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Pregnant three weeks after miscarriage?! Could I be?!

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HopefulKate1980 · 23/01/2016 17:59

HI all

I am brand new to this so forgive me if I sound stupid but I would LOVE some advice or shared stories.

I had a mmc on the 6th Jan - it was our 2nd miscarriage in six months after 18 months of struggling to get pregnant. I was utterly devastated but didn't want to lose any time so as soon as the bleeding stopped (about 2 weeks after surgery), we had sex twice.... and now six days later, I am getting all the pregnancy signs I had the last 2 x I have been pregnant. Bloated, smelly wee (sorry!), wind (sorry again!), aversion to booze (amazing, considering how low I have been!) and just that feeling.

Is this possible??! Any help would be amazing! I did an ovulation test shortly before we had sex and it was a strong positive but I know that could still be the HCG from the previous pregnancy.

I am crossing every limb possible that I am pregnant again. But I have NO idea if this is possible.

Thanks in advance for any help!

xx

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DoverGirl · 24/05/2020 23:55

Your story is very encouraging! I'm going through something similar. I love reading other women's experiences, it gives me so much hope after so many bad days Flowers

Momof5under4 · 05/05/2020 01:48

@Alexisb20 I had a miscarriage January 20th and my husband and I don't believe in birth control so I was waiting for my hormones to drop so I could try to convince again. My levels wouldn't drop, so out of fear that the miscarriage was incomplete they sent me off for ultrasound. 7 weeks 3days after my miscarriage I was confirmed by ultrasound to be 5 weeks 5 days along with a detectable heartbeat! Hope this helps.

BeBeMePlease · 03/04/2020 22:17

Hi @Alexisb20. I haven'r had my cycle yet either after my miscarriage last month and I too am having symptoms. The best advice I can give is to wait. Your body may still have high hcg levels which may result in a false negative if you are trying to conceive. However, there may be a good chance that you are and if so, Congrats!

BeBeMePlease · 03/04/2020 22:15

I was in the same boat as you @HopefulKate1980 . I hope you had luck and a healthy baby to go along with it. Smile

Alexisb20 · 23/02/2020 06:52

The only sign I’m not feeling is soreness to my breast.

Alexisb20 · 23/02/2020 06:34

Hey my name is Alexis. I had a miscarriage at 5weeks on January 30th , I stop bleeding February 4th. My Partner and I didn’t waste no time February 6th we started trying again up until today. Lately I’ve been having the signs of pregnancy that I’ve had before I also feel this tingle feeling near my belly button. I still haven’t got my period yet after the miscarriage. Am I pregnant?

Haaleen77 · 08/11/2017 17:44

No one follows back on their stuff there would be a lot lets questions and forums out there if people just concluded what happened with them. Please can you state what happened in the end as a lot of people are going through this.

Thanks

HopefulKate1980 · 23/01/2016 20:49

Oh LaNouba! You give me hope! Thanks so much. Got everything crossed xx

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LaNouba · 23/01/2016 20:37

I can only share my own experience but I miscarried at 10 weeks and sure enough I was pregnant 3 weeks later- I think friends were shocked but it really does happen. Oh and I had the smelly urine too, it was my first sign with both pregnancies Good luck

maybebabybee · 23/01/2016 20:27

Same way you know you are ovulating any other time...I began temping again and checking my cervical fluid as soon as I stopped bleeding.

HopefulKate1980 · 23/01/2016 20:23

Thanks so much everyone. Sounds like my body is playing tricks on me!

When my boyfriend gets back from the pub, I am going to tell him we need to keep trying!

