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Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 17/11/2015 12:19

We weren't supposed to start till January! But we did!
Join us as we ttc #1 after pill/contraception etc.

We've got a boat, it makes frequent stops for wine, pissy sticks, wool, slings, cake and all manner of shit we don't need yet but we buy anyway!

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shelbTa · 28/11/2015 18:24

Thanks ni.
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I've got the worst period type pains today than I ever had on the pill, I must be ovulating, I have to be, either that or I'm going to get AF.

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Ni4444 · 28/11/2015 18:06

I think it's supposed to be nonsense Shelb! Although I did do it yesterday for a giggle with the other half!! Grin I did read somewhere that if you have an inverted uterus or cervix or something it might help get the "love juice" to the right place. But apparently that's a really rare condition anyway. I have taken to lying for at least 15mins afterwards..the swimmers are supposed to be strong enough to do it themselves but I just figured it can't do any harm!

shelbTa · 28/11/2015 17:45

I was straight on it bunch!

Yeah it probably is negative, I was just so excited to see an actual line after them all being blank.

Ok this is a TMI and possibly thick question but - after you've DTD do you need to keep your legs up so the 'soldiers' have the best chance gravity-wise? Or is that bullshit. I didn't either way!

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BunchOfBobs · 28/11/2015 16:45

Shelb I think it needs to be darker than the control line to be positive. But it's so easy to miss the actual surge in the day that it could be!! Get on him it just in case Smile

shelbTa · 28/11/2015 14:41

Holy shit ladies, is this a positive opk???

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Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting
Ni4444 · 27/11/2015 18:34

Shelb tmi moment, but clear, liquidy CM on CD17 and EWCM on CD19. Abdominal pain and backache was CD20. Fertile CM gone now on CD22 so I'm taking it I'm on the tww but will keep checking ovulation sticks for a few days just in case not! Seem to be on a long cycle this month too (32last time) Glad the body is signalling that hormones are at work even if the pissy stick says no ov! I've also had the sniffles around predicted ovulation time this cycle and last so hoping that's a symptom to spot ov in the future. hope there won't be any future cycles!

Bunch I'm due to test a few days after you. I had sore nips this morning too so let's see if that means anything.

BunchOfBobs · 27/11/2015 16:36

Hi everyone.ive done all my Black Friday shopping online to avoid the hell of shops.

I'm due to test a week on Saturday but have had no more symptoms other than that 1 day of sore nips. Boo. I've spent my On my way! item day planning my upcoming trip to Paris for my birthday (totally outing myself). If I do get a bfp next week it will be tres difficile to hide it from both sets of parents who will be with us.

How do you celebrate a birthday in Paris without drinking and eating Brie and all thinks wonderfully French??!! I'll cross that bridge if it magically appears.

Runner I hope you're feeling a bit better.

purplesmiler · 27/11/2015 16:04

Afternoon ladies.

Im so glad the weekend is nearly here, I just want to get in to my PJs and slob for the evening with a DVD (My OH has sports training on a Friday so doesnt get back until later).

I am not due to test until the middle of next week but do have two FR tests so may end up testing a bit earlier. I havent had any significant symptoms other than the pulling feeling and some quesiness but this could also be stress related with work as it is right now.

My head is saying this may take some time, while my heart is like please please let it happen soon.

Happy Friday all.

shelbTa · 27/11/2015 13:14

Hi ni - I don't know a whole load about it to be honest. If you google mittelschmerz that is its proper name apparently!

So what CD day did you get the EWCM if you don't mind me asking? My piss sticks are showing a really faint pink line but nothing major and I'm on CD11.

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Ni4444 · 27/11/2015 12:26

Hey guys! Happy Friday! WineBrew

Shelb speaking of those period like abdominal pains around ovulation, has anyone read at what time of the ovulation time they happen? I had them on Weds and the CM has definitely being doing what it does, but ov pissy sticks have said no all cycle long (although Ovia thinks I hit my fertility peak) so I'm wondering if the stomach pains are a sign that I ovulated? Does anyone know why and when those pains happen ?

shelbTa · 27/11/2015 10:24

Morning!

Stay in bed runner the shops will be fudding awful!

Well, I've got period style pains but no EWCM (grosses me out writing that ewwwwww). Also got back ache. According to ovia my fertility window should start tomorrow. Obvs I'm going to do a pisser stick today, just for kicks!

