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Late period, some symptoms, neg test(s)

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Jennifer8531 · 02/10/2015 13:28

Hi
My AF is 8 days late.
I have some symptoms- smell of coffee I hate, feel sick, tired.
Sometimes I have similar pms symptoms but not to this extent and obviously being as late as I am....
Tested 3 days ago in the morning and last night in the evening and they were negative
When I had my son (born 2011) I knew at about 4 weeks and I had a early miscarriage in March and that was about 4 1/2 weeks

I would of thought it would be positive by now....

Anyone had/having similar problems?

Thanks x

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Pulledapart33 · 07/10/2015 18:42

Oh gosh yes with all this testing we haven't DTD since Friday Shock totally been stressing about testing and getting a BFP!

DD has suspected tonsillitis Sad been give the usual paracetamol and antibiotics. Will see how she is next few days. If temperature not down then have to take her back to Dr's.

Gx91 · 07/10/2015 18:34

Yeh all the can do is try our best and hope for the best ,if ur dtd that often who's to say it won't b this month Wink xxg

Jaffacakey · 07/10/2015 16:20

I know i went though 10 IC 50 when i was certain i was but i've kind of lost the hope now i am just going with dtd eod but i think it won't be a success. I am just waiting form my sister to baby bomb us as she knows we are trying, all it takes for her is to look at a penis and she is pregnant

Gx91 · 07/10/2015 16:15

Good advice jaffacakey Smile we haven't dtd since sat morning , not been feeling upto it , mibi try squeeze in a quicky later lol as for not testing I struggle coz I bot 2 packs of 3 of the £1 ones so while they r in the house I know I can't resist ! I'm therefore the cause of my own disappointment lol xx

Pulledapart - sorry to hear about ur DD is she ok ? Xxg

Pulledapart33 · 07/10/2015 15:54

Off to Dr's with a poorly DD Sad today cannot get any worse.

Jaffacakey · 07/10/2015 14:57

Oh a FX you are actually all PG would be wonderful news if you are Grin

Jaffacakey · 07/10/2015 14:56

Hi Everyone,

I was the same two months ago... i have been monitoring my cycles since april (only started trying this month) and me and my DH DTD with no protection my AF was two months late negative test everything... i always had bang on 30 day cycles so unfortunately it can just stop for no reason.

I just wanted to say don't keep testing the heartbreak gets harder and harder each day hour, minute and second just keep on dtd eod incase you missed a cycle or ovulate later than normal

Pulledapart33 · 07/10/2015 14:48

I'm 14 days overdue but still testing negative. Getting all the symptoms but nothing.

Gx91 · 07/10/2015 14:33

Sounds like us ladies r having one of our really bad days Sad

Plus I'm so super tired today so that's probably y I'm feeling Imotional , got a busier day tomorrow to help distract me from thinking about peeing on a stick ! Lol
I also read about a lot of women gettin very late BFP and even neg blood tests and then to discover they were 7-8 weeks pregnant ! These sites r great be coz otherwise we wouldn't get this information !

Hope ur all getting on ok today xxg

lollyb20 · 07/10/2015 14:01

When is your AF due? X

Pulledapart33 · 07/10/2015 13:53

Thanks lollyb20 I hope ur ok too x

I'm so find this so helpful as I read can't speak to anyone in RL who will understand. So thank you to you all xxx

lollyb20 · 07/10/2015 13:12

Me too i find it heartbreaking when i get a negative i try to stay so positive but sometimes it gets to much. Iv never spoke on a forum before but im finding it quite helpful i dont feel so alone. I hope your ok? X

Pulledapart33 · 07/10/2015 13:04

I know what mine will just say "it's ur PCOS it happens with it" Erm no my periods have been regular clockwork all year so it don't just happen. Getting that through to them is hard so like you lollyb20 I won't be bothering with them.

