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Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 17/11/2015 12:19

We weren't supposed to start till January! But we did!
Join us as we ttc #1 after pill/contraception etc.

We've got a boat, it makes frequent stops for wine, pissy sticks, wool, slings, cake and all manner of shit we don't need yet but we buy anyway!

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Runner05 · 12/12/2015 14:17

Shelb I had the poking feeling on and off for a couple of hours and then slightly crampy for a couple of hours afterwards. But really I have no idea if it really was implantation and won't until Friday at the earliest.

It is your first month though so you never know. When are you testing now?

shelbTa · 12/12/2015 13:31

Hmm maybe runner (which would be great, obvs) but I've also googled it and it could be sign of impending AF. Ovia is still tracking my AF from my pill days as 28 day cycle, mean I would come on on Wednesday, but I only ovulated CD21-22. I'd did a few opks this week to make sure my surge was over and they were def negatives.

It felt like a sting almost, 8-10 pink pricks but it only lasted a minute or two. Think implantation lasts longer? Did yours?

Uhhhhhh.

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Runner05 · 12/12/2015 12:51

Ooo... Could be an early sign of pregnancy Shelb Wink

What did the pinching feel like. I got that sensation after my do on Thursday. Like being poked with a fat blunt knitting needle. Thought it might be implantation. And if you're a couple of days after me as I now think you are it would be good timing Grin

Fx for synchronised BFPs!!!!

shelbTa · 12/12/2015 12:09

Erm what the hell is this??? Last night i got a pinching in my left side whilst at my xmas do. I put it down to high waisted jeans and just ramming down a three course meal but it was remarkably like the pinching I got 36 hours after my positive opk so I though I'd do one this morning just to check - what the hell, why is it showing that strong???? Help!

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Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting
ChinaSorrows · 12/12/2015 11:51

Congratulations NewMrs!!!

I just bought 5 sticks from Amazon. They should be delivered by the time I'm due to test! Blush

I wish i could have gone back to bed. I was teaching this morning.
Fortunately it's just low level nausea at the moment and being active stopped me noticing it. Now Ive stopped I'm getting that ikky "really really wet" mouth thing that I get if I'm going to vomit... And my dear bro has just told me he's ill. And we went for lunch last week... The odds on the bets for a bfp are getting low!

Pinklily1 · 12/12/2015 11:46

DrWhy, I was adamant I wasn't going to use OPK's but I caved after only a few days!

Pinklily1 · 12/12/2015 11:43

Fingers crossed you are right Shelb. We DTD this morning so only missed Thursday and Friday. Hopefully the OPK later will look better.

I'm still putting pillows under my hips after DTD but I can't say it feels particularly sexy or glamorous! But needs must I suppose. I'd regret it if I didn't do it!

StarkyTheDirewolf · 12/12/2015 11:27

You say that now drwhy I held back, we've literally just started, I'm not temping yet but I'm loving ovia and my multi pack of okp's just arrived from amazon Xmas Grin

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DrWhy · 12/12/2015 11:22

Right, came off pill last month, DH got home and we got chance to DTD once before AF arrived. I was actually quite pleased as it actually meant an exactly 28 day cycle for 1st one off the pill which I did I expect at all.
Now on CD 6ish and have DH waiting to pounce on my at the earliest possible opportunity! Eek, this might be about the get real with actual 'not preventing' very soon!
No OPKs or temping for at least the 1st few months, just seeing how it goes.

shelbTa · 12/12/2015 11:18

Pink - I don't think that was your peak personally, it happened to me in the weak up to my positive (them going up and down like that). I always doubted it until it happened but the line HAS to be stronger than the control line and yours wasn't, was it? Hang in there honestly!!!! It will happen (and I'm a pessimist).

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 12/12/2015 11:18

Congratulations new mrs AMAZING NEWS!

My okp's arrived today, Woohoo! Can you believe how many bfp's we have already! Guys, we weren't even supposed to start till next month! ! Xmas Grin

bub post a picture, which test is it? Welcome blue I've woken up with a cold today too runner nose is dribbling and I'm sneeze! Best get some vitamin c down me! bunch hope you're having a lovely time!

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Newmrs22 · 12/12/2015 10:40

Thanks runner So with hindsight, I've had tiredness, I had really bad heartburn on weds which I never get. And some weird cramping feelings, which I thought was AF about to make an appearance. Other than that, nothing. No sore boobs really. Although saying that they do feel a bit sore today.

Newmrs22 · 12/12/2015 10:38

Thanks Pink! Told OH, don't think he believes me yet! Ha. Just went out and bought a clear blue which came up positive 1-2 weeks. I think he'll believe it more once he sees that! Grin

Need to do another in the morning FMU to get more accurate weeks indication on the clear blue apparently

BubbaNo1 · 12/12/2015 10:37

Congrats NewMrs!!

BFP list is getting longer!

