervous though.

How old is he now? My ds3 will be 3 months on sat. Can't believe it. Also means I'm only nine months away from going back to work lol

Cute pic. Lol to the not being able to say conjunctivitis

Thank you sunny. Hope your all feeling better soon!

That's a lovely pic cupcake.

Ds2 is very smiley there but DS1 looks like he might be about to complain! Did he?
Isn't DS2 big?

Well done Cupcake's DS! He has managed it really quickly.

There will be other houses- there always are. Your house always sounds nice and you have a garden now don't you?

It has been very cold here today; sunny but cold. We took DS for a walk and he had a trot along the beach and played with a ball with DH.

Congratulations ducky that's lovely news. You always said you wanted your kiddies to have same dad so that's good. Hope you're not feeling to ill with it. We have had conjunctivitis in our household and it's been bloody awful. Baby seems to be blinking funny so got a feeling he may have it now.

That is great of ds with his toilet training!!! How do you feel about coming off the anti depressants? Have they been helping?

I have no idea when the baby would be due but it all goes well I'm guessing October/November so ds will be around 22/23 months. Isn't that the same age gap as yours? Tbh I feel excited but I am so Ill I'm exhausted and I have a really bad cough/cold/sore throat that's been waking me up at night and I can't sleep

Cupcake- how did you get on with the house? Are you going to move?

How is DS getting on with his potty training?

Hope it went ok at the GPs.

I had no idea my name has changed have changed back to ducky to save confusion.

Yes the following day we spent the whole day talking things out and discussing what needs to happen. Things have been pretty much great since it all happened now. He is well aware of the fact that if anything happens from now it is the end. I stayed at my moms for a bit then came home when I saw he was making a real effort. He has kept it up so far so we will see how it goes.

As for the pregnancy, it's very confusing, a few times I have had a bit too much to drink and things happened. I had been unwell the past few days then I suddenly thought I could be so took a test and it came up straight away. I'm still in shock tbh. I think it's still very early days though.

It's been freezing here too! Can't wait for summer!

Do you mean you have gone back in the last couple of weeks and got pregnant Ducky? So just a few days?
That is all very unexpected. Hope you feel better than you did. Things sounded so awful by the time you left and he behaved so oddly then- pulling curtain rails down, stabbing work surfaces with the knife, trying to hang himself. Are you sure it is safe for you and DS?

You have changed your name again too. I didn't realise it was you until I read the post.

It is freezing here tonight. DH is making tea- prawns and vegetable rice. DS had scrambled egg and toast and is ready for bed. He has had a very busy day and is looking tired

Sounds like you have a busy day cupcake! And woo to ds in his pants!

We weren't intimate but once we had talked things through and made up it happened we have been together 10 years, I think our relationship just got put on the back burner and left and just went.... I don't know, we shall see what happens, he knows that if I get unhappy I will leave and he has accepted that.

The pregnancy came as a huge shock to me, I only found out yesterday and feel a bit lost as I don't know what going on in terms of the hospital etc. I think it's very early days so you never know what will happen. I'm very worried ds will be upset

I'm back!!!

My internet went completely down and I run out of data on my phone so couldn't get on the Internet at all! It was awful.

When are you moving cupcake?

I have come back home. Me and h had a VERY long talk, it made me realise that there was so much he did that pissed me off that I wouldn't talk to him about, I'd just keep it inside and get angrier and angrier.

I was moaning about the house constantly being a tip and being cluttered and dark, when I came back he had re decorated the whole place and threw out bags and bag fills of junk. He now tidies without being asked and even told me off for being messy I hope he keeps it up.

And in even bigger news. I had been v I'll the last few days.... I'm pregnant no idea how far I am. Am waiting for q call from the dr now and I guess I'll be sent for an early scan.

It is just a semi Cupcake- nothing flash about our house.

Is DS proud of himself?

That is excellent of DS, Cupcake. It sounds like he is going to do it easily now. Wish DS was ready. He can poop for England.

The house sounds lovely. When could you move?

Sometimes I would like to move out into the country but everything is so easy living here. It's a nice street, safe for DS and the cats, lovely walks, places to play and trees, a park. We're staying put at the moment.