April 2014 thread! - still continually supporting one another!

Good luck today cupcake for you and ds! I've never heard of a damaged cervix have you had any pain?

Haha hope you managed to clear up after ds lulu! Has he become any more interested in the cats? My ds is obsessed with cats

I'm a bit worried now. I know I have all my referrals in place and my dating scan etc, but I will be 10 weeks on Monday and I haven't had my booking in appt done or anything feel like I've been a bit forgotten about!

He is fine Cupcake. He has spent the last two days empying things- emptied the dvds from the TV cabinet twice (about 60 of them) emptied a file of DH's marking all over and all out of order, emptied the cat food from the kitchen cupboard, managed to get hold of a loo roll and unroll it down the stairs. He is fascinated by it all. He emptied his little toy box and put it all back in this afternoon.

I bet the bleeding is hormonal. I had an awful period when mine started again. It lasted about 3 weeks and was really heavy - scarily heavy. Then I had one that was almost nothing. All hormonal apparently.

DH is watching 'One Born Every Minute' and getting all soft about babies and TTC. I am off to bed to get some sleep. The last thing I feel like at the minute is another baby. DS has been a terror today and I am exhausted.

All the groups round here are like that lulu, it's awful. Really like being back at school.

Speaking of which, I drove past the school I would like ds to go to (I know it's a long long way off yet) and was shocked by the moms there! They were all really dressed up! Big heels, massive hair, loads of make up. Just to pick up their kids think I might stand out a bit there.

Hope your ds is feeling better now lulu, my ds had a nasty bump the other day he seems to get them very regularly, he's not perfected running yet.

I am so tired tonight. I am going to bed in a minute. I feel like I could just sink into a deep sleep - down to the bone tiredness.

I hate things like that Ducky. I would speak to the organiser and let her deal with it.
I hate cliquey groups of mums as well. That is why I like DS's nursery because there are never groups there with everyone just dropping off and collecting. I think some of them go out for a pizza together at the local Italien but I am not bothered about being part of that.

DS has a bump and a bruise on his forehead. He fell and hit his head on the coffee table. He sobbed It took ages to calm him down. He keeps pointing to it and going 'ooooh'. DH has kissed it better a dozen times since he came in.

Ha will speak to her next week then and see how it goes. I dread him turning up! But his mom just doesn't care she just watched on chatting she is a big scary monster tbf

He's all better now

I have no idea how to handle this so figured you lot could help ds goes to a play group, there's one kid there who is vile. The first time we went, he came up, pushed ds off a toy and took it. He then kicked ds in the face. Then he went up to a little girl and started slapping her round the face. No one says anything to him.
Every week he does something horrible to at least a few kids and no one says anything. This week he pushed ds over, he hit a little girl and then he hit a little boy over the head.
I figured out who his mom is but she's part of the big group of women who always go together and are friends with the organisers. There's only a couple of people who aren't in their 'group' who go.

What do I do? Do I say something to the kid if I see him doing anything? Do I speak to his mom? Who is very big and angry looking and sees him doing this but does nothing. Or do I speak to the organiser who is friends with the mom and will most likely take her side and then I'll most likely feel the wrath of their group.

It feels like being back in high school! I really wouldn't bother going but ds loves it there.

Haha I just ate a crunchie, after a huge dinner! I feel sick too

Hope ds1 is feeling better now cupcake

And poor ds leg! I would have had a melt down! Hope he's feeling better tomorrow.

Omg staying at a hotel the night sounds lovely!!

I'm exhausted. Ds was improving with his sleep, although still not sleeping through. But the past few nights he has actually woke up at 1/2am and screamed and kicked and threw himself about to get to. It was 1am today and I'm still trying to get him back to sleep.

Both in bed! Sounds good! Or maybe he doesn't understand but he knows something has happened iyswim.

That's what he does he arches his back! And he has a thing about dm's he just wants to stay there. He had a meltdown when we left earlier and kept running away and shaking his head when I told him he has to come home

I hope he learns soon! Every time he goes in his car seat he has a meltdown!!

Do you think maybe ds did understand about exh grandad and maybe he's a bit upset?

Yes I'm sure ds wouldn't understand, did he see him much? He has a junior bed/cot bed one with dinosaurs all over it I think I remember you saying that your ds had the terrible twos early, oh my god ds tantrums are mad! I can't believe the tantrums he can throw!

Thank you sunny still doesn't feel real!

I have my 'green notes' which aren't green anymore! They're blue and I don't like them I prefer the green ones.

I forgot to tell you, we went to mil the other week, h told her I was pregnant, her response was 'oh...... Did you do it for the money?' h is not speaking to her since. She's such a bitch.

Congrats ducky! Great to see all is well. Fingers crossed you have a smooth pregnancy x