Emmsys Weebles - The one we keep going!

Hello Emmsys. It's been years since I've posted on here, but events today have drawn me back.

Not sure if anyone is still reading, but if you are and remember MLS, she very sadly died of cancer today. I am so desperately sad for her 3DCs and her DH. She was the person who invited me onto the Emmsys thread. We were both on a due in October group and then I had my mmc. She was so lovely, even though she had also had a scare around that time.

Just too young to go. Bloody cancer.

Happy birthday to J - they grow so fast don't they! Z turned 5 a few months ago and S will be 9 next week!

Tomorrow will be 10 years since my mmc - the experience changed my outlook on life forever. The memories never go away do they. So grateful to have my 2 babies in my life and forever grateful to you ladies for all your great advice, words of wisdom and hand holding along the way x

This time five years ago, I was pacing the living room floor, and I paced it all night!
My (not so) little J is five years old tomorrow. Happy birthday to my beautiful boy. I love you so much xxxxx

Years not tears. Although there were plenty of tears!

to my favourite girls, lovely to see you all. I still lurk occasionally. I miss the place that this used to be. I think of you all often. My 'little' J is nearly five and starts big school in September. I never thought that day would come all those heart breaking tears ago. Still grateful to you all for getting me through those tough times.

Ooh very exciting!!
Ours has to end by mid September. I’m having a big operation at the beginning of October, and need to spend 23 hrs of the day lying in bed for the first month so we really need to be back in by then 😬 Wish we could be a bit more relaxed about it taking longer though!!
How long do you think your work will take?

Is starts end of this month / early next month.

When is your work due to end ?

It sounds very exciting though - I am trying to focus on the progress rather than the fact that every single surface in my house is absolutely covered in dust, wood shavings and goodness knows what else. It is hazardous in there at the moment! Good luck with your renovation - when’s it starting? x

Oh yes how can I forget the dust that will get everywhere and take forever to clean up

And the dust Sabs there will be lots of dust 😂 Worth it though!!

Hello Chintaria it's Ramadan at the moment so not trying to go on social media as much - but then I ended up on here

Hope the renovation is going well! We're going to be doing a big renovation ourselves soon, new kitchen, 2 new rooms in the loft and moving the bathroom from the ground to first floor. Not looking forward to different living arrangements whilst it's all going on but need to look at the benefits long term !

Hi Sabs! Fancy seeing you here 😂 Hope all good with your gorgeous 2?! I haven’t seen you on fb much recently - hope everything is okay?

All is fine with us thanks. We’re renovating our house at the mo so living in the annexe in the garden & all sleeping in the same room which is fun 😆

Love to all x

Popping to say hello to all you lovely ladies if anyone still lurks. I think of you all!

S is now 8 and Z is going to be 5 in a couple of weeks time. Doesn't time fly!

Love to you all x

Hi chintaria and 4ever, great to see you both! We are all doing great thanks, J keeps me smiling the little mischievous monkey. I think of this place often and all you girls who supported me through the tough times. Glad to know there's still some of us left. Happy new year to you. Xxx

Hi moon 🤗 Did you have a lovely Christmas? How is J?! Hope all is well with you? Not sure whether any of the others still come into MN but I love looking at the conception boards & giving advice when I can!
I really hope you are okay - we are all fine. C is almost 11 now, and L will be 4 in Jan. The time passes so fast it’s untrue! Wish it would slow down a little though...
Wishing you a wonderfully Happy New Year, and anyone else who may be lurking too 😘

Just in case anyone still lurks...
I hope you all had a lovely Christmas and best wishes to you all for 2018.
I miss my weebles.

Hi bq lovely to see you popping on! Wow 6 already that's amazing. And I don't think I realised you had another, I'm so pleased for you we've come a long way....

Hello all hope your all ok. L is now 6 and enzo is 13 months love to you all

Happy birthday to my beautiful little boy, 4 today. We are so lucky to have you. This thread reminds me that we very almost didn't. We are very grateful every day that you came into our lives.

And a belated Happy Mothers Day to you too moon! Did you do anything special on Sunday? We normally do the Belgian Mother's Day as that's the one the kids will make something at school for. I always remember my mum on UK MD, and squeeze my two tighter than normal though. It does us good to remember how lucky we are!
I'm doing okay thanks considering... My sil is pg for the first time at 43, she is due almost four weeks before I was, so it's pretty tough. Also my cleaning lady fell pregnant a couple of weeks after me and chose to have an abortion 😢 I'm all for choice, but it's her fourth one, and she has them instead of using contraception 😤 Bad timing for me though, was pretty tough to hear about her plans, then to realise we both stopped being pg around the same time. Not yet sure if we'll try again, would love a third but I'm just so grateful for what we have already that I'm just leaving it to fate and seeing what happens 😊
Is J in nursery full time? When will he start school? Boys can be so energetic - what sort of things does he like doing?

Happy mothers day to all the mummy's out there, of babies past, present and future. Being very grateful for my beautiful boy.

Hi chintaria. I am so sorry to hear your news. I hope you are doing ok, you have been through the mill a bit. I always thought that once I had J it would get easier, but I still think about them just as much as before.

But we are all well thank you. J started nursery in January and he loves it. He's still a handful. I don't know what to do with him half the time!

Hope you and your family are all doing well. A big hug to you for your lost little one.
Thank you for posting. And hi to any lurkers.

Hi moon 😘 I do still lurk, but don't often find time to post. I think a couple of the others occasionally lurk too...
How are you doing? Is J okay? And your dh? Really hope things are going well for you!
Yes, I too think about our lost little ones. I don't think we'll ever stop to be honest. It gets easier with time though. I had another miscarriage at 8 weeks a few weeks ago, so am still trying to deal with the fallout from that. Just brings it all back really 😢
Will check back soon x