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Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 17/11/2015 12:19

We weren't supposed to start till January! But we did!
Join us as we ttc #1 after pill/contraception etc.

We've got a boat, it makes frequent stops for wine, pissy sticks, wool, slings, cake and all manner of shit we don't need yet but we buy anyway!

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Ni4444 · 05/12/2015 20:17

Pink, this site with pics is useful for knowing the types of CM www.babycentre.co.uk/l1047500/what-cervical-mucus-looks-like-photos

ChinaSorrows · 05/12/2015 20:12

Oh wow! Congratulations Bunch!

Out of general interest, how long were you "trying"/"not being careful" for?...

Pinklily1 · 05/12/2015 18:53

I know Starky - at times today when I've thought i'm loosing my marbles Googling all sorts of body/baby stuff, I have taken comfort that we are all in it together!!

StarkyTheDirewolf · 05/12/2015 18:15

I'm going to give it a few days, if I'm still not on, then I'll go get some tests and have another go, now that I've used my first and only one I had saved I feel justified buying more Grin I doubt I am this month as we didn't actually track my ovulation, I had a vague idea if when my fertile week was but that was it.

Cervical mucus is confusing! Who'd have known I'd be inspecting my own fanny juice this time last year!? Grin at least we're all doing it!

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BubbaNo1 · 05/12/2015 17:12

Hey ladies... How are we all?

Congratulations Bunch!

AF is due tomorrow... But we shall see, gonna do a test tomorrow, but doubt I'll have a bfp as I wasn't completely sure if/when I was ovulating. I don't think I'll be too upset if it's negative, as I've decided to take a more relaxed approach as I was getting obsessed lol Blush

Pinklily1 · 05/12/2015 16:47

I've spent the past hour Googling cervical mucas and now my head hurts! I've no idea how quickly its meant to turn from dry to watery to egg white like etc.

I finished AF on Wednesday. Now feel constantly 'wet' (sorry, TMI!) and having had a bit of an explore (oh the shame Blush) CM feels quite watery. Ovia says my fertile period starts on 12th. So somewhere between now and then, is it meant to turn egg white like?!! I never thought i'd be examining CM in such detail!

Leonie and Shelb - interesting that you are both feeling the same kind of things. I wonder what it means.

shelbTa · 05/12/2015 16:17

Leonie - what kind of weird and tight? Mine has too so it's good to hear you say that! Mine felt like a pulling above my pubic bone, and it is so so bloated where normally it is quite flat (with flab on top).

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leoniethelioness · 05/12/2015 16:11

Congratulations! Flowers Brilliant news to come back to see!

According to Ovia, my fertile window starts today. I'm not sure how accurate it is as have had one cycle of about 35 days and one of about 29 days, and I'm not doing OPK. DH thinks I am crazy because we've had "baby making sex" twice now and ever since the first time my stomach has felt weird and tight. He has been laughing at mu suggestions that I am either pregnant or allergic to his sperm. It's probably all in my head!

shelbTa · 05/12/2015 15:51

Pink - yeah opk and ovia. When I was on my fertile period according to ovia it was quite pink on the opks (I posted on here) but now I'm out of it I had some spotting the past few days then today quite a strong opk but nothing yesterday. But only only on cycle one off the pill so not surprised if it's all wrong

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Runner05 · 05/12/2015 15:49

Stark I guess you're just going to have to wait and see if AF turns up but if there's no sign by the middle of next week I'd test again just to be sure.

I've fallen foul of the lure of ovulation tests and bought a load of cheap ones. I've got a couple of Superdrug ones so I'm going to start testing on Monday using them then continue with the cheap ones when they arrive. Hopefully I'll be able to pinpoint ovulation this month but I'm also damned well going to jump OH at every occasion Grin feeling very determined to succeed this month!! :-)

Pinklily1 · 05/12/2015 15:42

Maybe the bug has knocked things out a bit then. How long have you been off the pill? Could just be things getting back to normal too

StarkyTheDirewolf · 05/12/2015 14:25

Was due on Tuesday. Usually quite bang on time, or a day either way. pink Confused no idea what's going on, putting it down to a phantom period as I had all the symptoms, cramps, spots, achy boobs. I don't usually feel naseaus or have smell/foodavertions but I had a gippy tummy last weekend so maybe I've had a bug and it's knocked my cycle off?

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Pinklily1 · 05/12/2015 14:19

Starky - when were you due?

