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April 2014 thread! - still continually supporting one another!

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Cupcake92 · 16/02/2016 11:03

New thread :)
I want to see lots of our old faces back!!
Come on girls!

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LuluJakey1 · 19/07/2016 20:34

How did it go Cupcake- did you get good news about the job?

DH finished work today. Hurrah! He is asleep on a sun lounger in the gaden after a can of beer!

Cupcake92 · 17/07/2016 08:00

Went really well !! :) I find out tomorrow if I've got it or not! But the nurse who interviewed me said I had an amazing interview.

And I've no idea what antibiotic begins with P lol cephalexin is usually the one they give for tonsillitis. I have to have erythromycin as I'm allergic to penicillin :(
Aw bless him! I'm glad he's starting to feel better now :) hopefully this time next week he'll be himself again.

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duckyisback · 16/07/2016 15:08

How did it go cupcake?

That's rubbish of the estate agents Angry

I can't remember the name, it's a long name beginning with p, it doesn't say penecillin but the nurse said it was.... That makes sense to you!

He's definitely feeling much better. Still not eating much and very very tired tho, he missed out on a lot of sleep the past few days!

Cupcake92 · 16/07/2016 00:01

Ducky took him about a week in the end. But all I can say is Deffo just wait till they are ready to do it. Like when they start telling u when they have soild their nappy.

Oh i give up on letting agents the sly buggars!!! Angry I called asking a women to speak to the person who was dealing with us and the house, she said she's not in and will be bs l tomorrow can I help? So I asked if she knew if the guarantors were okay and then she told me... 'Um I'm not quite sure what u are on about as your not the person who has let the house. We let it to a different party last night.'
Safe to say I kicked off and I don't think I'll be able to let a house from them any time soonGrin

Ducky what antibiotics is ds on?

Thanks lulu , it's for a HCA with the opportunity to train to take blood! :)
Lol!'
Oo sounds like ds is too energetic to sleep Grin hour he slept for u lulu!

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LuluJakey1 · 15/07/2016 21:38

Hope you get the job Cupcake. What is it? Really good luck tomorrow.

DS, who should be in bed but woke up an hour ago and is sitting next to DH on the sofa, is chattering away to himself saying 'Tit-tit, tit-tit, tit-tit, tit-tit' No idea what he is on about. DH is chuckling away and repeating it which is making DS giggle and say it more. pathetic dad role model

duckyisback · 15/07/2016 21:07

That's great of ds! How long did it take in the end? I'm a bit confused on how to do it all.

Oh how exciting! Good luck for tomorrow Grin really hope you get it.

Did you hear back from the house?

I started to write a complaint to the GP practice secretary but stopped because I was worried that it may affect the care we get Hmm

Ds still isn't right but today we have seen a huge improvement on how he has been. For the first time in a week he has eaten breakfast, a couple of small snacks and most of his dinner. We couldn't get him eating at all before so it's good.

Bit worried though, he had the anti biotics from the hospital, the doctor there said to give him them morning, noon and night, so that's what I had been doing since Tuesday. I noticed this morning on the bottle in really small writing it says give it 4 times a day Confused started that from today, just hope it doesn't affect them working.

Cupcake92 · 15/07/2016 20:14

Eugh what an awful GP ducky!!

How's ds feeling today?

Ds1 is fully potty trained for a while now. He takes himself off to the toilet, then all I get is 'mum!!! I've finished!!' GrinGrin

I've got a big big interview for a job at the hospital tomorrow and I'm so so nervous !

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duckyisback · 13/07/2016 08:49

That was the same GP who told me he had a cold and I was overreacting when infact he had bronch and the hospital said he wouldn't have made it through the night! And he told me he just had gastro for weeks when he had milk allergy. I kept trying to correct him and he'd get snappy. He's an idiot!

How's ds1 doing with his potty training now?

Cupcake92 · 13/07/2016 07:52

Oh I am so glad ds has done meds that are actually making him better!!

Now as for the gp, u should seriously be making a complaint!
All his a&e trip will be on his file so u need to make a complaint. Because if a doctor is missing something as obvious as tonsillitis then God knows what else he could be missing from other patients! Life treating things maybe? I'd Deffo complain!
Poor ds :( im glad he's feeling a bit more like himself. Flowers

I'm going to the chemist today to get some heartburn things Grin I was in agony last night!! Grin

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duckyisback · 13/07/2016 06:27

Have you sorted a guarantor?