Thank you for the hugs Gx91 I needed them this morning as I felt so bloody low Sad ((( hugs ))) back x

Your right about the disappointment I think I'll test next at the weekend if AF still not here. I can't take more negative this week.

lollyb20 · 07/10/2015 11:37

My doctors are useless they send me away telling me to wait so i just dont bother anymore! X

Gx91 · 07/10/2015 11:31

It's a total pain in the ass eh ? Confused our body's can't b toying with us everyone seems to b showing similar symptoms ! Any one called their doctors ? I'm interested to see what they saying about it ? Do you think they would just turn u away and tell u to keep waiting ? I've got an aunties 40th this sat but not going to drink a drop incase I find out I'm pregnant after ! Xxg

lollyb20 · 07/10/2015 11:06

Hi im in the same boat as you all 12 days late today been trying to concieve for a while now this month i just feel different been getting headaches very tired feeling quite sick and have bold blue veins accross my boobs and through my areola but 3 negative tests!!

Gx91 · 07/10/2015 09:08

Pulledapart- was hoping for your good news today, your mibi doing yourself a fav not testing everyday , the disappointment every morning isn't a good start to the day - hope ur hanging in ok ((hugs))XSad

I'm the sm bn testing every morning still no result , I'm actually in a depressed state today and not testing till the wkend now, will b taking a trip to the GP next week if AF not arrived , I'm so worried im not pregnant now bcoz I feel so sure and know il b upset X didn't think I would b like this first month of TTC xxg

Pulledapart33 · 07/10/2015 08:12

Morning ladies how we all doing?

I'm going outta my mind 14 days no AF Confused Can't test this morning as no pregnancy tests at home which may be a good thing considering the amount I've been doing.

Read another thread on here with someone 38 days and still no period Shock really don't want that to be me.

Symptoms have calmed down though thankfully not feeling nausea this morning.

Wantobemum - did you poas? X

Gx91 · 06/10/2015 09:57

Pulledapart- omg how frustrating , what's going on ! Iv been reading loads of posts on the internet n it's not uncommon to be waiting a long time after expected AF some ppl just don't produce enough HCG for the test , I know with my first pregnancy it took a while can't remember how long tho , was hoping it wouldn't be the same this time round X
Don't know if a chemical pregnancy would give u all the synptoms ur having ? Mibi worth even calling ur GP just for a chat? They might offer u a blood test Smile I'd bite their hand of for a blood test and I'm only 2-3 days late !! Lol
Mibi help getting some info from the doctor aswell to help with the constant wonderment as we can see from this site it's probably more common than we think ! Good luck xx

Wantobeamum -looking forward to how u r getting on today Smile xx

Pulledapart33 · 06/10/2015 09:04

Gx91 just hang in there ((( hugs )))

Pulledapart33 · 06/10/2015 09:03

Morning ladies,
I couldn't help myself and tested. BFN again but the symptoms are still there. Yep still have the lovely nausea feeling. A lot of cramping too. I was thinking maybe it's one of those chemical pregnancies as surely I should have got a positive by now?

Anyhow the next batch of tests will arrive Thursday the earliest so I can't test even if I wanted to till then. Or maybe I'll go and buy some LOL

Fingers crossed for you wantobemum Smile do let us know how you got on x

Gx91 · 06/10/2015 07:57

Morning girls how u doing today ?
Well woke up to another BFN after very vivid dreams about getting a BFN! Was hoping it wasn't the case! Had some cramping at bed time but no sign of AF X
Wantobeamum how did ur test go ? FX for u! Will be looking out for ur post Smile X
Pulled apart are you still hanging in there ? Any nausea today ? Xxg

Gx91 · 05/10/2015 19:43

Yeh got bf to get the milk on way home from work lol not tested yet going to wait til tomorrow morning so will be in here posting after ! Been having really tingly nipples tonight never get sore boobs before a period before don't want to wake up to it Sad X

Can't believe both of u r so late and not getting a positive .. Bet I'm the same !

Wantobeamum really gunning for you tomorrow hopefully it's ur time ! Good luck!!! Wink xx

wantobeamum · 05/10/2015 18:32

Hey Ladies...just catching up on the convo, got a quick break at work. I completely agree about men, I don't want to talk about too much to him anymore he things because I want it so bad it wont happen Hmm.

Still cant believe the amount of symptoms you're having pulled apart and testing negative. I'm testing tomorrow 10 days after AF was due clearly not as strong as you to wait 15 I'm going mad now! Will let you know what it says...

Gx91 you remind me of myself you just end up looking everything up! Have you tested yet...and did you get milk? Lol xx

Gx91 · 05/10/2015 17:12

Ps hope ur nausea has calmed down pulledapart? Did the chickpeas help ? Xx