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April 2014 thread! - still continually supporting one another!

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Cupcake92 · 16/02/2016 11:03

New thread :)
I want to see lots of our old faces back!!
Come on girls!

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Cupcake92 · 27/07/2016 19:31

I hope mine only lasts a week. I feel awful :( it's really bad today.

Yes school! Just 1 year to go it feels so unreal. He's my big baby!!

Oh no I hope u feel better soon ducky :( n that's always the case with men. Even Hayfever is a near death situation for them!!

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duckyisback · 27/07/2016 06:26

I had that cupcake but it only lasted for a week or so which was strange. It was bloody horrible thought Sad I would end up giving my dinner to the dogs every night.

OMG your ds is starting school next year! That's mad!

I've had tonsillitis and this cold ds had and it's horrible. Feel like crap. But what's worse is h has got it (kind of, he sniffled the other day) so it's the end of the world, he's so ill. He's worse than anyone apparently. He even went to work and went and spoke to his boss about how ill he was Blush

Cupcake92 · 26/07/2016 21:43

Eugh I'm getting fed up of being so hungry, making a really nice dinner, then start eating it and feel like im going to throw up! Sad I end up throwing most my dinner away but I'm so hungry!! Just can't eat properly as the nausea is so bad :(

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Cupcake92 · 25/07/2016 21:34

It's a good idea to spread the cost ducky. I bet it helps a lot on the financial side!
Gosh can u believe ull have 2 DC's by xmas! Shock
It'll come round fast before u know it!

Yes I know he's growing up :( he goes to school next year in September as soon as he turns 4! Sad

I'll have a look at those hair dyes :) been wanting a really nice purple for ages now.

Omg ducky! That's brilliant about ur ds and his sleep!! Woo!!! Go ds! :)

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duckyisback · 25/07/2016 19:53

Oh my ds is doing really well, most nights he sleeps through until 5.45, which is a definite improvement! He went bad again when he was poorly but that is too be expected! A couple of days ago he slept until 6.40am! That's the most sleep id had in At least 2 years!

duckyisback · 25/07/2016 19:32

He's not 2 until December! But I like to be organised and spread the cost as he's 2 then it's Christmas and I will have 2!

Can't believe your ds is turning 3 Shock it seems to have gone so quick!

Yes the colours are pretty cheap on e bay if you have a look, just search for directions hair dye, you can get the tubs for £2/3. They're only semi permanent so need re doing every few weeks but they're good for price and colours etc. And anything you don't use you can just pop the lid back on and re use it later. Smile

Cupcake92 · 25/07/2016 19:00

Might have to have a look at that colour it's so nice :)

His sleep has improved a bit yes, he wakes up once every single night tho. But that is so much better than several times in a night. How's ur ds doing with sleep?

When ds was turning 2 he got an electric quad bike which he loves and still plays on now!
Also got him a small play tent and balls and made it a little ball pit.
Also an easel (sp?) so he can draw pictures on with chalk.
Ummmm sticker books, a walking talking minion as he's obsessed with them Grin

Getting him his first push bike this year :) it's his birthday in like 3 weeks Grin he's also got a new Wendy house and a slide too.
Going to also take him to cadburys world on his birthday! Grin now I know he'll love that as he's a chocolate monster!

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duckyisback · 25/07/2016 10:12

It's a directions one cupcake, called dark tulip. I bet it won't come out on my hair like that though.

Oh wow go ds1! Has his sleep improved now?

What type of things did you get for ds1 for Christmas/birthdays when he was 2? I know it's very early but I like to spread the cost but have no idea what to get ds for his birthday Hmm he loves Thomas the tank engine at the moment but he changes his mind very quickly.

Cupcake92 · 25/07/2016 07:15

Oh my god! What colour is that? I love it!!!!

Awww that's great ducky!! :) I didn't feel ds2 for a long time. I bet it was exciting to feel her! :)

Ds2 is like a squeaky mouse this morning. Keeps making sweeping noises and then laughing. He's got so much energy!
Ds1 on the other hand is in bed still. Had to leave him in bed and come down to feed ds2 his breakfast. Grin

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duckyisback · 25/07/2016 07:02

Oooh cupcake, I am just waiting for my due to turn up! Hopefully it comes today because my hair is a mess! It's a washed out pink at the moment. Have attached a pic of the colour I just ordered, it's a purply one.

Yes I think it's just because of my placenta. Although yesterday afternoon I felt her for the first time from the outside Smile

April 2014 thread! - still continually supporting one another!
Cupcake92 · 24/07/2016 22:28

Oh wow lulu that's great! Bet u feel fantastic! :)
I'm not too sure about the maternity pay yet, but I'm sure I'll get it. I'll certainly get more than I did with ds2.
And yes a phlebotomist is someone who takes blood :) I'm not one of those tho. I'm a healthcare assistant, but yes it's something to make a career out of. I can slowly train to be an assistant practitioner. Which doesn't everything a nurse does minus prescriptions. And then if I wanted I could do my diploma to become a nurse.

Hope ds slept in for u!

Ducky that's exactly like my hair atm. I want to dye it purple tho. Just don't know who I'm gonna go about doing that yet!
Is that because of where ur placenta is positioned ducky?
I'm sure everything will be fine on your next scan.
I have 5 weeks till my 12 week scan! Sad it's so so far away!!

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duckyisback · 23/07/2016 20:44

So happy for you cupcake Grin

I have had my hair cut off too, it's a bob but longer at the front iyswim.

