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january bus!..anyone for the long journey to bfp!

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nuttynutter · 02/12/2015 04:36

Hi everybody heres my story been ttcbaby no 1since sept. I have long cycles typically 42days!Sad been with my partner 12yrs..just had af on monday so am out for this yr ..but positive thinking new year new luck..ne ladies in the same boat want to share support/stories x

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MiniLop · 24/12/2015 21:48

Merry Christmas everybody! Smile

BindiBarbarella · 24/12/2015 21:28

Merry Christmas lovely ladies!! Hoping that 2016 grants us all healthy bfps xxx

AskPrayHope · 24/12/2015 21:17

Yes, Merry Christmas all!! Xmas Smile

kittyvet · 24/12/2015 20:15

Hope all your Christjas wishes come true!

mamaneedsamojito · 24/12/2015 20:06

Happy Christmas lovelies!

weechops · 24/12/2015 19:36

Just popping on while we wait for all the weechops littlies to fall asleep to say - I hope you all have a wonderful Christmas tomorrow whatever you're doing. Lots of love and Christmas blessings, weechops xxx🎄🎁

MiniLop · 24/12/2015 09:36

CD14 and still no sign of OV according to the OPKs. According to FF I'm not due to OV until New Year's Eve after my long cycle last month! I'll keep testing and keep DTD (DH thinks it's great... Might change his mind after a few months if it takes that long!!)

Cerrone85 · 23/12/2015 16:53

Sounds promising Kate! I'm due to test 1st Jan too ☺

Trying to not go mental with symptom spotting at the moment

KateMossIsMyQueen · 23/12/2015 16:25

The tiniest tiniest amount of spotting today, AF due 1st/2nd Jan (I am stretching the eligibility for Jan Bus perhaps) and it's only our first cycle. DH and I are trying to stay cool, "it's not really classy to get pregnant on the first go anyway" has become our mantra along with "I'd like to feel like we earned it" to try and remind ourselves that we would need to be very very lucky to be successful on the first go, and a meltdown is totally unnecessary if we get a NPT on New Years Day.

My PCOS symptoms seem to be much better since I lost weight a few years ago, although I do still have a rather impressive set of sideburns and belly hair if I skimp on the waxing, I have at least been ovulating on a (fairly) regular basis since I came off the pill in Jan 2015, so we're feeling cautiously positive...

Cerrone85 · 23/12/2015 15:36

Welcome Grace, sorry for your lossFlowers hopefully we will all be lucky in the new year Smile

Grace893 · 23/12/2015 13:50

Oh my just held a visiting colleagues 11 week old daughter for 10 minutes, Im on cloud 9!

Grace893 · 23/12/2015 13:12

Hi all can I join you lovely ladies?

My stats are:
Grace893, 28, TTC#1, Cycle #4 ETD: ?

Had a MC at 5 weeks last week and am not sure what my body is doing or what is going to happen to my cycles, though secretly putting my hopes on the fact some people are more fertile after a MC.

Babydust to everyone and I hope this will be a lucky fresh start bus!

mamaneedsamojito · 23/12/2015 12:29

Avoid caffeine and booze too if you can. Acidic stuff is not bladder friendly. Sad

weechops · 23/12/2015 10:54

Ok I'm drinking a ton of water and have sent dh to get Cystopurin. Hopefully it'll shift soon!

Annarose2014 · 23/12/2015 10:39

Cystopurin is amazing. You get it over the counter. But yes, a post-shag wee is essential. I'm prone to it, so always have Cystopurin in the house.

mamaneedsamojito · 23/12/2015 09:11

Wee, I used to get cystitis loads (also shag induced Blush). You need to pee ASAP after having sex to help flush any nasties from your urethra. I also really recommend drinking a pint of water every 20 minutes for 3 hours. Most of the time that's enough to get rid. You'll be pissing every 10 mins though so don't leave the house!

weechops · 23/12/2015 08:25

pug I'm so sorry for your loss Flowers

Hello dovey Smile

Well I woke up to the joy of cystitis this morning!! Haven't had this in years and I forgot how crappy it is. Maybe it was all the sex after 3 months without 😂

Celen · 23/12/2015 06:36

So sorry pug, please be kind to yourself & take care xxx

AskPrayHope · 22/12/2015 23:55

Hello dovey!

It's nice having another newbie here & a lurker too hehe Grin

AskPrayHope · 22/12/2015 23:52

Hello all, thank you for being so welcoming!

weechops that sounds like bliss!

Hi bindi I know how hard it is not to poas. I find if I can't take a pt because it's too early I just keep doing cheap opks! Terrible habitb Blush

Hi soda sorry I cannot be any help. I haven't yet started charting, just opks. It's very interesting though - if January isn't kind to me I'll be doing it in February for sure!

Hi pug I know we have never spoken before but I wanted to say sorry for your loss Flowers

Dovey2 · 22/12/2015 23:51

Hello, been a lurker for months now and would love to jump on the January bus! A bit about me:

Ttc #1
Age 34
Been ttc since March 2014, fell pg June 2015 but mc at 5 wks.
IBD for years, on various drugs for it and it's thankfully well controlled. No proper evidence to suggest that the drugs affect conception/pregnancy but the jury is definitely still out on that one. Docs seem encouraged that I managed to fall pregnant before though, so am still hopeful.

Big hello to all ttc and fingers crossed for success in 2016 Grin xxx

mamaneedsamojito · 22/12/2015 21:54

Thanks Kitty, that worked a treat. I am now officially 1DPO!

kittyvet · 22/12/2015 21:01

mama you can tell FF to disregard a temp on the main data entry page. It's a small tick box under where you enter the tenp. That should sort it out. You can tell it to change the way it calculates ovulation in the settings but don't know if there is a manual override.

Bugmuncher · 22/12/2015 19:49

Celen that's a great diagram! I'm going use it to remind me why there's not point testing early when I'm ready to test! I might be stupid but I don't think I ever realised the egg was fertilised in the tube. I'm realising how little about my own biology I actually know!

mamaneedsamojito · 22/12/2015 19:28

So sorry to hear that Pug, especially at this time of year. Thinking of you and your family Thanks