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Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 17/11/2015 12:19

We weren't supposed to start till January! But we did!
Join us as we ttc #1 after pill/contraception etc.

We've got a boat, it makes frequent stops for wine, pissy sticks, wool, slings, cake and all manner of shit we don't need yet but we buy anyway!

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Pinklily1 · 13/12/2015 16:48

Welcome Dub. I think some people come straight off the pill and then end up pregnant, so never have a proper AF before getting upduffed, so you never know!

Glad you are enjoying Paris Bunch!

shelbTa · 13/12/2015 16:40

Hi everyone, welcome dub!
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Get in there stark!

I know what you mean runner swaying back and forth, I've now got a metallic taste in my mouth and massive nips. But I'm having some cheese (including Brie) and wine tonight as I'm still not convinced and technically it won't do harm at this stage.

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Dubbya · 13/12/2015 16:39

TTC journeys I mean, not etc!

Dubbya · 13/12/2015 16:34

Hi all, can I join please? I've been lurking for a while and it's been so great to hear about your etc journeys! I'm fairly new to this, ttc #1, age 34, OH age 33.

Came of the pill on 20th Nov after about 17 years on it eek! Currently being ridiculous about symptom spotting in the tww even though I haven't had a proper af yet!

BunchOfBobs · 13/12/2015 16:12

Haha I love that Starky! It is possible as I was awake 31 hours before dtd that day!! Thanks for thinking of me. Having a lovely time in Paris, despite not being able to eat the best cheese, Pate or drink Vin! I'm being spoiled and very Molly coddled- quite annoying actually. Lots of "sit down,take the lift" etc. Got a proper telling off from both mums when I threw myself on the metro a bit late and got trapped between the doors. Pregnancy boobs are ugly!! My areola are huge! (TMI!). The bloating is out of this world but I did have a missed call and voicemail off the midwife which cheered me up. I have however stopped feeling the need to test every day.

I hope TTC isn't driving you all crazy. It'll be worth it in the end, and then you can join the very crazy pregnancy club with me and Mor!

StarkyTheDirewolf · 13/12/2015 15:10

Haha, I know exactly what you mean pink I've been terrified for years about the prospect of accidentally getting pregnant, and now I'm scared of missing my monthly window! It feels like there's like 24 days out of an entire year when it's actually realistically possible!

We always tend to dtd afternoon time, as it's when we get a spare hour or so! With Dh being out most nights we rarely ever go for it at bed time! Grin thinking I'll start doing ovulation tests on Thursday, and then most likely on Fri, Sat and Sunday too! I reckon I can catch him if I focus and plan accordingly!

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Pinklily1 · 13/12/2015 14:45

Runner - fingers and toes crossed for you

Pinklily1 · 13/12/2015 14:44

I still can't get over how we spend years trying not to get pregnant, and then when we do TTC its not a case of just looking at OH and there's a baby onboard Xmas Smile

I'm trying to appear spontaneous when its time to DTD but struggling a bit. Sunday afternoon is not common DTD time in this house, but I will have my wicked way come hell or high water Xmas Wink

StarkyTheDirewolf · 13/12/2015 14:15

I'll pretend I'm being sexy and spontaneous and wake him up with it Xmas Grin he won't suspect a thing haha. I know what you mean runner that's so frustrating! Makes you wonder how people accidentally get pregnant! And those who are pregnant and don't know about it!

I'm hoping I can "do a bunch" in that despite being busy and tired and barely seeing each other next week, I'll manage to catch! That's the dream! Haha! I wonder how she's getting on, hope she's had a lovely weekend!

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Runner05 · 13/12/2015 14:07

Aww Stark that sucks, you're just going to have to pounce on him and demand he performs regardless of how tired he is lol

Still swinging between thinking I'm pregnant and not Hmm the annoying thing is that even if I get BFN on Friday I'll still be in limbo for another week waiting to see if AF turns up.

I'm starting to hate ttc Angry

StarkyTheDirewolf · 13/12/2015 13:50

Haha, no pink if he had to commute to Argentina during my fertile week then I'd be really really annoyed! I'm being negative and annoyed because I know he's going to be exhausted, and we had sooo much we needed to do tomorrow, the car was supposed to go I the garage, doctors appointment and food/present shopping. And now that's gone down the pan, and because I don't drive I'm either going to have to work out a ridiculously complex plan to get everything sorted or rely on my dps to ferry me places. Usually he gets his rota a week in advance so I can plan but his boss has just text to say he needs Dh in, and it's completely thrown off my groove! Xmas Shock

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Pinklily1 · 13/12/2015 13:36

Haha Starky, for a minute there I thought he got to go to Argentina for work!!