I'm 22+3 now, feels really slow here too! Still not feeling much movement Sad have another scan in 2 weeks so I Spose I'll know more then.

LuluJakey1 · 22/07/2016 22:20

Mine is really shory Cupcake - like a boy crop. It can't be dried with a brush because it is so short. I think a quick towel dry will do it. Grin
I have managed to lose 12lbs too so am feeling very happy with myself- thinnest I have been in 8 years. DH has never seen me this thin. (I am still a size 14). TBH he isn't bothered what I weigh as long as I am happy. He's not exactly SlimJim himself. I am sort of straight up and down now - lost some tummy and midriff. Have had to buy some new clothes. Grin Not lots - just jeans and some cropped trousers, a couple of pairs of shorts and a dress. I have plenty of tops that I can wear. New swimming costume - not a bikini. Don't think I will ever wear a bikini.

Will you get full maternity leave and pay at your new job Cupcake? It sounds like something that could turn into a career - is it called phlebotomist (the person who takes the blood)? My old neighbour used to be one.

DS didn't go to bed until after 8 tonight so we are hoping he sleeps late in the morning and we get a lie in.

Cupcake92 · 22/07/2016 21:55

I go in on Monday to hand in ID for my crb and as soon as that's back I do my weeks training at the hospital and then start straight after :) so excited!

Ducky, I'm 6+3! It's going super slow!
How are u feeling?

Lulu how exciting!! I hope I have a lovely time, tho I'm sure u all will! :)
I've also had my hair cut very short lulu. I've had it cut into a short bob. It's very different not sure I like it yet!

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LuluJakey1 · 22/07/2016 18:10

We are going on holiday on Monday. Can't wait. Am not lookng forward to the journey but once we get there it'll be great.
Two flights - both short. Then a 2 hour drive. PIL's friend have a grandson DS 's age so they will be waiting at the airport with their old car and a car seat and there is stuff in the house for DS. They are doing a shop for us and we'll pay them. Then we've got 3 weeks alone. It's a really rural village. The house has a swimming pool so that will be great for DS. It is walled off so he'll be safe. It isn't far from the coast and from Cognac. I am so looking forward to going again- it is where DH and I spent our first holiday and our honeymoon.
We have made some friends - Guy who owns the vineyard and the big house - and a middle-aged French couple Jacques and Jacquie, and an elderly English ex-pat couple who are like a throwback to the 1950s and very lovely. She is called Bunty and just makes me giggle with stories about being a nurse in the navy after the war. She talks about 'gels' and they are women in their late 80s. They are terribly posh. They will love DS, they haven't met him yet.
It is very peaceful- fields of sunflowers and olive groves and little towns with big rivers slowly flowing through them. We have been talking about it for weeks.
I've had my hair cut really short so I don't have to do anything to it. DH has had his done on a number3 and it just looks like thick grey stubble. The beard has gone too. DS has had a trim!

duckyisback · 21/07/2016 22:17

Fantastic news cupcake Grin well done!

I looked at the Chinese chart for dd1 and ds and it was correct, didn't look this time though. How many weeks are you now ?

LuluJakey1 · 21/07/2016 10:39

Fantastic! Congratulations Cupcake, that is great. Really pleased for you. When do you start? 🌟

Cupcake92 · 21/07/2016 10:35

I GOT THE JOB!!! WOO!!! GrinGrin

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Cupcake92 · 21/07/2016 07:43

Oh a downpour sounds lovely right now lulu!
Thankfully it's cooler this morning and was cooler last night also so the DC's slept well.

Ur ds may have known snails are a delicacy and wanted to try them Grin and as for the sausage senario, I've had that many times with ds1 Grin bless him.

Well I called up about the job yesterday and they apologised and said they are a bit delayed but I should hear back today. So I'll be sat staring at my phone all day again Grin

Can i ask did any of u do a Chinese gender perdition and it was right?

I did one for both ds's and it was right and I did one for this baby and it says girl. I hope it's right! But can't get my hopes up Grin

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LuluJakey1 · 20/07/2016 23:03

Tonight the wailing was because he wanted DH to sleep in his cot with him Hmm DH 6ft 1 and 14 stone.

We also had a bit of a tantrum because he wanted one of the sausages on DH's plate at tea, not the one on his plate. Dh swopped the sausage and swopped it back and DS ate it happily!

LuluJakey1 · 20/07/2016 14:00

We have had thunder and lightening and a downpour for about 15 mins this morning. It has cooled everything down but is sunny again now.

DS had waily tantrum because we wouldn't let him in the garden in the storm. Yesterday it was because I stopped him licking a snail he had found out there. Grin

Cupcake92 · 20/07/2016 11:08

Lulu ds1's room was reading 30degrees all night almost!
It was awful! None of the kids slept due to being far too hot. Had the windows open, fan on full blast and nothing was cooling them or me down.

I'm hoping tonight is cooler!

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LuluJakey1 · 19/07/2016 22:48

It is so hot tonight!

DS is asleep in his nappy with an elctric fan on in the room. No covers.

DH and I are lying naked, 6 inches apart because he radiates heat, two electric fans, all the bedroom windows open. No bedding except bottom sheet and we have had a cold shower. Same as last night but hotter I think.
Awful.

Cupcake92 · 19/07/2016 21:18

Still waiting to bloody hear :/

Driving me insane!!

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duckyisback · 19/07/2016 21:02

Just checking for a job update Grin

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