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Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 17/11/2015 12:19

We weren't supposed to start till January! But we did!
Join us as we ttc #1 after pill/contraception etc.

We've got a boat, it makes frequent stops for wine, pissy sticks, wool, slings, cake and all manner of shit we don't need yet but we buy anyway!

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BubbaNo1 · 21/11/2015 18:58

So it looks like I'm ovulating on my first month off the pill unless my eyes are deceiving me... Wow didn't expect my body to get back to normal so fast! All getting real now.

Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting
shelbTa · 21/11/2015 16:44

Happy - I am nervous, I won't lie! So many things to think about. If it doesn't happen on cycle one - which it prob won't, I wouldn't be too disappointed...

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Runner05 · 21/11/2015 14:33

Hello ladies,

Shelb lol, don't worry you're past the first hurdle and on your way.

New are you going to test or wait a couple of days?

Happy Ovia was slightly off for me too but adjusted itself as I added more data.

I really did think I'd be a lot more upset than I am about AF. In fact I'm a little relieved. Next AF should be Boxing Day which would make a nice surprise and at least I'll have lots of Internet cheapies for next months testing addiction Wink

happybus28 · 21/11/2015 13:01

Hi shelb it's CD21! My nerves have come back now I know I'm actually ovulating! How you feeling?

shelbTa · 21/11/2015 12:39

Exciting happy! What cycle day was that out of interest? Wondering when / mine is going to come on first cycle!

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happybus28 · 21/11/2015 12:34

I've just had a positive OPK!! According to ovia I should have ovulated last weekend but I was pretty sure I hadn't as not had any cramping or EWCM. This week I've had def cramps and a change in CM so just done a test and its positive! Lots of DTD this weekend for me! Really thought it would take longer with being 1st month off pill!

Newmrs22 · 21/11/2015 12:27

Sorry to hear that Runner enjoy wine and cider!

AF was due yesterday but no sign. I had a couple of glasses of wine last night which was a bit naughty but I really think it's just cycle being messed up after pill not pregnancy so hopefully will be fine! I might test tomorrow just in case.

Shelb so exciting!

shelbTa · 21/11/2015 11:05

Morning ladies.

Ah right attitude runner, shame AF rocked up though.

My AF was over yesterday and DTD today, there is zero chance of anything happening of course at only CD05 but still, ffffuuuuuuuuccccckkkkk!

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Runner05 · 21/11/2015 10:54

HaHa Stark you are definitely winning! I think we're going to end up with a child covered in Star Wars, OH is a major fan and so am I we have tickets for opening night, I'm missing my work Xmas party for it Confused

NantucketNightbird · 21/11/2015 10:34

Hey all, I've caught up Smile.

Well my period is over (started Wednesday) but dtd is out for the next two nights as DH works as a singer on weekends.

How's the crochet work coming along? I've finished my call the midwife blanket and I've done a matinee jacket and bonnet secretly wanting a girl

Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting
Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting
Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting
purplesmiler · 21/11/2015 09:02

Morning all hope your weekends are enjoyable so far.

We have been DTD most days during my window but did have a day break.

Off to watch the football today and it's freezing the scarfs and gloves are coming out.

Runner05 · 21/11/2015 09:00

Well I'm out, the witch decided to turn up a day early. Not at all sad as it means wine and cider are back on the menu for a couple of days Grin

StarkyTheDirewolf · 20/11/2015 23:50

Dh saw a chewbacca baby onesie in tesco and melted! It was sooooo cute! He suggested buying it! So I think we're nearly there!

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 20/11/2015 23:48

Congratulations missclarke amazing news!

Get one of those retractable glasses hana and keep it in your handbag? I think they're only a couple of pounds. Probably be able to get a cheapie one off amazon.

runner don't be disheartened and enjoy your glass of wine! We will get there in the end, all of us! And in 2,3,4,5 years we'll all be here going "oh god, can you remember when we were all obsessing over ovulation tests and now little inky and binky are nearly 3!"

