Hello ! the whole family (in laws too) are still sleeping and I just can?t be bothered to tidy up the chaos that is my entire house yet! feel like tidy up and cook is all I?ve done for the last few days but it?s been fun! I?ve been taking it easy on the booze front just in case too. 8dpo today and not a symptom to speak of! Boobs totally normal which is a great relief after last cycle!!
Honeyapple ? oh hon, so sorry about AF now you hold DH to that commitment in January wishing you a January BFP and hope you are ok. Sending you hugs.
Whoops ? sorry to hear about the BFN but it ain?t over till it?s over!!!! Babydust chick!!
Yuletideways & Decorative ? Merry Christmas to you too, hope you are having a lovely time .
Babylove ? No, you can just call the clinic at your local hospital and make an appointment. Might not be a STI but could be range of other things like yeast infections or other things that your body might have created through regular sex, even with only one partner. It would give you peace of mind anyway. Hope you get it all sorted out soon . Pre seed is sperm friendly lubricant that can take the place of EWCM for sperm to swim in if yours is in short supply.
Oh Sparkly ? so sorry, I was feeling really positive for you too. Enjoy your time away and hope you get that BFP soon. X
Xmassy ? hey you!! Where?s your positive attitude gone?! You did BD at the right time and plenty of it too!!! 
I?m rooting for you!