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So it's John Wayne vs Les Dawson in The Great British Pee Off and Prty's judging... get ready to be basted, lovelies!

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PrtyPsn · 04/10/2015 22:34

Hi (big wave)
So you clicked on here cos you were looking for me (I'm flattered!) or the title seemed interesting!
I'm aware it doesn't really explain anything but we are bunch of lovely ladies all TTC and going ever so slightly crazy with it! For more info see our original thread here -

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2412386-TTC-anxious-over-early-pregnancy-possible-symptoms?msgid=56357000#56357000

And our most recent thread here -

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/conception/2458534-Prtys-Gang-and-The-Festival-of-Foof-Fun-when-they-not-being-cray-cray?pg=1&order=

We are symptoms spotters extraordinaire - you name it we've had it, real and/or imagined confused
We are here to help, we are all supportive, we laugh, rant, cry, joke, rage, smile, and comfort together. Be you a lurker or poster (established or new) then you are very welcome here. We only have a few rules:

  1. No judgement - we all lead different lives and have different standards and that is fine. You wanna get wasted everyday of TWW, that's fine. You wanna abstain completely, that's fine. We need support, not judgement.
  2. No feeling stupid - we've all had those months where we definitely think we are pg 110% convinced and then AF turns up, don't feel bad about it, it happens. Also we all have different levels of knowledge so no question is stupid apart from the one you don't ask.
  3. On this thread there is no such thing as TMI - we are all adults and we all know how miraculous and amazing... and downright disgusting our bodies can be, it's fine. Share what you want, we will not be fazed.

So that's it, jump in and FX'd for all my lovelies xx

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SharyBobbins · 18/10/2015 16:47

Glad you joined us Beanz! (can I call you beanz?!)

MrsFlowers82 · 18/10/2015 16:11

Hi Funny you sound like you are in the same boat as me timings and age wise. I had a big meltdown last week as well. No one ever tells you how all consuming TTC actually is. It's exhausting and emotionally draining, however I am now at the start of cycle and going to try and be optimistic again. We WILL get our BFPs! Plus this group is lovely and a massive support. Welcome on board!

Neetie I am also in the middle of a weird AF. No cramps, backache which I have never had before and it seems to have vanished after just two days with just a tiny bit of spotting today. I must say though, slightly jealous of your weird bigger boobs and weight loss!!! Why can't I ever achieve that?!

funnybeanz · 18/10/2015 15:59

Hi everyone, wondered if I could join you on this crazy journey? I made a thread on Friday as had a big meltdown after af arriving when I'd really convinced myself this could be my month. So was ready to give up and everything was stupid. Now I'm slightly more in control but this is such a crazy time. I never realised ttc would be this much of a rollercoster, don't know why I bothered spending time avoiding getting pregnant for 15 odd years! Anyway I'm 33 ttc number 1, came off the pill in January but really started monitoring cycles etc in April. We were supposed to just be "seeing what happens" instead of actively trying but obviously that didn't last long! I'm very worried and wonder about booking doctors appointments for us both. Haven't told friends or family either. Smile

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut · 18/10/2015 15:38

That is weird neetie.

My boobs are so sore at the moment. They feel bruised! It probably doesn't mean much as they always hurt before AF, although not usually quite this much.

neetie1 · 18/10/2015 15:00

Well this is the weirdest af ever ..still cramping not bad just there, not even painful in fact...very odd. Getting headaches and backache as well. Oddest thing though is DH says my boobs do look and feel bigger and firmer , now the only time they have ever done that before was when I put on weight, sooo hops onto the scales thinking oh bugger I've put on loads but I haven't in fact I have lost a few pounds Hmm

Rosi393 · 18/10/2015 14:12

Thanks for the advice, if AF has not arrived in a few days think I will test again. Anticipation is the worst part! Confused

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PrtyPsn · 18/10/2015 14:04

Hey rosi (hands over a Prty's gang induction pack - basically a bulging bag of chocolate)
Could be either, sadly symptoms for both are the same... I would leave it at least 48 hours and test again

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Rosi393 · 18/10/2015 12:51

Hi ladies

Like a lot you you i'm TTC #1. I was in the pill only for a few months then came off it in August at the end of a pack. I had a withdrawal bleed. I had regular periods prior to going on the pill approx 28 day cycles, then 17th sept had AF which was later than usual. I'm now overdue AF today is now day 31, I took a test on Thursday it was BFN which was dissapointing.
I've had sore heads for a week now which I don't usually get and have had cramps for a around 6 days now,
Is there a chance I could be pg or is my body just adjusting after coming off the pill?

Baby dust for everyone smile

SharyBobbins · 18/10/2015 12:39

I second that Prty. OH's family assume I'm not pregnant because I don't want to be & then talk to me like I'm some sort of outcast who doesn't have a maternal extinct. Simple questions like 'what size clothing is nephew/niece in now' is met with a patronising/'bless her' kind of response like I don't understand. In reality I'm asking because I know some kids need a bigger size than their age not because I'm some tit that doesn't get children just because I'm not a "mummy" Envy

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut · 18/10/2015 12:33

Oh dear. People are so thoughtless aren't they, with their comments and assumptions.

