April 2014 thread! - still continually supporting one another!

Cupcake, I hope tomorrow goes well and everything is sorted and you get a good answer there and then. Will be thinking about you.

Can DS2 not stay in your room a bit longer if you don't want him in with DS1?

I haven't been working the last couple of weeks Ducky. It is consultancy so I can pick and choose. I told my friend that until exams are over I am not pickng anything up because I want to have as little pressure as possible while DH is so pressured, so I can support him. I won't do any projects for the next month.

Sounds like you have had a tough week cupcake

Can stbxh have them both to give you a break?

Hope your appointment goes well. Does stbxh know about it?

Will ds2 be in nursery while your at work? You might enjoy it having a break.

How's your job going lulu?

It's great isn't it lulu! And mad what they learn so quick!

today ds fell over and scraped his knee. He then ran round to everyone pointing at his knee he didn't cry tho.

How you doing cupcake? Did you wear a support belt with ds2? I have been having bad hips already midwife told me she thinks I need to try physio and get a support belt but I have looked and there is so many. I'm so worried if it's this bad this early on.

I am loving him learning things. He knows bits of his body, the two cats, granny and grandad - points to them in photos, buggy- runs to it when I say, ducks- points to them and makes a noise a bit like a quack, coat- will fetch it like yours, his meerkat grub which we call Grubbo. I love him knowing things. I think he is a genius

That's really good of your ds talking!

My ds doesn't really say much, he says mam, da, nan, cat, dog. But he understands a lot, he knows his hair, eyes, ears, nose, belly, feet, toes and things like his clothes he can fetch himself. Oh he tries to meow as well!

Yes Ducky, when he first changed jobs. He is just tired and working too hard and stressed. He knows and is keeping a check and taking a telling - my raised eyebrow is a good sign apparently that he might need to chill. He has been out for a run tonight and we are going to bed for a cuddle up- he's in the shower. He needs some sleep.

How is your DS doing with talking? DS is coming along nicely - mumum, dada, kit (cat), mow (meow), NO, soos(shoes), me, iss (yes) , milk, dat (that), bambam (camper) and sounds for please and thank you. Lots of nods and head shaking.

I didn't have a clue where to go from there really I just took ds out to the park and didn't go back until after he'd gone to work. Ds had a great time. I honestly thought he had changed after everything that happened, now I'm worried things are very slowly slipping back to how they were.

Oh no lulu, he went like that before didn't he. Hope he snaps out of it soon.

Bloody grumpy men!

Liar liar pants on fire! Where do you go from there Ducky? It is a difficult one. Have you felt things are slipping back? Have you thought he has genuinely changed.

DH is just grumpy and tired at the moment - he is trying not to be but it is the run up to exams and he is working all hours. Will be in work every day at half term at the end of May running A level and GCSE revision classes. I am letting him get on with it- if he does not do it he will just worry about it. Trying to be supportive at home but not putting up with grumpy.

Cupcake my 12 week is 19may... I think!

I told him. He denied it. I told him I saw it. He said he doesn't remember sending it

Cupcake, try not to worry. Easier said than done I know but the chances of it being anything awful at your age would be miniscule. You have just given birth so it could only have been there a very short time. Much more likely to be a cyst or something hormonal. I would be scared too but try not to be. I have had three lots of treatment for severely abnormal cells but it was sorted and I have been clear for years now. It is very worrying when it happens but most things are sortable now.

Ducky, tell him you saw it and demand to know what it means. Don't let him get away with it. He was being disrespectful at the very least and you should call him on it.

I am lying in bed on my ipad.DH is asleep after telling me in detail all about Leeds social conditions in the 19th century.

Cupcake how bloody scary for you. Have they gave you any idea what it could be?

I know it probably won't help but I have 2 friends who had the exact same thing happen, both turned out to be completely harmless cyst things.

Really hope it's all ok for you.

Is anyone going with you for support?

Hmm not sure how to take this I was just doing ds some toast, I came in the lounge and he had h's phone opened on a message (h in bed).

The message was between him and some guy. I was v nosy and read what it said and it went like this:

Guy: how are you? Last time we spoke your wife was messing you around.

H: we're OK, we're trying to sort things out. Just can't believe she called the filth on me.

Guy: yea, that was lame. Are you getting on ok now?

H: she looked terrified of me, so I left, then she calls the filth. Mad. the relationship is changing as we speak. What ever happens I'll be ok, it's my house anyway.

What has confused me is, I have no idea what e means by 'the relationship is changing as we speak' and wtf to 'it's my house anyway' it most definitely is not. It is mortgaged in both out names and until very recently I made every mortgage and bill payment without him contributing a penny!

But I can't tell him I looked

I hope mine stop if I take it

Will look into the patch cupcake! Haven't heard of that. The implant worries me, don't know if it's true or not but one of h's friends girlfriends had it, apparently she fell from quite a height and hit her arm on a rock. This broke the implant and poisened her and she was very ill. Might just be heresay but I really panic about these things.

It's been in the news loads about girls dying from taking the combined pill really scary stuff.

Ducky, mine are lighter but I still have them. I think you can have none or some people have heavier ones. I have had no problems with it.

That's the one I have been looking at lulu, does that stop af all together?

Weather is miserable here so we're stuck in!

I take Cerazette Ducky with being over 35. Haven't had any problems. You have to remember to take it at the same time each day though and not miss a day. I just take it with my cup of tea in the morning. I take thyroxine as well so it is just automatic every morning.

Hope everyone has a nice day. We are off for a walk.

Sounds scary cupcake but he will be in good hands. Poor little guy.

Sounds like a thrilling game lulu!

Are either of you on the pill? I need contraceptives after I have this baby but it scares me so much what has been in the news recently.

Well he doesn't actually put them away as in tidying up, just takes them out and puts them back straightaway- part of the game, seems fascinated by it. It is just a box of little things.The game is, pick it up, hold it, put it back, pick it up, wave it around, put it back or pick it up, put a bit of it in your mouth and put it back. It is very exciting, obviously.

I am lying on the bed. He has gone for a walk with DH.

DS2 will be fine with an anaesthetic Cupcake.It would be a very very light one.He would just be out minutes. Try not to worry.

When do you go to the DRs about you?