Oooh I hate heartburn I get it so bad when pregnant! I was prescribed gaviscon pretty early on this time.

Went to the Drs and kept saying I wanted a referral to the hospital and they kept saying no they won't as they have checked him and he is fine. I told them I bet I end up and a&e and they said if I did that I would be wasting their time as it wasn't an accident or emergency.

In the evening he got worse, he was screeching non stop, literally dripping with sweat and shaking, he wanted to be picked up but didn't want to be touched at all. I went to a&e.

They found out he has quite bad tonsillitis, apparently his tonsils have swelled (is that a word? Hmm) right up so its no wonder he couldn't eat. They gave him anti biotics and more numbing sprays and told me to keep him on calpol or nurofen for the temperatures.

When we got home I gave him his meds and I couldn't believe the change in him. For the first time in 3 days he ate food and was asking for more. He had another bad night but it won't work straight away then he got up and had 3 bowls of porridge!!

I'm pretty pissed at the GP though, I kept saying to him that ds was repeatedly grabbing his throat and the GP looked in his mouth and said everything was fine.

Cupcake92 · 12/07/2016 21:52

They said I need a guarantor! So now waiting for call tomorrow to check all is okay with that!

Oh ducky bless him :( I'd go and demand him to be referred and seen at hospital. Can't be nice for poor ds :(
What happened today? Did u go to the doctors? How's he feeling?

I'm 5 weeks today. And have had really bad heartburn most of the day :( I'm in agony!

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duckyisback · 12/07/2016 09:08

How exciting cupcake! Fingers crossed you hear quickly!

He's bad again today. Been up since 2am after hourly wake ups. Ended up calling 111 and at 4am they wanted me to drive to the other side of the city to see a dr but I just couldn't do it, I was so tired I thought it would be too dangerous. They told me they send an e mail to my dr saying ds needs to be seen at the hospital this morning but I have just called the Drs and they're saying I have to go in to them first. I think they're going to say they won't refer me, if that happens in going to have to go to a&e Sad poor ds is so tired but just can't sleep. Just wish I could make it go away.

He won't be put down at all and won't eat/drink much.

Cupcake92 · 12/07/2016 05:08

Oh ducky doctors are rubbish that's always the excuse! It's viral Hmm
I hope he starts to feel better soon.

Tho I think things are going round. I've woken up feeling awful. Like a bad cold but coughing is very painful for my chest.

And no they gave me no timeframe, just said they are waiting on the landlord to call them back then they will call me go let me know. I hope I get it! It's got a lovely big garden. And a garage to shove all my junk in Grin

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duckyisback · 11/07/2016 21:14

He got worse today Sad even with calpol and being stripped off his temp was 38 at the lowest but usually around 39 something. He won't eat and is hardly drinking either. Took him to docs and they gave him a thorough check over and couldn't find any infection or anything, they said its viral.... As usual. I hate seeing him like this Sad

Going to see how he goes the next day or so and if he's not getting better will take him to hospital for another opinion.

Cupcake that's wicked news about the house! Do they give a timeframe of when you will know?

Cupcake92 · 11/07/2016 19:30

Aw ur poor ds :( I hope his temp drops soon! Doesn't help when it's hot and sunny outside !

That's so strange of H :/ maybe he's doing it so u give up and just continue? I'm not sure :/ might be a tactic of his. Men usual are in denial tho.

I found a house today (finally!!) and its opposit the road I already live on Grin it's perfect and 3 beds :) so ds1 and ds2 will share if I have a girl or ds2 and dc3 will share if it's a boy. I'm waiting on a call back to see if the landlord has accepted me for it.

I've completely come off my antidepressants but started to become really anxious and stressed like before :/ I'm worried that the doc will put me back on the antidepressants. :/

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duckyisback · 11/07/2016 04:53

Lulu does your ds still have naps in the day usually? Ds still has one most days, if he doesn't he is so difficult to keep up til bed time!

Glad he's feeling better cupcake, what a good boy speaking to the Drs!