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PrtyPsn · 18/10/2015 12:30

Know what you mean shary some days it's all consuming... been thinking this cycle that I'm just gonna stop trying but obviously that's not the answer, just don't know how to deal with it sometimes. And with a pregnancy in the family all I'm getting is sidelong glances and 'jokey' comments about my lack of maternal instinct :/

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SharyBobbins · 18/10/2015 11:08

I've no idea to be honest Bex. I really think it depends on the GP. I'm going to try & book in with the GP who sent me for bloods. I had a phone consultation with him in the summer & he seemed to take me seriously, he must have done to order bloods at that (quite early I guess) stage.

I'm starting to get a bit concerned about the impact it's having on my emotional health too. I get what I need to done (in work, with housework, keeping up apperances by painting a smile on whilst fending off the inevitable 'when are you going to start a family' questions) but my mood is low & my motivation is dwindling. I'm avoiding social situations that involve kids or potential talk of them. I'm specifically avoiding OH's family as we're the only ones not to have kids and I feel so left out. I'm dreading up coming birthdays & Xmas. I hope you guys don't feel like this too as I wouldn't wish this longing on anyone but I bet you all do Sad

Kitten Flowers

MummyBex1985 · 18/10/2015 10:55

Shary will they do OV tests even if they don't prescribe anything or do infertility type tests? Complete novice with this stuff after getting PG so easily first time around.

MrsKittenPie · 18/10/2015 09:57

prty - I know what you mean - I'm always dreaming of a second pink line appearing on a test - but sadly it never does in real life Sad
shary - yes it is always on our minds isn't it. We're going on an annual holiday next month and I remember being disappointed this time last year that I wasn't pregnant for it, to be planning going there again now a year later and I've not had a hint of a bfp is utterly heartbreaking

SharyBobbins · 18/10/2015 09:34

It doesn't Prty Sad OH just asked me what I want for my 30th next year- without even thinking I said "to be having a baby"... Confused
I've still not ovulated & it's CD39. Thinking of booking in with my GP. I know that my bloods came back normal but my cycles are still 42/43 days long so I might go in with that as my primary concern rather than not having conceived yet as it's not been a year. Although it'll have been 10 months so...

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PrtyPsn · 18/10/2015 08:05

TTC never goes away does it?! Had a dream I tested at 4 weeks pregnant... very disappointing to wake up :(

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MrsKittenPie · 17/10/2015 19:24

Hi everyone. Hope you have had a nice day. prty - I'm still keeping my fingers crossed for you x
moo - that line looks good today! Have you done anymore tests today?
youandme - I think I will join you on Thursday for the poas. I don't really know when af is due but it'll be nice to have a poas buddy!
neetie - sorry af is being difficult and sounds like a good conversation with dh.

neetie1 · 17/10/2015 18:52

Mine does that too..two or three days of bleeding and then nothing followed by some light spotting .
Well really don't like my body at all..had a day at the ExCel arena in London at Discover dogs with Sasha and felt fine get back and have awful cramps alongside some niggly pains as well. Wouldn't mind but second day of af is usually ok first day is awful but second not too bad Sad

Interesting convo with DH last night he has been doing some reading bless him and said about 1:4 pregnancies have miscarriage and I explained that many people don't even realise. We did both say IVF would be a no go as we don't have the money and am too old for NHS IVF. Tentatively mentioned adoption and he didn't say no but he thinks the same of social workers as he does of estate agents ....
Still not out of the game yet just thinking of possibilities.

MummyBex1985 · 17/10/2015 17:42

MrsF I've had it lately where it is there for two days, gone for a day then back for two days. Not weird. At all.

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut · 17/10/2015 16:38

Should be Thursday I think. It seems like aaaages away.

MrsFlowers82 · 17/10/2015 16:33

YouandMe that's what I waiting for! Why can't our bodies just behave?!

When are you due to POAS?

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut · 17/10/2015 16:25

My AF sometimes does weird stuff like that MrsFlowers - be warned: it might come back!

MrsFlowers82 · 17/10/2015 16:09

Congrats again Moo!

I'm back to hating my stupid confusing body. AF has now gone after just two days! Starting spotting Weds, heavy bleed followed, by last night nothing and now it's over! WTF?! AF is usually six days.

YouAndMeAreGoingToFallOut · 17/10/2015 15:47

I've got a sort of ache in my left side today. Not painful exactly, just a little niggly. It feels slightly similar to ovulation pain, and it is on the side I ovulated from this month. I'm trying not to think this might be a good sign....

glitterpoppy · 17/10/2015 15:33

I like the sound of that pirsy clinks mug of tea together whilst shouting cheers