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Runner05 · 20/11/2015 23:16

To my knowledge the official advice is every other day for optimum quantity/quality of sperm. Can't remember why every day was a bad idea but I know there was a reason. Confused

Morwenna1 · 20/11/2015 22:53

Wow MissClarke!!! Congrats! That's super exciting...god, and so quickly too!

Keep going Starky - it won't be long now till he caves in...Grin

I don't have enough space in my wardrobe for 50 tests!! Now you all know where I hide my tests

Question: I'm on CD 11, day 2 of my fertile window. I've read conflicting advice about how often you should DTD during said window - one source says if you do it daily then you stand a slightly better chance of conceiving, another source said it can reduce the quality of the sperm if you do it every day. What do you all think/do?!! If you don't mind me asking! Confused

purplesmiler · 20/11/2015 20:04

Nice to have you back lolly Smile

Shelb it becomes so real now for you. Since we started trying I've become even more broody and excited.

456 fifty tests wow I thought I went mad buying 10 lol.

What's everyone up to tonight? My evening consists of the tv and a nice glass of wine. May watch a film later with OH.

Runner05 · 20/11/2015 20:02

Good luck everyone conning off the pill. Don't worry, the nerves pass quite quickly.

I've been having impending AF pains all day so I may have accidentally had a bottle of wine with dinner slightly pissed did a pregnancy test yesterday and was most definitely BFN so I figured I'd drown my sorrows

456hana · 20/11/2015 18:17

Congratulations Miss Clarke! So quick! I hope you are not alone in getting upduffed so quickly!

Good luck to all those coming off the pill this month!

My ovulation test sticks arrived today - I went a bit mad and also purchased 50 pregnancy tests! In my defence they were very cheap.

The ovulation tests say they are best taken at 10am, when I'm at work. I need a way to dip test without making it obvious or looking rather bizzarre. Wondering whether I could use something small and stuble to pee into rather than walking to the loos with beaker in-hand.

zeetea · 20/11/2015 17:19

This thread is fun :)

Took my last pill last night so waiting for aunty flo to visit/leave before telling hubby (he can't wait for us to start trying!) will be waiting till around Christmas before ttc though - want to enjoy as much irish cream and mulled wine as I can before then teehee BlushWine

Lolly90 · 20/11/2015 17:03

Hey guys how is everyone? Missed I go away for a a few weeks and everything changes lol.

DrWhy · 20/11/2015 16:42

Shelb that is exactly how I feel!! The first day I didn't take mine I asked DH about 3 times if it was really OK if I didn't take it!

Starky you'll have him convinced in no time!

runner you know that having a cider tonight is a guaranteed way to get a BFP after the weekend. Whereupon you will panic for 9 months about what 1 cider at 10 days pregnant might have done Grin

miss Congrats and 'eek' I'm assuming it's going to take at least 3-9 months!

shelbTa · 20/11/2015 15:05

Congrats miss that's so exciting! On cycle one too!

Aw runner we shall see what we shall see. You know we are all rooting for you, especially as one of the originals of this thread! Here - have a jammy dodger Biscuit.

Yeah Stark that sounds like a man who is about to give in!

Purple - I'm thinking I'm just going to go by the app like you for the first few cycles.

Well think AF is tailing off now, would be taking my pill again to nori normally. Eek. AM I REALLY DOING THIS!!?!?

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MissClarke86 · 20/11/2015 12:02

Thanks ladies. purple I'll tell him tonight, I'm really nervous!?

runner No symptoms and no idea how many days!! Last period was withdraw from pill. Had spotting last week which I thought was my first period but must have been implantation!? Gurgle stomach today but I think that's shock!!

harrietm87 · 20/11/2015 08:11

Oh wow! Congratulations MissClarke!!!!
This is so exciting. Lol that this thread was for people starting to ttc in dec/jan!

I however am still waiting till new year. My stats:
Harriet
Age 28 (29 in jan)
With oh for 6 years
On non-hormonal contraception (coil) and getting it out in jan
Have had v regular cycles but missing AF this month so bit perturbed. Def not preg so thinking maybe it's down to stress...not good!