POAnything? Symptom Spotting?

Im new on this thread, just been reading up on posts.

Sorry to hear that chell, it must be very difficult, take care of yourself.

I myself am on cd 18 i think and about 6 days post ov. 4 days post ov I had some cramps, last night was stupidly emotional felt all tearful. I would think its far too early for all of that and with my first dc, i didnt have anything but sore boobs b4 my bfp. So I have no idea, anyone else had this stuff this early.

Chelle, I'm so sorry to hear this, massive hugs to you and your partner. Thinking of you x

The scan was private. I've had quite a lot of texting support from both my midwife and therapist. Midwife has referred me to the epu so I should hear something soon.

We wanted this baby so much so feel lost without her.

We are starting to think about extending our honeymoon and adding on a trip to south Africa. I need to try to hold on to something in the future.

OH is devastated. He's holding up ok and has cut back on work as much as he can so we can be together. We are having lots of cuddles and just waiting really.

Chelle, I think that is the right way to think about it, she will be back.

I worry about the worst all the time keep telling myself that if anything happens that the baby wouldn't have survived on the outside or would of had a very poor quality of life. That's another way to think of it.

Has your GP or hospital offered you any kind of bereavement help?

How is you DP holding up?

Thanks. It's tough. I just want my baby back.

I might be crazy but I'm thinking she will be back. She came, thought 'sod that, I'll come back in six months'

I'm sure her spirit will live on. She's gone for now but will be back when she's ready

Chelle I was there was something I could say or do to help x

What's frustrating is I'm hardly bleeding at all and I just have to wait to miscarry now. Nan is with me but doesn't really understand. She just thinks I've found out I'm not pregnant.

oh Chelle I am so sorry. That is devastating and heartbreaking. Look after yourself and take it easy. Xxx

oh chelle I am SO sorry for your loss, my thoughts and sympathies are with you both my lovely xxx

Chelle I'm absolutely devastated for you, it's everyone's worst nightmare. I can't imagine what you are going through.

Rest up, my thoughts are with you both x

There was no heartbeat. Baby stopped growing at six weeks. I have to go and have an nhs scan in a week to check up.

More bleeding tonight. We are both beyond devastated. I was going to be 21 weeks at our wedding. So gutted

As long as you have peace of mind it doesn't matter which route you go.

Fingers crossed for you x

keeping everything crossed for you Chelle. Hope it goes ok this afternoon. Shame you couldn't get an NHS appointment but at least you haven't had to wait for a private one. Good luck.

I cant stop crying. More blood today. Booked a private scan for 3.30
NHS here will only provide one if I've had two previous miscarriages

Oh Chelle, you don't need to be brave, i'm sure your nan would understand.

I hope you can get a scan, it will make you feel so much better to see your baby. Let me know how it all goes x

Thankyou I really appreciate it. My nan is down for the week so I'm trying to be brave. Still bleeding a little. I've text my midwife to find out the chances of getting an early scan shocking considering i wasn't even going to have a 12 week scan. She's going to ring me tomorrow to talk it through.

I'm curled up in bed now with tummy cramps and a little bleeding. I just want to see my baby.

OH said he'll go steady with the sex next time he wasn't rough but I ended up in a pool of blood tmi, sorry. I just want to cry

That's good to hear. It's all so scary isn't it. I'm always here if you need to chat x

I've spoken to my midwife and she said that I need to give her a buzz if I start cramping. I've had some cramps but the bleeding seems to have stopped for now. I'm feeling much calmer now and less tearful.

Chelle, I've heard bleeding is quite common but go and get yourself checked out please. Hope you're ok x

Bleeding

Im still here, having a month off trying whilst i get through nans funeral, but back to it after wednesday :)

Hi Rik,

Seems like we are all blooming in the bra department!! I'm so bloated these days that I feel like a frump! Meeting my ex next weekend at the wedding of a mutual friend. First time I will meet OW! Feeling like a frump is not the look I need

I'm feeling a bit envious of all these scans. decided not to have the 12 week scan. I'm going to be awful. I don't want any examinations, sweeps, etc. I hate am bloody scared witless all the medical stuff. I had a dream a couple of nights ago that I delivered baby at home with just me and OH because midwives weren't quick enough.

Hi, Rik here, name changed.

I went for a fitting today..... Gone up 3 cup sizes! Am much more comfortable now :-)

Had my scan date through too, 4th Sept, but am on a hen do then so am going to see if they have something earlier in the week.

Sorry to hear this Fattyfishwife . Good luck this month!

Rik, I went for a bra fitting unsure if mine were still ok, turns out I've gone up 2 cup sizes and now need a bigger back size. Plus having non-wired is so much more comfortable! After the fitting I put my bra back on and I realised how uncomfortable they actually were.

Had my booking in appointment today. Feels a little more real. Scan booked for 10th September. Feels like ages away!

Hope you're all doing ok.

I reckon as long as you're comfortable then it's all good