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Anyone ttc baby #2?

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jp0303 · 20/09/2015 18:18

Hi everyone,

I'm new here, ttc baby #2 (1st cycle) and already driving myself wild with the tww. I wondered if anyone else is in the same boat?

I was so relaxed about baby #1 that the constant nagging thoughts about am I / aren't I are completely new to me and are making me feel anxious with symptom spotting.

Thought I'd see if there is anyone to talk to on here as my husband is quite matter of fact about there being nothing we can do to find out except for being patient - I know, he's infuriating right.

It'd be great to buddy up if anyone else is in a similar position.

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Gx91 · 14/12/2015 14:21

Mimi - u go girl all natural ! ( not even gas and air ?) at least u wouldn't have the drugs messing with the system X I know eh y do we do it again lol it is totally worth it in the end X
Think I'm stopping at 2 kids tho , if I get broody again think we will get a puppy ! lol X
Shorty - I have the choice for an elective c section , kust thought I'd give it a second bash lol X how did h get on with ur recovery ? Xx

Shortybabe · 14/12/2015 13:16

I had an elective cs with ds. Spinal was fine. Epidural scan slow things down and can lead to a slightly higher incidence of interventions but they defo have their place. I would advise an open mind and to see how things progress. X

Mimilicious013 · 14/12/2015 12:51

Sent msg earlier only delivering now.tattie at least the epidural worked for u.im hoping for a natural no meds if possible.iv had issues with high bp and inducti

Mimilicious013 · 14/12/2015 12:40

Kkkk gx.after all the pain u wld think u wld never go back but here we are crying for bfps!!you had a rough time too kellz and hope have it easier this time both of you.water birth gx that wld be ideal hey but nothing like ideal labour

Gx91 · 14/12/2015 12:17

Ouch tattie , I forgot about getting cut down there! There's no easy way to get a baby put is there ?! X
I'm definatly more nervous this time round xx

TattieHowkerz · 14/12/2015 12:10

Mimi,
I had an epidural last time.

I was induced at 38 weeks as I have diabetes and epilepsy. I was warned I would need pain relief as apparently early inductions are particularly hard going.

When it go to it, I really needed it. I had to have an episiotomy and forceps, but that was because DDs big head was stuck, I still managed to push with a light epidural. She just wouldn't move!

Recovery from episiotomy and forceps was very painful, wound for infected and I needed antibiotics, could sit down easily for weeks.

I'd like a vaginal birth again, but need to discuss with my obstetrician. I have some minor issues with rectocele but nothing that interferes with sex or with continence, and I'd like to keep it that way.

All worth it though... Just! Smile

Kellz92 · 14/12/2015 11:56

Now it posts the first one that it said it couldn't lol xx

Kellz92 · 14/12/2015 11:54

Wont let me upload the pic of my test hmmmm

Dunno I its tomorrow I can use monitor as I started on cd7 as I was impatient so might be a few days yet.

Xx

My labour story would put anybody ttc 1 off xx

Kellz92 · 14/12/2015 11:53

Here's my test today. Lighting is poor as it was dark
Dunno I its tomorrow I can use monitor as I started on cd7 as I was impatient so might be a few days yet.

My labour story would put anybody ttc 1 off xx

Gx91 · 14/12/2015 11:38

Arrgh kellz , u had a tough time ! It's hard to know what way it will go eh X
Think u have ur BFP let us know what ur CB monitor says lol xx

Good thing this is a TTC no 2 thread , if there was any trying for bby no 1 I think we may have changed their minds with the labour stories lol X

Kellz92 · 14/12/2015 11:11

Hi. Still faint. Dunno if any shop near me sell frers, that will be open after I pick up DD :( so maybe no testing tomorrow. However since AF is due my cb monitor will let me test.

I had an epidural last time and it failed. I only took it because I was recommended due to baby nor coping. Everytime I got a contraction my bp shot up, which Keira didn't cope with. I had bp issues anyway. So i had a load of other medication. Until I went to theatre and they tried again for forceps delivery. I dunno if id do it again. Xx

Gx91 · 14/12/2015 10:42

Oh no ! I was ready for ur gory details lol I'm weird live a labour story haha X it's funny how with ur first u make a lovely birthing plan , I wanted the water bath and a good cd on in the background haha ( didn't that go to pot !) xx

Mimilicious013 · 14/12/2015 10:35

Scary times undeed!.good luck and it could even be a lot easier.fx.had posted a long essay and it got lost eeish.

Gx91 · 14/12/2015 10:21

DD was our first , so they will allow me to try again for a vaginal delivery this time and if we have a third it will have to b a c section X
Recovery is shit after c section , very painful X
Another reason y I want to have a normal birth because I can't just lie in bed with a newborn this time as I will have toddler to chase around on top of that ! Scary times !! X

Mimilicious013 · 14/12/2015 10:09

Did your doc allow u to deliver v after a cs.im sorry hun.how long did it take u to recover after the cs? I get the chills when i think of it

Gx91 · 14/12/2015 10:05

I know where ur coming from , I was scared about paralysis first time so didn't go for it but ended up getting one for c section anyway and it was fine , really weird not being able to feel anything from the waist down tho haha X
I'm prepared for labour to be carnage again tho ( just got that feeling it's not going to be a smooth ride) I'm really small built and big babies run in the family ! X God forbid there's twins I'm there !! Blushx
Do u mind me asking about ur labour with DD ? Xx

Mimilicious013 · 14/12/2015 09:57

Hie gx hope your weekend was great.mmm am rather scared because iv also read it slows down labour too.was also told abt the chances of paralysis.its crazy hey. sorry about your terrible experience.labour is always an experience !!!

Gx91 · 14/12/2015 09:36

Morning all X
Mimi - I'm considering it this time , I had a traumatic time with DD , 27 hours of labour which ended in a c section , she was back to back and I had a pethadine injection which slowed labour , they upped my contractions at 6 cms ( agony) then her heartbeat dropped and she had to come out X
Really want to try for a natural birth so was thinking just a epidural this time , although downside is they usually nd to intervene ( il just push like f**k!!!) lol
Y u ask ? R u thinking about it too ? Smile
Kellz wats the pee stick saying this morning ? X

Mimilicious013 · 14/12/2015 09:28

Sorry for double post.
Also meant considering

Mimilicious013 · 14/12/2015 09:26

Hie ladies
fast forwarding a bit are any u thinking of an epidural ???was reading abt it and hope it's not out of line asking,anyone used it before or consideraring it?

Mimilicious013 · 14/12/2015 09:25

Hie ladies
fast forwarding a bit are any u thinking of an epidural ???was reading abt it and hope it's not out of line asking,anyone used it before or consideraring it?

Mimilicious013 · 14/12/2015 09:19

Well-done shorty and good luck.it's a lot of work dtd lol.im on cd5 and the thought of sex makes me wanna puke kkkk.had enough of it now !kellz what's today's latest ?

Shortybabe · 14/12/2015 08:23

Good luck Kellz hope it's a clear bfp today 🙏. Well cd19 & 11th flashing smiley. Giving it up as a bad job (although still gonna use last three sticks Blush ) Have DTD eod without fail since cd5 so will just have to hope that's enough and come what may. X

Gx91 · 13/12/2015 22:06

I'm sure u will have a darker line tomorrow those tests u posted had better lines than what I had after my indent ones ! X

Kellz92 · 13/12/2015 22:05

Will do, did a cheapie tonight but it was a bfn, however i had only peed about 3/4 hr before it lol. Going to do the other early indicator in the morning. Its my last one so may need to buy a frer tomorrow lol xx

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