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Is the tempation to test before AF is due too strong???????????

88 replies

ClearBlueFairy · 05/12/2006 21:38

Hello ladies!! I am the ClearBlueFairy, and I have been sent to watch over all you wonderful, gorgeous ladies!!
When you feel the urge to test before AF is due, count to ten and step away from the ClearBlue !! Have a warm cuppa and daydream about Sawyer from Lost (or someone you find attractive!) and take your mind off it!! Or why not come on to MN and I will sprinkle you with some common sense dust

A very wise woman once wrote - "Remember ladies that the percentages of those who get their BFPs on set dpo are as follows:
10dpo=35%/11dpo=51%/12dpo=62%/13dpo=68%/14dpo=74%/15dpo=80%/16dpo=88%/17dpo=92% and there are some who have not got their BFP until 21dpo!!"
Armed with those percentages you should never want to test early and risk all that (perhaps)unnecessary disappointment!

I can't stand to see all those understandably downtrodden women after that dreaded BFN... and some of those wonderful ladies will go on to get their BFP and needn't have put themselves through all that angst and worry!!

Come on now, it's the festive time... save your money... When the FirstResponseDevil is calling out your name... Just say NO!!!

Fingers crossed for lots of BFPs really soon for you all!!!! But remember, The ClearBlueFairy is always watching * * * * * * * * * * * *

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BabyFever · 06/01/2008 18:20

thanks clearbluefairy - you have just strengthened my resolve. I will be patient, I will be patient...

Keep up the good work

ClearBlueFairy · 06/01/2008 17:24

Think it might be an idea to bump this thread

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elsieanjoanne · 07/05/2007 21:59

my inpatience got the better of me again an i tested this am BFN af due weds was kind of expecting the bfn just we found out early with dd

lissielou · 07/05/2007 16:52

lol, i seem to get bfps early too, but it has been known to cause unecessary heartache

Toothache · 07/05/2007 16:49

This won't help any of you.... but I got a BFP 9 days after I had sex!! And yes that was the one and only time I had sex that entire month!!!!

whistles innocently off thread

lissielou · 07/05/2007 16:47

have missed this thread, must keep it bumped!

MimieD · 04/05/2007 15:31

I shall not test till Monday...I shall not test till Monday...I shall not test till Monday

fifisworld · 04/05/2007 15:28

I done 4 tests before af was due...BFN.
Tested the day i was due BFP.
I know its so hard but DONT DO IT!!!!!!
Save yourself the money and the hurt of seeing a BFN when you could actually get your BFP is you just hang on a few days

scorpio1 · 04/05/2007 14:01

do not test early-any of you!!

elsieanjoanne · 04/05/2007 13:54

i so not got an oz patience, did test this morning although af 5 days away! feel so pg tired, sicky, needin loo constantly! got BFN

mum03 · 01/05/2007 13:36

Bumping this up to remind myself to not test tomorrow....

babylove123 · 31/01/2007 16:01

(has re-read thread and put tests in the drawer till 2morro)

Ready · 31/01/2007 13:45

Please no one listen to the clearbluedevil. NO EARLY TESTING!!

take your mind off testing, here!!!!

clearbluedevil · 25/01/2007 15:22
Grin
ClearBlueFairy · 25/01/2007 15:06

PS. It seems it's not only the FirstResponseDevil that you need to be weary of... there is a clearbluedevil doing the rounds... do not listen to her... she's just after your money and the fame!!

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ClearBlueFairy · 25/01/2007 13:56

WELL!!!!!!!!!! It seems that it might be a good idea to bump this thread!! Ready has not been doing her job, again. I think she's too nice to tell you all off!!

To recap:

Hello ladies!! I am the ClearBlueFairy, and I have been sent to watch over all you wonderful, gorgeous ladies!!
When you feel the urge to test before AF is due, count to ten and step away from the ClearBlue !! Have a warm cuppa and daydream about Sawyer from Lost (or someone you find attractive!) and take your mind off it!! Or why not come on to MN and I will sprinkle you with some common sense dust [edit... moral support dust (thanks MrsBadger)]

A very wise woman (MrsMcJnr) once posted - "Remember ladies that the percentages of those who get their BFPs on set dpo are as follows:
10dpo=35%/11dpo=51%/12dpo=62%/13dpo=68%/14dpo=74%/15dpo=80%/16dpo=88%/17dpo=92% and there are some who have not got their BFP until 21dpo!!"
Armed with those percentages you should never want to test early and risk all that (perhaps)unnecessary disappointment!

I can't stand to see all those understandably downtrodden women after that dreaded BFN... and some of those wonderful ladies will go on to get a BFP a few days later and needn't have put themselves through all that angst and worry!!

Come on now... save your money... When the FirstResponseDevil is calling out your name... Just say NO!!!

Fingers crossed for lots of BFPs (after AF is late!) really soon for you all!!!! But remember, The ClearBlueFairy is always watching * * * * * * * * * * * *

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babylove123 · 31/12/2006 06:25

Ah Quootie, you have left me missing period pal! At least you know what your body is up to now though which is good in a way

Awww Mum, sorry you're not pg, better luck for 2007!!!

Ah no news from me, 29 days late now, given up hope on knowing wots going on. Asume next af would be 2nd Jan so made apt with docs for 8th incase it doesnt come. DP coming with me too for support. Still hoping im pg but got BFN on Wed.....

QuootiepieTheNewYearsAss · 30/12/2006 22:17

I have weird spotting, but, getting heavier so think its going to be a 18 day late period!

mum03 · 30/12/2006 22:16

Quootiepie and Babylove - thanks and any news from you??

mum03 · 30/12/2006 22:14

Thank you for your help in resisting more testing,,,,, last test just on Christmas eve, it was 3 days late afterall, but - bfn then AF AF AF - arggg! I was so convinced. It does teach me a lesson though - trust the ClearBlueFairy - she knows best!!!!! Do NOT test until 21 dpo !!!!

Thanks READY for the support

Ready · 28/12/2006 11:39

Mum03 - Any news????

babylove123 · 26/12/2006 23:05

Did u re-test?

RudolphsREADY · 23/12/2006 23:58

Mum03 - The ClearBlueFairy is sending you willpower vices (I am her MN representative you see!) hang in there and no testing til at the very least Christmas Day. Fingers crossed you get that BFP!

Quootiepie · 22/12/2006 15:46

*awkward

Quootiepie · 22/12/2006 15:46

mum - put the test in a really awward place, that takes so long to get to, you come to your senses xXx {{hugs}}