Does anyone have any tips on how you know you are ovulating after a miscarriage?

x

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TheFear · 23/01/2016 20:12

I had an Mmc also at ten weeks and it took almost 6 weeks before I stopped getting positive pregnancy tests.
Then had an early miscarriage at 7 weeks and ovulated again just over 2 weeks later, got pregnant that cycle and had ds.
I would say it's too soon for you to have ovulated and to have pregnancy symptoms. The positive test is more likely to be from the mmc.
But hope I'm wrong!

sleepyMe12 · 23/01/2016 20:10

I had an ERPC in early December 14 due to a MMC.
I fell pregnant again in early January 15, baby now a 15 week old bouncy baby boy Smile.
Flowers

seriouslywhat · 23/01/2016 20:03

I ovulated two weeks after a miscarriage at 6 weeks and fell pregnant (is now six weeks old and stuck to my boob). The miscarriage was very light, couple days, less than a period - though I bled at six weeks I think it may have stopped growing before that.

maybebabybee · 23/01/2016 19:59

I was pregnant again 3 weeks after a miscarriage, but it was a blighted ovum at 6 weeks so there was no foetus there to 'pass'...I only bled for 5 days and it was lighter than most of my periods.

Fingers crossed for you OP.

HopefulKate1980 · 23/01/2016 19:56

Thanks so much for all your advice. I will test again in a week. Wish me luck! And good luck to any of you who are trying too xx

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Quodlibet · 23/01/2016 19:33

I don't think you could have ovulated while still bleeding unfortunately. I would guess it would take at least a week between bleeding stopping and ovulation happening. So I think it's unlikely that you could have conceived straight after the bleeding stopped.

Miloarmadillo1 · 23/01/2016 19:30

Thank you for thinking of me while you are in the middle of it all. I had a DD who is now 20m old after going to Coventry University Hospital and being treated for high NK cells. Can't recommend them enough for anyone suffering from unexplained infertility or recurrent miscarriage.

Whatdoidohelp · 23/01/2016 19:27

It's too early to become pregnant again. Your hormones would need to settle down and restart a new cycle so it's moe likely that the hcg is from the lost pregnancy. Test again in a week. Hopefully you'll get a real positive soon enough!

HopefulKate1980 · 23/01/2016 19:25

Ooh fingers crossed for you too! God I hope we are both lucky this time round. Let me know. Are you avoiding caffeine booze etc in the meantime? Or just trying to continue life as normal and relax? Sorry if too many questions. I don't want to drink but just wondering whether to be careful about what foods I eat etc, and also since the MC, I have been having awful insomnia and have sleeping pills from the doctor, but I am reluctant to take them if I am pregnant or at least could be. Very hard to know what to do either way!

xx

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EchoesOfLeon · 23/01/2016 18:53

Hi Kate,

I'm in kind of the same boat, ERPC for MC on 3rd Jan. Have had some pregnancy type symptoms past couple of days so 3 weeks past MC.

However I don't do preg tests or Ov tests so I can't give advice on that. After a long time TTC I only do tests now when my period is late. It took 34 days for my period to come back after my last MC so unless symptoms ramp up massively and period doesn't arrive, I won't test until sometime in Feb.

My consultant also says fertility is higher after MC and the only reason doctors ever say to wait a month before TTC is so they can more accurately date the pregnancy.

Sorry this post is a bit long winded and pointless but just wanted to say that you aren't the only one! Fingers crossed for you.

lostinabook · 23/01/2016 18:49

Mc at 6 weeks over easter 2011 then conceived 3 weeks later we had dtd twice in that time hence knowing when it happened.

I knew within 2 weeks... Craving red meat and dairy like a madwoman... Couldn't bear the sight of any green veg

HopefulKate1980 · 23/01/2016 18:35

Oh wow, congrats lostinabook!

You have give me hope!

xx

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HopefulKate1980 · 23/01/2016 18:29

I had stabbing pains in my right hand side - which I took as ovulation pains, but tbh, I have never really looked out for ovulation pains before so I don't really know if that is what it was. It sounds stupid, but I just knew that I was ovulating and it was time to try again...

What signs did you get? How many weeks were you when you miscarried and how long after the m did you try again?

Thanks v much xx

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Iwillorderthefood · 23/01/2016 18:23

You might be, did you have any of your normal ovulation signs? I miscarried in 2008, and got pregnant before having a period, we tried as soon as I saw signs of ovulation. On the other hand it may be residual hcg.