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The craziness that is TTC after stopping the pill. On this thread we have 100 day cycles, do weeks of opks and send ovia into a fit with our ever changing fertile windows! Welcome.

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Sunnydays321 · 29/01/2016 07:12

Hi ladies,

This is the 2nd thread following on from

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2452018-Waiting-to-try-and-cycle-a-mess-from-the-pill

For everyone who is entering the madness that is Ttc after stopping the pill. Maybe to start the thread we could all post our stats, so we remember where everyone is at and don't have to check the old thread. X

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lawyeredout82 · 17/02/2016 19:37

Yvonne that's so lovely sharing the news with family - for me it was the best bit for DD!! Xxx

lawyeredout82 · 17/02/2016 19:36

All ok here thanks Chapman - I guess I am in my tww as we DTD Sunday night after solid smiley opk on Sunday morning and nothing since then on docs orders. Assuming I ovulated within a couple of days I guess I am only 1 or 2 dpo! Feels like forever until af is due to come round which has made me a bit miserable. Bah.

Yvonne1986 · 17/02/2016 19:14

I've been trying since Sept so six months this was the first cycle with OPKs tho so FX they work some magic for you all too! I did buy them in my 2nd cycle but threw them away as you do become a bit obsessed but then I decided to try using them again this cycle and they worked! DH was totally speechless! Just told his Dad tonight he was so happy he cried Smile we did say we wouldn't tell anyone until after the scan as its such early days but we couldn't help ourselves!! Only telling close family tho xx

Loulabelle1990 · 17/02/2016 17:50

I hope your headaches eventually go shankate. It's not nice having headaches all the time. You must have very good willpower if you can hold off testing until March!!

cnchapmanxx · 17/02/2016 17:48

Afternoon girls! Sorry I haven't been on much today I've been depressed and feeling sorry for myself 😂
I've decided this month I'm going to step it up with the opk sticks I haven't really been doing them recently but I feel like I'm missing my ov because I'm assuming I'm going to ov on day 14! So as soon as I'm off my period I'm poas!!! Woman on a mission this month!

yvonne how are you today lovely? How did DH take it?? so happy for you was it 6 months trying?? X

cookie how are you Hun has the witch showed up? Fx she hasn't and sorry for your bfn this morn it's so upsetting isn't it!

lou great news that AF has showed get using them opks!

Poin, first, sunny, bobo, eggs, lawyered, bee any news how are yous today! Xxx

shankate182 · 17/02/2016 17:47

Still getting these headaches :( af is due in 10 days :( hopefully the bitch stays away :) I'm going to test in March if AF doesn't arrive the 27th

Loulabelle1990 · 17/02/2016 17:40

Thanks poin and Yvonne. I am going to invest in some of the cheap OPK's from Amazon. When do you think the best time to start doing it will be?

I spoke to my GP about temping but he said to have to lie down for at least 30 mins beforehand and I don't think it's as accurate!

How long have you been trying for Yvonne? xx

Yvonne1986 · 17/02/2016 15:41

No nothing really apart from some lower back pain how ru getting on x

firstgo1984 · 17/02/2016 15:27

Did you have any symptoms Yvonne?

Poin86 · 17/02/2016 15:18

Definitely get OPKS Lou! They really help with timings Smile xx

Yvonne1986 · 17/02/2016 14:53

Sorry about your BFN Cookie any sign of AF fx it's just too early still has you don't know exactly how long after your positive OPK you ovulated xx

That's a good sign you have had your first period Lou I waited so long after stopping the pill for mine! Ru going to temp or use OPKs this cycle x

Poin86 · 17/02/2016 11:02

Lou it'll be a proper period now I'd say. Withdrawal bleeds if you're going to get them are normally straight away.

Cookie sorry about your BFN. Still got everything crossed for you.xx

Loulabelle1990 · 17/02/2016 10:43

Oh wow congratulations Yvonne! You and your DH must be over the moon Smile. It just takes patience and hard work!

Sorry about your bfn cookie, but like the others say, your not out till AF arrives!

I have had a development as AF has finally turned up. It's the first bleed I've had since coming off the pill in December, so would this be like my withdrawal bleed or a proper period! Feels like a proper period to me!

shankate182 · 17/02/2016 09:56

Sorry about you BFN cookie :(
At least ur cycles are back to normal xx

Cookie22 · 17/02/2016 08:02

Agnus castus has seemed to work for me in regulating my cycles! Going from 56+ day cycles to 34/35 days. I'd definitely recommend! (Tho today is CD 34 for me & still no AF so maybe I'm in for a long one this month!) xx

eggsinthefridge · 17/02/2016 07:54

Sorry about the bfn cookie, but you're not 100% out til the witch arrives.

Watching with interest bobo. I've not heard of agnus castus but I have very irregular cycles, so it might be worth a try for me.

BoBo90 · 17/02/2016 07:13

Congratulations Yvonne!! 😄 You must be so excited! I can't wait until I get to tell dh that news must be so lovely to see their reaction 😊

Af has buggered off at last. 5-6 day period is about right compared to pre-pill so I'm hoping that's a sign you body is sorting itself out! Immow taking Agnus castus to help. Anyone here had any luck with Agnus castus and regulating cycles? X

Cookie22 · 17/02/2016 07:03

Glad it went well telling DH Yvonne. It'll probably start sinking in today so exciting! BFN on Frer today @14dpo. Gutted! Really had my hopes up as my nipples have been very sensitive since yest morning (I never get any sort of boob pain, even around AF!). Looks like I'm just waiting for the witch to rock up now! Xx

shankate182 · 16/02/2016 22:55

Yvonne
I know u have me kept positive I'm just not gona give up and keep trying :) and FX I got that BFP soon :)

Yvonne1986 · 16/02/2016 22:51

Well to say DH was shocked would be an understatement I think he had convinced himself it wasn't happening!! He is over the moon I was all tearful telling him Smile it is really early days for you Shan I think you just expect it to happen 1st cycle but I go to show it does happen later on too xxxxx

shankate182 · 16/02/2016 22:31

Hey everyone
Yvonne how did telling DH go
About 6 people came over to me today congratulating me about the baby news 😅 but there is no baby news? Was pissing me off big time :(
Yvonne DH keeps saying the same to me that it's his fault I'm not pregnant yet? I keep telling him we are only trying 2 months but he's depressed over it big time :/

eggsinthefridge · 16/02/2016 21:35

Congratulations Yvonne! So pleased for you. How did telling DH go?

Yvonne1986 · 16/02/2016 20:20

I get EWCM a few days after Ovulation too so FX you caught it x

lawyeredout82 · 16/02/2016 20:08

Fantastic news Yvonne! Glad to hear of a positive story tonight 😃

Anyone know why I might only have got ewcm today despite having a solid smiley on Sunday (sorry if tmi!!)? I thought ewcm usually came before positive opk? If so it looks as if I may have missed the boat as doctor said no BD for two weeks yesterday and last time we DTD was Sunday night. Bah.

Cookie22 · 16/02/2016 20:01

Aww bless yous! Can't wait to hear about his reaction! Must be an amazing feeling knowing you've got a wee person growing inside of you! Xx