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Would anyone like to join me in a SMEP thread?

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ALLthedinosaurs · 16/10/2015 09:50

(...or poke me in the right direction of an existing one?)

We've been fannying around ttc#2 for a while now, and I'm starting to feel deflated Sad

What do you think? Have you tried it? Doing it? Can we even do that much shagging? Blush

Failing that, can you kick me up the arse to cheer me up? Grin

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Clara101 · 02/03/2016 19:43

Hi Mimi, sorry such a slow reply... How are you..? Did your cycle sort itself out at all? I'm cd4, hoping my luck will come one month soon! Also trying to stop bf my 20 month old (down to mornings only but wd like to reduce that now!)

Mimilicious013 · 04/02/2016 08:29

Hie clara been a while hope u are ok.no good news here.currently on cd39 and bfns.never have i had a cycle longer than 28days.how are u and best of luck.

Clara101 · 04/02/2016 07:39

Hey Mimi, how are you doing? Hoping you get good news soon.. I'm still trying for no3 (like you I think?)

Mimilicious013 · 25/01/2016 08:04

Thanks Loki.wishing u the best and hope it happens soon before u start the obsessing bit.a casual approach is more relaxing after what u have gone through BIG FX !!

Loki17 · 24/01/2016 16:58

Mimi I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you! DH will start 'not trying but not preventing' at some point this week. Not ready to launch into smep just yet.

Mimilicious013 · 23/01/2016 18:31

Hie ladies,hope u are having a great weekend,lots of bfp celebrations!!
Good luck village.was reading your post and 17months is a long time dear.wishing the best of luck this cycle fx
as for me the supposed af ended with some spotting and has since disappeared,so still in the running and poasing on the 25th(hooray).

VillageFete · 22/01/2016 18:12

Huge congrats Cally Flowers

Wow, what a positive run there's been this week!

Pickle So pleased it worked for you. I really needed to hear that tonight, so thank you.

Loki17 · 22/01/2016 17:27

Congratulations to those with BFP'S xx

Mimilicious013 · 22/01/2016 16:32

Thanks pickle for the encouragement

Mimilicious013 · 22/01/2016 16:19

Congratulations cally
hey bug,nice lines there !!
Interesting how your dates are close.hope to join u soon to share the symptoms and experience

Picklesauage · 22/01/2016 15:18

Hi all, I've been lurking and sending you silent fairy dust!

I just want to add hope for you all. Using SMEP helped me to get my two gorgeous girls. I was told I had a 5% chance of ever being pregnant naturally me with a combination of SMEP and pre seed I have been pregnant 4 times (1 mc and 1 chemical preg + 2 DD)
It works, just keep going! It look us 5 years together our 2, but my odds were very poor!

Keep up th BD and good luck!

cally0 · 22/01/2016 13:44

Thanks bugmuncher Smile

Bugmuncher · 22/01/2016 08:43

Congratulations cally!

cally0 · 22/01/2016 08:30

Good luck everyone. The first month of trying SMEP worked for us! I got my bfp a couple days ago. It's knackering but worth it! Xxx

CamMc · 22/01/2016 06:16

That's so funny bug that we're on exactly the same dates! I've got cramps and a runny nose but no nausea. I have got sore boobs but I had that the last two months so didn't think anything of it. I tested with a different brand when I got home and had a solid second line so felt confident to call my mum and tell her. I'm going to call the doctor on Monday when I'm back and book in!
Hope everyone else is doing ok - keeping fingers crossed X

Bugmuncher · 21/01/2016 15:54

cam I also had to google what to do! I have been testing every day as AF isn't due until Sunday Blush. I still am a bit crampy and also have a horrible cold but don't know if that's related. How about you?

Bugmuncher · 21/01/2016 15:52

mimi this is from this morning

Would anyone like to join me in a SMEP thread?
CamMc · 21/01/2016 15:45

I know it's so strange! I felt a bit foolish earlier when I googled what do you do after a positive pregnancy test. Seems like advice was wait until after the date you are due AF so you are 'late' and then book in to see a GP. I think I'll book one on Monday when I'm back from my weekend away.
Have you got any symptoms??

Mimilicious013 · 21/01/2016 15:44

Hie bug pictures please.
That is an interesting question,when do u tell pple.(so much excitement mixed with a bit of fear) hmm.

Bugmuncher · 21/01/2016 15:30

I'm good thanks. Also 12 DPO like you! Have you booked to see your GP? Mine doesn't have any appointments until the 1st Feb. When do you think you'll tell people?

CamMc · 21/01/2016 14:55

How are you doing bug??

CamMc · 21/01/2016 14:54

Thanks. Just spoke to my husband who was asleep this morning and we've agreed to keep it to ourselves until next week in case. This was third month SMEP and month 11 TTC bug

Bugmuncher · 21/01/2016 14:23

cam congratulations!! Was this your first SMEP month?

Mimilicious013 · 21/01/2016 11:21

Wow cam that is a definate positive.!!

CamMc · 21/01/2016 11:19

Thanks!! I'm being cautiously optimistic! I cannot concentrate at all at work though...keep staring off into space thinking about it. I'm 12 DPO. Tested on 10dpo and got a BFN which upset me. The only reason I tested his morning was to rule myself out so I could drink beer in Brussels this weekend! This is month 11 TTC and cycle 3 on SMEP, so definitely hang in in there