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Runner05 · 27/11/2015 09:21

Morning ladies how are you today?

I'm just contemplating whether to get out of bed or not. Yesterday really took it out of me and I'm not sure I want to risk it but I do need to go into town but doing want to hit the Black Friday rush. Confused

So, who's going to be testing next?

456hana · 26/11/2015 17:45

Harriet - I'm still waiting to ttc! Will start in January, unless I/OH cave this cycle (unlikely).

shelbTa · 26/11/2015 13:19

Good effort starky!!

Ah runner families can be the hardest can't they...try not to let it get to you, easier said than done I know

Negative pisser test for me today, but period type pains.

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Runner05 · 26/11/2015 07:42

HAHA! I'm keeping my fingers and toes crossed for you Stark Grin

Well I'm feeling thoroughly rubbish today. AF has decided to make me feel absolutely rubbish, and I feel fat and I have to spend the morning Christmas shopping with sis (in case you haven't cottoned on yet, we don't really get on) I just want to stay in bed and go back to sleep!
On a slightly more serious note, sis's presence is making you stress problems worse Sad she's very difficult and delights in stressing me out, she actually thinks it's funny. Not what I need right now.

StarkyTheDirewolf · 26/11/2015 00:43

Breaking news! We have run out of condoms! Grin suggested to Dh whilst in supermarket that we'd better get some more and he went "oh why bother! You're determined! " so I think, I may have possibly, potentially, worn him down! But I'm not counting my chickens or eggs in my ovaries yet! He may shit out again!

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Morwenna1 · 25/11/2015 21:29

Too late for that Harriet - on cycle 3! (But then I jumped on this thread having already started in any case Grin) I literally have no idea how I'm going to survive Christmas. I will have a drink here and there I guess to avoid the raised eyebrows!

TMI alert - full on EWCM, feeling randy and ov pains. All coincides with my app. So pissy sticks (as opposed to preggo sticks) just tell you if you've actually ovulated? We're DTD every other day, so is there really a need for them? (Except to bring out the obsessive in me! Not sure that's a good thing)

harrietm87 · 25/11/2015 20:11

Ps unexpectedly good side effect from mean doctor was my OH's reaction - he was actually excited at thought I might be pg already! If it wasn't for the thought of all the lovely baileys over xmas (and massive suspicion from family and friends) we'd probably start now! Roll on Jan.

Is anyone else still waiting til then or have you all caved?

harrietm87 · 25/11/2015 20:08

Thanks for you nice messages! I still feel annoyed about it but I'm just going to make sure I see another doctor next time I go. I've just bought some piss sticks for the first time and excited to try them out and join you all in the madness!

Exciting news bunch - my friend said sore nips were her first sign!

Runner05 · 25/11/2015 19:51

Shelb I don't think I need encouragement to become an addict Wink

shelbTa · 25/11/2015 19:35

Good spot ni!

Runner - I'd say get some. Dirt cheap, easy to use and seem to work, and also - then you'll be a fellow addict like me! Mine tonight was a negative.

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Runner05 · 25/11/2015 19:21

Oh and just realised that my test date next month is Christmas Day! Fingers crossed for a extra Christmas present Grin

Runner05 · 25/11/2015 19:19

Bloody hell Ni must go to Superdrug tomorrow now!!!

Shelb you'll have to let us all know what you think of the ov tests. I'm hoping to do them this month as temping obviously didn't work due to my nighttime mouth breathing!!!

AF is definitely here now. I think my body started spotting when it expected me to come of the pill but if memory serves me my cycle before the pill was a little longer than the 4 week controlled cycle so that might explain the confusion. Oh well CD1 of cycle 2. Fingers crossed for a nice sticky embryo this month Grin

Ni4444 · 25/11/2015 19:11

Ooh bargain alert. Superdrug are doing the clearblue digital ovulation kits (10 tests so a months worth if you have a regular cycle and know when to test, unlike me!) reduced to 2.30 from about 20 quid!!

shelbTa · 25/11/2015 17:35

Purple - sounds painful, but maybe a positive sign??

bunch - used my second pisser today. Last nights was a def pink line at 7pm, the one today at 12.30 had no line at all. Guna try again tonight at 7 as I also drink loads of water during the day so wonder if it was diluted.

Chill - piss stick or preggo stick?**
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Deffo had groin / period type pains today

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