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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

New here TTC baby #1 Cycle #1

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Katilo2 · 09/08/2015 16:45

Hello, I'm new to MumsNet. We are officially going to ttc baby #1 at the end of September but I'm 1dpo and in the 7 days leading up to ovulation we DBD 4 times. I'm so so hoping that AF won't make an appearance on the 22nd August! Just starting the tww. Anyone else in this boat, or anyone else ttc on cycle 1?

Best wishes,
K x

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XL · 09/10/2015 00:34

Lol!!! 10 days to go for me! It's a killer there's no doubt about it!! And impossible to tell!!! I've felt so bloody raging today! I could've argued with myself!! I'm not normally that bad but am not reading anything into it! Bloated too... That can be quite normal and eat!!....Well I think I've ate the ass out of a dead donkey!! Grin seem to have a thing for cheese on toast the last 2 days which is great considering I'm trying wheat and dairy free diet for my endo!! Ha! Other than that great! Shock xx

TheCatsMother99 · 08/10/2015 22:47

The 2WW is a pain in the ass, no doubt about it.

I know I'll be asking for a crystal ball this Xmas so I'll just know immediately rather than have to wait 2 bloomin weeks! Wink

Wanderlust1 · 08/10/2015 20:54

Trying not to lose the plot.... 9 days to go and I'm counting down the days like a kid waiting to go to Disneyland. Arghhhhhhh

How about you?x

XL · 08/10/2015 19:49

How are we all doing?

XL · 05/10/2015 15:29

I'm going to try and occupy my self too wander! Less psycho behaviour Grin love it! X
Thanks cats that does sound a bit annoying, let's hope the app is wrong ish and the opk moves your days around a bit... I guess as long as you manage a go on positive day and a couple of days after it'll be all good! Don't give up yet Smile X

TheCatsMother99 · 05/10/2015 10:34

Legs in the air! Haha!! I thought that was an old wives tale but if it actually works you'll bet i'll be doing it.

FX for you, XL Smile

My Ovia app says my fertile period is from this Friday till Wed, annoyingly, my DH is away with work Friday until Monday, he's out Tuesday night (although he will be home late at night) so really that just leaves Wednesday after work. Will still use my OPKs incase the app isn't accurate but it's still bloomin irritating. I feel as though this month is already out for us Sad

Wanderlust1 · 04/10/2015 18:07

Crossing everything for you XL - I'm due 18th. Here's hoping less psycho behavior takes place in the wait this month Grin . Must keep very busy!!x

XL · 04/10/2015 15:17

And so the 2ww begins! AF due on 19th.... Fx she don't show up!

XL · 02/10/2015 18:21

Lol!! Love that he's been looking! I started with 5-10 I've now upped the anti to 20 mins legs in the air and then a further 10 just lying down... Today I fell asleep for an hour! Shock getting too old for these acrobatics! Fx! x

Wanderlust1 · 02/10/2015 18:03

Totally! At least we can share these mad antics with our little group. I think my mates would think I'm insane.

I'm with you on the head stands.... Well not quite. But the whole legs in the air thing. I thought I was doing well lasting 5-10mins then my husband came home from work last night and told me (after finding an interest to Google conception tricks) that I need to do it for 30mins!!!!
We need to take time off work and social life to keep up with all these tricks!
Hopefully last month for us x

XL · 02/10/2015 16:38

Haha!!!! I bet he is wander! I am doing head stands and allsorts... It's quite amusing really! I shall have a day off tomorrow and go once more Sunday Grin although I'm on nights so shall be knackered!
isn't it funny what we share Blush
Good luck to us both! x

Wanderlust1 · 02/10/2015 16:29

Here we go girlies!
XL, we're very in tune! I'm on CD13 and got my 2nd and final 'peak' on the opk today.
I'm a turbo freak and have gone for the every day method in the fertile period. Husband is ready to hang up his boots now!!!

These next two weeks can hurry right up :-)

XL · 02/10/2015 15:01

Yes that's what I heard ren that's why I dtd every other day!! Positive opk today cd12 Smile fx for a good month!

ren2903 · 02/10/2015 14:39

Thanks all I've got some sticks on their way...

I've heard that you should just keep it to a few times a week to keep the sperm good quality...

XL · 01/10/2015 22:21

I know! Me too Grin I did start off doing it everyday after a positive opk then I spoke to a friend of mine who was having IVF and she said her consultant had said not to do it everyday but every other day... I've now tried both and I figure that sperm can last for days in there so every other day for me is enough lol!! I'm sure there's other people that do it multiple times daily!! I couldn't do that with work aswell id be dead!! Lol x

Wanderlust1 · 01/10/2015 21:52

Thanks XL - I just get panicky about potentially 'wasting' a month, which is silly. x

XL · 01/10/2015 16:29

pixie sorry to hear about af btw

XL · 01/10/2015 16:28

I use the cheapie one step opks too ren
pixie yep the preseed is the fertility friendly lube I'd read good and positive things about it but after trying not for me!! Lol!

wander I've had a pos opk on cd12 seems to vary between 12 and 15 for me... I just carry on and dtd every other day I've read some recommend everyday and then others every other day

Pixie1988 · 01/10/2015 12:51

Ren I use internet cheapies called one step, about £3 for 20 and never had a problem with them.

Wanderlust1 · 01/10/2015 12:16

Hey Ren, I use Clear Blue Dual Hormone indicator, digital ones. I really like them. They're silly proof and you can get about 3 months out of the box of 20 if you use them carefully. x

ren2903 · 01/10/2015 10:06

So I have my very light AF again...

What ovulation tests do you all use, I think I need to check I am actually ovulating!

Pixie1988 · 01/10/2015 09:34

Hey all, Sorry I've been quiet, af arrived Monday, was gutted but feeling positive now!! Smile keeping busy with work.

Is preseed the sperm friendly lube? X

Wanderlust1 · 01/10/2015 07:36

Ha ha ha. Oh well, at least you gave it a shot! And you got other freebies with yours Smile

So I've a question for you ladies, according to my CBDH OPK I've reached my peak already today.... On CD12.... How many times and when do you guys DTD on these days?? Husband friend had to run off to work before I could tell him today was the day.... So I'll have to wait for him to come home from work and I'm turning all looney tune that I don't want to miss the window......
**Daisy- Maybe you can share your wisdom too x

XL · 30/09/2015 20:33

Tmi warning! Don't like the preseed at all!! Far too slippery! EeeekBlush

Wanderlust1 · 30/09/2015 06:46

Pixie- any update for you? Crossing my fingers.

XL- it arrived! I'm still waiting for mine. Good luck Smile