Runner05 · 12/12/2015 09:28

China fingers crossed. The annoying thing about symptoms is that any bloody thing can be one. Here's hoping your BFP is on the way though.

New woohoo!! Congratulations. How are you feeling?
Can you give us a run down of symptoms.

Shelb you're obviously awake at that time in the morning because you're barking mad Grin

Have fun despite the lack of cheese and wine Bunch and make the best of the pregnancy boobs lol Wink

Hi Blue I'm sorry but you won't find anyone on here to tell you to stop obsessing lol.
It does get easier (kind of) the longer your trying but I think it remains a all consuming thing but this having children through and through. You obsess about conceiving, then you obsess about giving birth to a healthy baby, then you obsess about making sure your baby stays healthy then you obsess about... Well you get the just!
We've all put our names down to obsess for the rest of our lives.

bub that sounds like a BFP to me! Pictures please, what type of test did you take? Grin

So I appear to have a cold this morning. Not sure if that responsible for my symptoms or one of them (it's common to get a cold as a symptom due to your body lowering its immune system so that you don't reject implantation) I still have tender breasts and slightly tender nipples, getting some shooting pains in my left breast the right one is behaving himself and I've still got random cramps every now and then in my pelvic region.
I did a sneaky ic pregnancy test this morning as I now have no idea what dpo I am but I was expecting BFN and that's what I got. I think it's fair to say I'll be doing tests every day now. If you can't beat your obsession you may as well go with it and I have about 30 ic tests to use Grin

Pinklily1 · 12/12/2015 09:12

Ps welcome to the crazy house Blue!

Bubba can you post a picture and summaries what the packet says? What brand test was it?

Pinklily1 · 12/12/2015 09:10

Ooh, there sounds like lots of positives here at the minute! Runner and China fingers crossed for more symptoms!

Mrs - huge congratulations! Have you told OH yet? Were you on the pill beforehand?

Shelb, I did the fainter test at 5.15pm yesterday (in the toilet at work before our Christmas party. I think I am obsessed!). I had had slightly more than usual to drink before a test but not a massive amount. Time wise it was about an hour and a half before I would usually test. I'll do another one later on.

shelbTa · 12/12/2015 09:09

Bonjour bunch enjoy Paris!

Welcome blue you'll fit right in here!

Bubba hard to say without seeing the packet which explains what two lines means but normally means BFP.

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Bubbapup89 · 12/12/2015 08:46

Soooo... I did. Pregnancy test this morning and it has a horizontal line running through both windows, any ideas what it means / why? Xx

BlueGirl1982 · 12/12/2015 08:34

Hi ladies...

Please may I join in with the driving self crazy symptom spotting??

I came off pill in October, withdrawal bleed 17/10, first cycle was 32 days, now on cd25, have been experiencing cramps, shooting pains, snuffles and insomnia for about a week, so my mind is working overtime with the whole 'am I pregnant?' even though I keep trying to rationally tell myself it's just more pill withdrawal symptoms/my body getting used to hormones again!

I'm not tracking ovulation as we're technically not ttc until the new year but I am using ovia to track cycle length and there have been a few occasions where condoms have gone out of the window around ovia's predicted fertile window, although this is based purely on dates so could be way out!

Please tell me this is madness and to stop obsessing!!

P.s. Congrats to all those who already have their bfps!

BunchOfBobs · 12/12/2015 08:19

Ooh just dipping in and out whilst in Paris. Huge congrats NewMrs.!!

I've poas about 5 days out of my current 8 days of knowing and I hear Mor is still doing so. It takes a while to sink in. It's sinking in a lot more now as we told our parents two nights ago and I now have "pregnant boobs" (which I'm hating). It's easier to believe it when you're body is changing in front of you.

Reet, time to celebrate this birthday Parisian style minus the fun amazing cheese and wine!

Newmrs22 · 12/12/2015 08:13

Yep first cycle. But it was a weird long one. I'd read this week that sometimes the first cycle is odd, so definitely don't think you are out until AF comes! I tested on CD42 and got a BFN! So no idea how far along I am. Ovia pregnancy is saying 7 weeks because of Last period date! But I think it's probably more like 2 weeks!

I feel fine. A bit nauseous this morning but might be psychological. Felt tired this week but that's pretty normal. I'm really shocked actually. I think I need to POAS x10 to fully believe!

leoniethelioness · 12/12/2015 08:10

newmrs - congratulations!

LanadelLol · 12/12/2015 07:53

Morning!!

Congratulations newmrs that's fantastic news!! How are you feeling?
Aww china I hope you feel better soon and it is still perfectly acceptable to go back to bed given the time right now.
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shelbTa · 12/12/2015 07:39

Newmrs that's amazing congratulations!!!!! How do you feel? Is it your first cycle off the pill? ThanksThanks

Hang in there China!

Why am I awake this early

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