I'm having dinner with large group of friends tonight at a fancy-pants restaurant in London. It is a tasting menu and everyone has the same thing, you can't order separately. It was booked months ago.
I got a BFP this morning and have called the restaurant and they can do me a special menu but having different food to everyone else would out me immediately. They can't tell me the menu in advance either. I can't make up an excuse and not go because there is a £100 fee. I have had miscarriages in the past and REALLY don't want everyone to know. How the fuck am I going to manage this one??