StarkyTheDirewolf · 05/12/2015 14:11

Massive massive congratulations bunch what a wonderful early Christmas pressie! How lovely! 🎢🍼🐞🌼 FlowersStar

I still haven't come on, still feel sick and my boobs are killing me! What the heck is my body doing?! I'm not cramping up anymore which is a positive! Ovia is ace! So positive though! I love it!

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Runner05 · 05/12/2015 12:34

Right, I shall be taking my own advice and putting a pillow under my hips and putting my feet up. To be honest at this point I'll stand on my blooming head of it helps!!!!

Thanks for the encouragement Shelb I really do think I'd be so much happier working for myself but it's a big step and there's so much to learn Confused I was planning to start up in October but with my mum being so poorly that went out the window. Now hoping for a January start and with any luck I'll be able to go full time while on maternity... Fingers crossed!!

Bunch I bet it's really bizarre psychologically given that we've all been talking about it for a couple of months. Keep us updated on symptoms etc.

BunchOfBobs · 05/12/2015 12:22

Haha. DH thought I was a loon but I now feel completely justified!

Pinklily1 · 05/12/2015 12:22

Shelb - are you using OPK sticks and an app? If so, are they telling you the same thing in terms of when you are ovulating? I'm using Ovia but not sure how accurate it actually is, so may embrace the OPK's.

Pinklily1 · 05/12/2015 12:16

Right, thats it, i'm totally sold on using a pillow now!! Grin

BunchOfBobs · 05/12/2015 12:00

Hi all.
Thanks for the congrats. We just picked up the new car, feeling very grown up all of a sudden.

Harriet pretty much yeah. I had EWCM for two days then got home (if you remember I was away working) and dtd that night. Id been awake 31 hours, look at that for commitment. And here we are!
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Runner* hope the meeting goes well.

With regards to feet elevated etc just so you know THE night I used a pillow under my hips for 15 mins. I say it did the trick Wink

It's all feelings so bizarre. I'm walking around B&Q saying to DH "I'm pregnant" every 5 mins. In starving all the time but cannot stomach breakfast. Boobs sore and feeling full, bit of backache but other than that I feel normal. It's so weird.

FX you guys join me on this journey soon.

shelbTa · 05/12/2015 11:53

Eeekkk! Yey! Me and OH aren't together today but we DTD yesterday and will make sure tomorrow so that should cover it?

I work in a not too dissimilar field runner a lot of my friends do freelance web design, it's lucrative and you can command your own hours. Go for it!

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Runner05 · 05/12/2015 11:13

Shelb not that I know anything about Ov test but that look damn near as dark. I'd hop on if I were you!

I work in project support so kinda stressful more so as my assignment manager is shit my boss is talking about a staged return as she's concerned about me having a relapse if they pile too much on me in one go. Think that's probably a good idea as mum could get worse over the next few weeks due to treatment.
I want to eventually set up my own business in web design as I find working with people far more stressful than work (I'm ok with clients though) studying at the moment to get my skills up to scratch. Almost there Grin

My lovely OH bought me a piano last year for Christmas. I've fiddled with it on and off but recently bought a new book which had really brought my playing on a lot! Really love practicing now where as with the previous books I used I found it quite frustrating Smile

shelbTa · 05/12/2015 10:44

Hi Harriet Sorry to hear it was a rough one but yeah I know what you mean about it being bittersweet that body is getting back to normal. Can't say it has been accurate for me but I'm only on cycle one.

Ladies - sorry to go on, but I did another opk just now (I know I know) and it's the strongest one I think I've ever had. So am now assuming everything I'm feeling is ovulation stuff. What do you reck, almost positive?? I'm out all day so can't DTD either.

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Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting
Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting
Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting
Ni4444 · 05/12/2015 10:42

Yay bunch!!!! Proper PREGNANT!!! Amazing Wink I'm gonna go back on your posts and check your symptoms to drive myself crazy with checking! Confused

harrietm87 · 05/12/2015 10:33

Omg I've missed a couple of days and just caught up on all the excitement - it's been a gripping read!!
bunch huge congratulations!!!! So pleased for you! You'd better stay on here and tell us all what it's like!
And starky such a shame about the bfn - I was on edge of my seat for you! Next time lucky though.
My news (tmi, sorry) is that my mysterious missing period arrived on cd52 and it has been the most painful and heavy one I've ever had. Still no idea why it was so late/early? (I have 32 day cycles so it's come before I would've expected my next one) but pleased my body is kind of functioning again. Ovia has just predicted next period in 28 days time so not sure it's really taking into account my info. Do you find it's accurate for you? bunch did you conceive when you thought you would?

shelbTa · 05/12/2015 09:28

What job do you do runner?

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