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Anyone ttc baby #2 continued?

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FuzzyOwl · 23/12/2015 21:39

New thread, just in time for all our 2016 BFPs!

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FuzzyOwl · 27/01/2016 19:48

Hope everyone is doing ok this evening.

AF was due to arrive today but hasn't done yet. I had a tiny amount of brown mucus earlier which I am really hoping is implantation but I also got a very definite BFN, so not holding out much hope. FF says I am 12dpo so maybe it is just a bit early and it was an IC that I tested with...

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Gx91 · 27/01/2016 19:08

That's great Loki , must have bn a tough decision to make after everything Sad but I'm sure everything will b fine this time round , I wish u a very smooth journey and all the best , all here for u xxx
Thanks fiddle , I hope so too !
When r u going to test ? I found TWW the longest part of the whole thing aswell , it's woman torture ! Have u had any symptoms ? Fx for u xx

f1ddlesticks · 27/01/2016 18:25

Meant to say, so sorry DD isn't well Gx, hope you don't have too bad a night x

f1ddlesticks · 27/01/2016 18:24

Fx for you Kellz, hopefully you got enough DTD in close enough!

Hope everyone else has had a good day. Time seems to be passing so slowly! How can I only still be 8dpo? Am really clutching at any symptom I spot, hoping it might be a sign. Can't test til Sunday at the earliest!

Loki17 · 27/01/2016 18:23

I'm okay thanks, G. Gearing myself up to attempt ttc again. Hope you and bump are well xx

Gx91 · 27/01/2016 16:01

Hey all hope ur having a nice day ?
Kellz hope ur feeling better , and by the sounds of it uv done very well to dtd on all of those important days especially how uv been been rotten ! X fx for u xx
Hey Mimi , cd 30 , that's great ! When are u going to test again ? Hope u and DD are doing well X
Sorry for AF jen , good luck for a fresh new cycle , I know how annoying that sounds when all we want is just for it to happen , fx for u xx
I'm so tired today DD isn't well and temperatures have been over 38degrees so having to keep a close aye on her and dosing her up with calpol ! Feel so sorry for her , she's normally a chatter box but isn't saying much and just looks exhausted , she will probably b in bed with me again tonight which means another sleepless night Sad X
How's everyone's day going ?

Hope hoggle is getting all the support she needs Sadxx

Kellz92 · 27/01/2016 13:36

F1ddle I peaked Monday and Tuesday, DTD Sat, Sun, Mon but was out last night and got home just as DH went to work so hoping thats enough DTD around OV time.

Fuzzy Still DTD on Monday despite feeling rotten! Dunno if im stressed, dont feel it. Havent had a migraine since i was sitting my exams. I called the GP and he said it could be stress or my fibromyalgia, but if they persist go see him.

Mimi Not temping this month as DD had hid the thermometer and i only found it on CD10 so will start again next cycle. Hope youre well.

Pulled Fx for you hun!

Gx If they carry on ill go to Gp and see about getting some! I managed to DTD on Monday on the first day of peak, and both days at weekend so hope thats enough, however i have lost the feeling of being positive about ttc.

So sorry Hoggle hugs lovely.

Sorry for AF Jennie

Well with having a peak Monday Tuesday im guessing today is OV day. Im feeling bloated sicky and got pain in my left side. Hoping im not away to get a bug with the sicky feeling! Fx for this cycle but not too positive anymore.
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Pulledapart2015 · 27/01/2016 13:34

oh hoggle so sorry to hear that and really hope you have RL support around you. pls take care of yourself and as the ladies if you vent then pls come and do so. fx for you for a speedy recovery, massive virtual hugs xxx

thanks fuzzy still keeping my fx for a BFP as no sign of AF still x

mimi fx this is it x

hope ur day is going good all xxx

Mimilicious013 · 27/01/2016 12:58

Sorry for af jennie.best of luck next cycle.ever since ttc my cycles have been changing and becoming shorter.the last cycle was as short as 19.so i feel your frustration when af shows up before u even exhaust all symptoms .im on cd30 for the 1st time since ttc so am pretty hopeful.fx for everyone
hie gx f1

ditsygal · 27/01/2016 11:05

Hoggle I am so sorry to hear that, big hugs xxx

Gx91 · 27/01/2016 10:24

Hey Loki how have u been ? Hope ur doing well nice to see ur still on here xx

f1ddlesticks · 27/01/2016 08:59

Oh Hoggle how awful for you, I'm so very sorry to hear what's happened. That must have been such a terrifying experience and I really wish you all the best for your recovery. Positive I guess that doctors are positive about the future, but as others have said, get yourself mended first. Huge virtual hug, take care of yourself xx

Sorry to hear about AF Jennie, big hug for you too.

