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Waiting to try, and cycle a mess from the pill

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AlexandraOrlov · 19/08/2015 09:20

Just wondering if there are any other lurkers in the same boat as me, planning to TTC in December/January?

I came off the pill three months ago and have only had one pathetic AF in that time, so very glad I came off early but also pretty anxious at how messed up things are, 1st cycle was 39 days, this one is 40 and courting.

So who's with me? I can't be the only person on here who is actually hoping for AF!

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firstgo1984 · 25/01/2016 22:16

Cd32 and not a peep... though CM back ti beinv clear and smooth. Where is my egg!?!?!?

NewGirl2015 · 25/01/2016 22:04

Hi ladies! Lots going on with you all, sounds like many ovulation window's are on their way, get DTD!! Wishing you lots of luck Thanks

I'm in the dreaded TWW, what's worse I am not sure if I am 6 or 8 DPO! Going to try my best to wait until the weekend to test so I try to avoid any false negatives.
Temps are still high so fingers crossed. Confused xx

Yvonne1986 · 25/01/2016 21:22

It's quiet late as well isn't it I'm sure I ready you should try to test earlier on? X

cnchapmanxx · 25/01/2016 20:42

Tested and no second line not even the faintest one. Tbh though I've been drinking water all day and my wee wasn't strong it was almost clear so don't know whether that has anything to do with it. Feeling a bit confused haha! XXXX

Yvonne1986 · 25/01/2016 19:47

Hopefully it will be a nice dark like when you test! Xx

cnchapmanxx · 25/01/2016 18:48

i hope so yvonne! i had a faint line yday havent been home yet to do one. i will as soon as i get in. hoping it is just ov bleeding and not another period. think id cry.

good news about your faint opk fx for you it gets darker! that is the same with me yvonne although i mentioned we need to step it up and he agreed reluctantly xxx

Yvonne1986 · 25/01/2016 17:31

Chapman that fx it's ovulation bleeding what cd are you? Have you had any positive OPK?

Good look girls in the tww lots of positive sounding symptoms hopefully AF will stay away!!!

I'm on CD19 slightest faint line on OPK so fx it gets darker over the next few days.

Quite a few of my friends who are pregnant/new mums have said they just dtd every other day and fell pregnant it's stressing me out as we only Dtd once or twice a week and I don't want to force it or put too much pressure on my OH x

cnchapmanxx · 25/01/2016 16:09

Bobo there is no pain just it's more red than brown! And it seems like it's mixed with mucus but still feel a bit uneasy thinking its another period haha. But the feeling in my stomach is the type I get when I'm due on. :/ xxxx

shankate182 · 25/01/2016 15:28

Bobo I hope it stays away my boobs are awful sore aswel :(

BoBo90 · 25/01/2016 15:08

Chapman - I had ovulation bleeding for the first time ever this cycle. It was more of a brown mucus than red blood. Lasted 2 days and then went and there was no pain with it at all. If yours is similar then it could be ovulation bleeding too! DTD anyway just in case Smile

Shankate - I've been getting the odd cramp too so fx af stays away for both of us!

shankate182 · 25/01/2016 14:42

Iv never heard of ovulating bleeding before but if it is hope you catch it the month :) FX Chapman

cnchapmanxx · 25/01/2016 14:32

Shankate - don't think it's implantation bleeding as I'm due to ovulate this week/now.
I've read up on it and if its ovulating bleeding I should only have it for 12 hours / 1-2 days I don't know though xxxx

shankate182 · 25/01/2016 13:32

Chapman I had light bleeding for 4 weeks without a break before first AF? Cud be implantation bleeding either FX for BFP :)

cnchapmanxx · 25/01/2016 13:22

Has anyone experienced mid cycle bleeding?? I've been to the toilet and it was very light and then I went again it was still light but a bit more. So confused. Confused

shankate182 · 25/01/2016 11:18

Ps getting bad cramps this morning going right down into me :( hopefully af stays away

shankate182 · 25/01/2016 11:16

Cookie
I didn't know that so If not arrived by Monday il test :)

Sunnydays321 · 25/01/2016 08:29

Hmm cookie that's odd, although maybe it's helpful to only know peak so you aren't wondering for days if it's high or not. I would get did anyway.

So ladies I'm really confused. I'm not sure what's going on. I had a positive opk on Saturday AND a big temp rise... Temp sayed up since BUT opk really really dark on Sunday and still really positive today (in picture top opk was Saturday, temp rise day and what FF says is OV day, two middle ones are Sunday and bottom one is this morning!!) which would suggest on opk that my peak was yesterday or today. You are supposed ovulate 12-36 hours after LAST positive opk, So why has my temp been high since before my 1st positive opk?? My temps sat Sunday were possibly unrelieble as I had been drinking the night before and temps taken a little late, but don't want to disregard them completely as they were such a big rise.. Almost a whole degree. This has happened previous months too. What's going on with my hormones?

Waiting to try, and cycle a mess from the pill
Waiting to try, and cycle a mess from the pill
Cookie22 · 25/01/2016 07:00

Shankate if your expected AF is due Thursday then POAS on Thurs and Fri, even just with an IC! I did CB ov stick this morning and no smiley, not even a flashing one, boo! It's so strange because when I take it out the holder afterwards the lines are quite dark. Maybe it's only going to pick up my peak surge, like last month xx

shankate182 · 24/01/2016 23:11

Ah no incase I didn't ov I wasn't checking just going by my last af Thursday will be cd28 :) ya think so? I dno cus it might not show up this early

cnchapmanxx · 24/01/2016 22:51

Well if your due Thursday I wouldn't wait til February haha! Try maybe the day after your due or on the day??

shankate182 · 24/01/2016 22:35

Chapman
I'm going to test mid February if AF doesn't arrive as I done want to be disappointed with a BFN :( I hope so anyways cus they be sore for a while den normal now there really sore for some reason Haa my boyfriend the same twice last night and then this morning

cnchapmanxx · 24/01/2016 22:18

Sometimes I get no emails sometimes I get loads haha!
Good luck shankate and bobo!! Those are positive signs for pregnancy fx it's a bfp! Have you not thought about testing shankate? And bobo fx for you!

Just done the baby dance dtd with the DH he must think it's his lucky day twice in 2 days never heard off - once we got married it seemed to dwindle haha!
Xxx

shankate182 · 24/01/2016 21:56

Hey girls iv missed loads to wasn't getting email either? Best of luck on the opks girls hope ye Catch ov this month one of us need BFP and sprinkle the baby dust around :)
CD23 and my boobs are so sore can Bearly touch them :( have got real bad acne on my forehead and chin :( have HBP also :( so have to visit doctor Friday to check that ? Have been really tired lately also and getting weird stitch like cramps and period pains also :( if no sign AF Thursday will test mid Feb :) hopefully BFP soon

firstgo1984 · 24/01/2016 20:45

sunny cd23 would be amazing

Cookie22 · 24/01/2016 20:38

Good luck Bobo- you're symptoms sound positive! If the statistics are anything to go by then I'm really hoping at least 1 in 5 of us on here should get pregnant this month. Though seeing as some of us have been trying for at least 3 months I'm keeping everything crossed that we'll see some more Bfps than that figure Smile got my CB ov sticks ready for the morning & hoping to see at least a flashing face! Xx