My ds is stil poorly Sad we have been up and down stairs since about 3am. I'm so so tired Sad even with calpol and stripped off his temp is 39. He's never had such a high temp for so long.

No luck on a house yet. I'm still looking. I just don't know what on earth is going on with h though, he is in complete denial! He is even on about having even more children and I just don't know how to react any more.

Cupcake92 · 10/07/2016 22:58

It was terrifying ducky. I was panicking that he was gonna stop breathing as he was really struggling.
He's absolutely fine now :) the doctors said it was just a spontaneous thing that happened, not a virus or an allergic reaction.
I was so proud of how good he was in hospital. Answered all the doctors questions like a big boy :)

I hope ur ds is alright ducky. How's he doing tonight? I hope u both manage to sleep well!
Have u found a house yet ducky?

Lulu they just gave him steroids to open his airway up. And he's all fine now which is good! It was just scary :(
Lulu ur ds could be hitting the terrible 2's early! Grin my ds is almost 3 but already a teenager!!

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LuluJakey1 · 10/07/2016 18:12

Had he had an allergic reaction to something Cupcake? What did they do?

DS is having little waily tantrums these days. Today's was over him not being able to get the cats to come and play with him. They took themselves off and lay on the shed roof in the sun snoozing. He was beside himself because he couldn't reach them and they would not come down.

DH and I went and sat on the patio and left him to it. He threw himself on the lawn and eventually got distracted by the clover Hmm which he picked and brought across to me. He has had to have a nap.

duckyisback · 10/07/2016 11:05

Oh no cupcake how scary. Sad is he fully recovered now? Was it just a virus that did that or something? And as for ds2, what a star!

Ds has been up all night too, no idea what was wrong but he was burning up and kept waking then around 10.30ish he woke up absolutely dripping in sweat and boiling. I had to strip all his bed. I gave him some calpol, biscuits and a drink while I did it then put him back to bed in just some pajama trousers ( he takes his nappy off if he doesn't have trousers!) and he woke around every 15/30 mins.

He's just gone for a nap so I am following!

Cupcake92 · 10/07/2016 10:28

Spent the night in A&E with ds1 last night. It was awful :( he could hardly breathe. He was really struggling to take a breath and making weird noises. Doctor said his airway was swollen and he was given steroids. He also threw up everywhere and ended up being naked with just a hospital blanket on Grin
He's fine this morning thank god, and said he liked going to 'the doctors house' and said they made him better which is nice! :)
Ds2 was an angel he woke up but stayed In his pram and was just so quiet just taking it all in bless him.

Gosh I need a whole week in bed now Grin

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Siarie · 07/07/2016 21:27

Wow, my email dropped the latest video of yours about the pregnancy cupcake and I thought I better see what's occurred Grin

Hope you are all doing well, dd is almost 15 months now!

duckyisback · 07/07/2016 07:42

Cupcake don't worry, I know it's easier said than done but with ds I had no symptoms what so ever until I got spd later on.
Ds is forever hitting his head, he always has a bruise!

That's a nice break for you lulu, who was your holiday again? Are you still using your camper van?

Cupcake92 · 06/07/2016 22:07

Hope the scan goes well tomorrow I'm sure all will be okay :)
Aww poor ds :( I'm sure he will be okay, just keep an eye on him through the night. Bless him.
Ds1 has a bit head so is forever banging it Grin tho today it was his fault, he was playing some sort of superhero game and head butted the arm of the sofa Grin

And my ds1 is the same he has every possible you out he can!
Oh and lulu the car I have in my lounge is and electric quad bike Hmm it's noisy and so annoying! Be happy you only have a little tykes car there Grin

I've got no pregnancy symptoms at all yet. Confused I don't even feel nauseous. It's getting me worried that it's not going to be a viable pregnancy Confused

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LuluJakey1 · 06/07/2016 22:07

I will start again in September - have already had some requests for support from schools. We are just looking firward to the summer and our holiday.

DS does not understand it as putting things away, it is just entertainment for him. Easily pleased Grin

duckyisback · 06/07/2016 21:22

It's good he puts it back, my ds still hasn't got the hang of that bit yet... Hopefully it will come.

Are you back at work now? Or taking time off with dh still?