Mimilicious013 · 27/01/2016 05:56

Oohh so sorry hoggle.our thoughts and prayers are with you.wishing u a speedy recovery and that u relax and take care of yourself.u are a special lady to us and are so welcome if u ever need to vent or share((hugs))

Gx91 · 26/01/2016 22:31

Sorry sorry hoggle , That's so sad , uv been thru so much on here Flowers
Can't imagine how u are feeling but sending love and prayers your way and that u recover well X
Also thank u for playing a great part in supporting everyone on here , your lovely X
Wish u all the luck in the world for the future take care Flowersxx

CocklesandMussels · 26/01/2016 22:18

So sorry hoggle what a horrible thing to go through. Wishing you the smoothest recovery possible. I hope you've got some good RL support but here are some Flowers too x

Loki17 · 26/01/2016 21:41

So sorry Hoggle. There are no words.

jennielm · 26/01/2016 21:30

Oh Hoggle, that is so awful for you. So sorry to read this. Look after yourself and take time to recover. You have to do what's right for you, if that's a break, so be it. At least the Doctor is positive about the future, but you can park that for now, just concentrate on looking after yourself and your family for now. Big hugs.xx

FuzzyOwl · 26/01/2016 21:22

Sorry to hear about AF Jennie.

Hope you still get your BFP Pulled.

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Hopelass · 26/01/2016 21:21

Oh my god hoggle that must be terrifying and so upsetting, I am so sorry to hear what you've been/are going through Thanks
I hope you are feeling better very very soon and you are getting lots of love and support in rl. Take care and look after yourself and all the very very best in the future; I'm so glad your doctor is positive for future ttc. Best of luck and massive hugs xxx

FuzzyOwl · 26/01/2016 21:21

Oh Hoggle, I am so so sorry to hear what you have been through and I hope you have lots of RL support. Completely understand you backing away from the thread but you might get comfort from one of the ttc after a mc threads (I know I did and there were a few ladies who had had ectopic pregnancies on there, who all went on to have successful pregnancies). Take care of yourself and thinking of you. Flowersxx

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HoggleHoggle · 26/01/2016 21:15

Hello everyone, this is really difficult to write but unfortunately today I had some very bad news.

I had agonising cramps first thing this morning and went to A&E as I knew something was seriously wrong. Unfortunately my pregnancy was ectopic and I had to have emergency surgery. I have lost a huge amount of blood and one of my Fallopian tubes has been removed. I'm still very unwell and staying in hospital overnight. I'm exhausted but can't switch off, there's just been so much to take in and none of it seems real.

The doctor is being positive about my chances of becoming pregnant again which is a relief but I am very scared about the future. I will probably take a break from this thread, I hope you understand, there's just so much to get my head round and it will be a number of months at least before we can think about or want to ttc again.

Sending lots of love and luck to you all, and thanks so much for being a huge support over the last few months. I'm crossing my fingers for you all and those who are already pg I hope all continues to go well and you enjoy your little bundles xx

jennielm · 26/01/2016 20:49

Thanks pulled, i think the disappointment is partly because i fell so fast last time, but also the worry that that was 9 years ago and I'm now nearly 39. Really worried i won't fall. Confused

Pulledapart2015 · 26/01/2016 20:32

oh ((( jennie ))) sorry the wicked witch has appeared but fx for next cycle for you. don't get disheartened. Lots of Wine and Cake is in order for now I think and maybe even Chocolate Wink

I think I'm going to invest in that gel someone kindly mentioned up thread if AF appears this cycle. Although im due to see gynae next month anyway as it'll officially be a year of trying Sad was really hoping I'd be calling em and saying "hey don't need you lot now I'm preggers Grin" one can still hope x

jennielm · 26/01/2016 20:24

Well I'm out this month and gutted; AF appeared just before my gym session (cd25). It's silly, i know, and there could be many more months of this but for a tiny while i allowed myself to hope it would be easy and now i feel very sad. DH not really getting it so feel quite alone with feelings too. Really hope you guys all get your BFPs!!xx

Pulledapart2015 · 26/01/2016 18:43

awww gx that sounds like a horrible night. hope you've managed to get some rest and please try not to worry (easier said than done I know). fx crossed the cramps will stay away x

fuzzy I didn't get to test for ovulation as I got bogged down with hospital runs etc. I went by the period log I kept and basically DTD every other night. looking back on it we did manage to do it solidly for 2 weeks around ovulation despite all that went on Grin I'm keeping my fingers crossed that I ovulated late but I'm geared up with ovulation kits for next cycle if nothing happens this time xxx