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TTC's and BFP's XXL mega bus!

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wish1406 · 23/06/2015 11:41

Please join us if you are TTC or in early pregnancy! We are all friends who have started this journey together and will see this bus through until we all get our BFP!!! Let's share our journey Grin

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MissMartin10 · 26/06/2015 17:57

any news from night?

Southy84 · 26/06/2015 17:27

Really pleased little bean is growing well miss :) how exciting

Good luck for yours tomorrow night x

MissMartin10 · 26/06/2015 15:38

thanks Dizzy Grin x

MissMartin10 · 26/06/2015 15:38

haha thats a good tactic wish Grin bet he liked that! ... my first MW appt is on the 10th july when im 11w5d so that's when ill have my first blood test.. and my 12w scan should be a few days later mw said just gtta wait and see Smile

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wish1406 · 26/06/2015 15:20

In response to your previous question miss I have a blood test booked in for July 15th and my dating scan is august 13th! Got one wedding to get thru! DH and I have already fooled everyone at one event by swapping glasses... He drank for two and I was fake drinking!! Great tactic for those who are struggling. I'm renound for my love of the fizz... So it would be game over if I turned down as glass!

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DizzyMerry · 26/06/2015 12:51

Fantastic news miss so pleased for you.

Night great idea to have a scan before you go off on your hols. Hopefully it will reassure you and you can relax a bit.

Mummy and night it definitely does depend how close you are to people to tell them your news. We told both sets of family with DD and told friends and work after the first scan. Fx we get to do the same again.

CC that's such a lovely idea. Fx for you.

Hayley you will get your bfp and I hope this is the month for you.

MissMartin10 · 26/06/2015 12:47

night i thought i was 9w2d so i was out by 3days hehe .. thanks ladiesThanks x

hayleycookie · 26/06/2015 12:39

Miss That sounds brilliant! Glad it went so well for you. I bet you're counting down to the next time you get to see him/her again now :)

Wish As sucky as the nausea it's a good way to tell things are still going as planned. Apparently it means that your hormone levels are high so woo-hoo for vomit!!

Mummyofonesofar · 26/06/2015 12:33

miss yay! Very hapy for you, so you are 3 days earlier than you thought! At least you were nearly right with your EDD

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wish1406 · 26/06/2015 12:32

Oh hi miss glad your scan was good! Exciting!!!

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nightandthelight · 26/06/2015 12:28

Yay for a wonderful scan miss :) how many weeks did you think you were when you went in?

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wish1406 · 26/06/2015 12:23

Hayley I'm 5+5 now. Feeling sick today. Not sick enough to be sick but that feeling of it might be soon! Ooh nooo! However I'm finding all these symptoms reassuring! I'm so desperate to tell ppl. I've decided to talk to DH about telling our parents. Maybe just mine to begin with tho. I'm very close to them so I'd love their support. However my mum is renound for her big gob!!! So I'm a bit hesitant... Any news from miss?

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MissMartin10 · 26/06/2015 12:21

anyone have any test dates planned? Smile

MissMartin10 · 26/06/2015 12:21

my scan was amazing! baby kept sticking its arms up and down and wiggling around! with a good strong heartbeat ..feels so much more real now. . my Edd has changed and now its the 24th jan so im 9w5d Grin

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hayleycookie · 26/06/2015 12:09

CC That reveal idea is SO cute!!! I do have a book I'm currently reading but I wouldn't say it's good enough to distract me so far. I'm relying on reading through here to keep me going! You are all so very entertaining :)

Mummy Lol!! Really appreciate the legs crossing for me ;) That made me chuckle! Hopefully you won't need all 30 sticks!!

I had originally planned to keep it between me and DH WHEN I get the BFP but reading through this has made me question it. It would be nice to not suffer if something did happen.

Wish How many weeks are you now? I bet your dying to tell people! Though it must be lovely to have such a great secret :)

Mummyofonesofar · 26/06/2015 10:53

It was a bit like "hope you're feeling better, what it that virus going around?" "Oh I hope I don't catch whatever you had!" When someone is off 2 weeks you assume it is personal not just a sniffle surely?!

nightandthelight · 26/06/2015 10:50

Absolutely and it's wonderful that you have so many people to support you. People should never ask why you are off work (apart from your boss), that is so inappropriate!

Mummyofonesofar · 26/06/2015 10:47

Yeah it does depend how close you are. We didn't tell everyone we know, just a handful of close friends, family (parents & siblings) and 3 girls at work including my boss who I get on well with. Though since the mc I have snapped back at a few people asking why I was off and I have told them to stop gossip and everyone has been lovely. Everyone has to do what is right for them x

nightandthelight · 26/06/2015 10:32

I guess it depends on how close you are to people mummy, I told my friends as they would be the people I lean on. Will tell family after the scan tomorrow and then everyone else after the 12 week scan. I am not close to my colleagues so would not rely on them for support if I mc. I think most people tell one or two people at least :)

Mummyofonesofar · 26/06/2015 10:21

cc would be lovely if you could keep quiet long enough.

I don't really understand people who keep quiet until 12 weeks to share the news - who do they turn to if they mc? The support I had from work, friends & family was amazing and I couldn't have done it without them.

ccapplin1 · 26/06/2015 10:08

So eager* not so rather

ccapplin1 · 26/06/2015 09:54

I do hope I can force myself to do that way though. My sister is so rather for me to have a baby. She was trying to persuade me to start trying last year at the same time as her. Wasn't the right time for us though haha

ccapplin1 · 26/06/2015 09:52

I can understand that Mummy having everyone supporting you from the beginning is a good idea. My reveal is the ideal scenario but I am the world's worst at keeping secrets so very much expect the cat to be out the bag from poas day. Don't even know how I'll tell DH if I get a bfp...

I understand that wish we've got places at work I won't be able to go because of lasers and x rays and stuff so keeping quiet is going to be difficult when it does happen.

Mummyofonesofar · 26/06/2015 09:41

cc that is a great reveal! Very cute. I saw a baby announcement on facebook last year of the toddler dressed in a "I am going to be a big brother" sleepsuit. Was adorable!