StarkyTheDirewolf · 13/12/2015 13:21

Argentina! ? Haha...was supposed to be arrrrgh! Xmas Grin

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 13/12/2015 13:21

Hells yeah pink I reckon I can get in there on Friday and Sunday (daytime) before he gets out of bed to go to work in the evening! I may be able to get in there on Thursday too. I'm glad he's in nights on the weekend,when he's in days he's out at 6:30 am, home at 7 pm and in bed by 10 pm! And it buggers me up because I need to make sure he's got enough fresh food cooked and packed to take with him as he can't go off site and doesn't get breaks! Argentina! Angry

Fx for your fertile week pink

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Pinklily1 · 13/12/2015 13:15

Bubba - looks like an evap line to me unfortunately.

Runner - loving the mutant mince pies!

Starky - are you still aiming to pin OH down at some point to DTD?

Ovia has my fertile window starting today, so OH has got his work cut out for the next week. Am going to do another OPK shortly to see what it looks like.

StarkyTheDirewolf · 13/12/2015 12:58

I'm so impatient to be ovulating! And it's a week away by ovia count ! And I've just found out Dh is working ALL this week! Literally! Tonight 6-10, then he'll have to be up at 6 and out 7-7 Mon, Tues, Wed. Then back to nights, Thurs, Fri, Sat! Fri out by 6:30 pm, Saturday out at 4:30 pm! I'm so annoyed! And chances are he'll be working then next Sunday all the way through till Christmas eve! Swear word, swear word, expletives, swear words! He wasn't supposed to be in today OR tomorrow! We have zero food in the house! I'm going to have to do all remaining present shopping online and ask my dad to take me food shopping! Dh will be exhausted! Angry

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Runner05 · 13/12/2015 12:32

Hi Shelb I'm not feeling too bad now. Nausea has completely gone. My AF isn't due until about 25 if I go by Ovia. I'm on a long cycle of about 30 odd days and I ovulated really early so I don't think mine can be impending AF hope not anyway.

Hope yours doesn't turn out to be AF although if it is at least it will mean that you're now on a natural cycle x

shelbTa · 13/12/2015 12:14

Runner I feel really rough - very nauseous and still got a line on my opk. I've read that both can indicate an imminent AF and with ovia putting mine at weds I'm braced for it.

Do you still feel sick?

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Runner05 · 13/12/2015 10:01

Shelb mine was somewhere between my hip and my tummy for all of the aches and pains.

I think nausea this morning was probably cold related.

Have fun with your OH today Tudor Smile

TudorTrace · 13/12/2015 09:27

Morning ladies! Love those cutie pies Runner and I too have a slight pain on my left side, not sure what it is but it's definitely in my uterus.

DP's birthday today so holding out testing again until sometime on Wednesday (when I'll be 14DPO), because sadly I've no tests Sad

shelbTa · 13/12/2015 07:33

Was it near your hip/groin area runner?

I'm got another line on an opk I just did.

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Runner05 · 13/12/2015 07:28

Hi Shelb my initial implantation pain was to the left but then I had aches all over that region for a couple of days.

I'm not getting too excited as I have a bit of a cold and feeling a hey and nauseous could just be part of that or the whole cold could be a symptom how irritating not to know.
Ovia says I can test in 5 days but I've been testing daily to prevent myself going mad or possibly because I've already gone mad today's test was unsurprisingly a clear BFN but I expected that.

And yes you can say the pies are hilarious. I laughed when I saw them. They're like some sort of pie/cake crossover... Taste ok with cream though Grin

shelbTa · 13/12/2015 07:21

In glad someone is up!

Runner those pies are hilarious - can I say that?! But I'm sure they taste delicious. Hmm you keep piling these symptoms up, it's sounding really really promising to me! How many says till Ovia says poas?

Hmm, well, I had some more left sided pinching last night - five minutes max. I've woken up feeling very nauseous and a definite pain in my left hip....trying not to get carried away like you as I have suffered from groin pain on the pill. Shouldn't implantation pain be centred though?

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Runner05 · 13/12/2015 06:46

Morning ladies, how are you all doing this morning?

Hi Bub sadly that's just dye run. It happens from time to time. As Stark said, you want to vertical lines on that one.

Yay Christmas pud jumpers. Like it Stark Grin

Haha Kat glad I'm not the only one who gets confused. I'm usually so organised when I bake but I'd just finished making a cake so I had both types of flour in front of me.

Had a horrible nightmare last night where I first flooded then burnt down the kitchen. Then I woke up with a really bad back (as if I'd been lifting heavy furniture and pulled something) and had a wave of nausea. Trying not to let my head get too excited with the symptom dance especially as neither of there's imagined symptoms were fun Confused

Here's a picture of the mutant mince pies for you Smile

Thread 2. #Ttc1. We weren't supposed to start yet, but the starting pistol (penis) has gone off. Join our journey as we navigate the ovia boat, pissy sticks and symptoms spotting
StarkyTheDirewolf · 13/12/2015 01:28

I think that's like the control/evap line bubba where the wee has saturated across the test iykwim, it's the two vertical lines we want. Did your dm have a nice birthday?

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