TTC's and BFP's XXL mega bus!

Thank you both - I really hope it is but trying not to get my hopes up! Will pop to the shops today and get a first response. Will I need to wait til tomorrow morning to test again?

Sorry you're feeling rough Mummy! Do you finish early on Fridays? Wonder what the heck is going on with your AF!! At least it stayed off for last night though

hayley i think that may be a line aswell but get yourself a first response today and hopefully you will get a definate line

Hayley I think there might be a faint ine but I am not sure either. I find those tests are less sensitive, even when I was getting 2-3 weeks on the digital one it was still faint on those ones. Can you get a frer or superdrug test?

I was out at a friends last night, we drank too much and went to bed at 2am after singing our hearts out dancing round the living room all evening. Now sat at my desk feeling very tender and had to walk to work as I am not ok to drive CD5 and AF has buggered off...again

So I gave in and did a test this morning with fmu. Af is due today. Still no symptoms. I THINK it was a bfn but there might be a slight faint. I don't know if it's just wishful thinking :(

i called epu and she said not to worry only to call back if i start bleeding again ect told me to just rest! Thanks fit the support everyone x

Congratulations Lovely I see the line too! Fx for the morning test!

Ive jst purchased a cb digital to do fmu tomorrow and surprise dh on his return from working away :) the dippy test i have no idea what sensitivity it is

Good luck for tommorrow lovely !!

Yup i plan to!!

lovely it looks more grey than pink to me. Buy a frer to use tomorrow with fmu?

Omg...is that a very faint line?!

lovely you can test if you want but would be more dinifitive tomorrow with fmu.

MissM I hope everything will be fine - especially as last week baby was healthy

Southy thanks jst wondering if i can test today as i always thought it had to be fmu? Having a lot of twitching and shooting pains....

only the epu's do scans here and they're only open like dr's hours so i think I'll go to the doctor tomorrow and see if they can refer me for a early scan again i only had one last friday and the baby was healthy..strong hb and wiggling around

I would ring epu or the gynae ward for advice - it was gynae who saw me in May. If not then wait for the Drs to shut and then see out of hours and tell them you've had more bleeding. They are more risk adverse and more likely to send you for tests/scans.

*advice

I would ring the EPU miss for advic. Fx they offer you a scan.

thanks everyone xxx

nope..i was just having a wee like usual and when i wiped there was loads of red blood.. i can't get in the doctors until tomorrow though. . do you think i can call the epu and request a scan? even though it's stopped now

Miss hope you're ok.

Francois your friend is an idiot.

Cd5 and I'm actually not sure how i feel about this cycle. Obviously will continue to ttc but I honestly feel like I've lost my spark and positivity

francois your jam jar friend is a twat.

southy I see what you mean - this TTC thing can be so lonely sometimes! A few friends who knew we were trying were keeping my test dates in their heads and asking every month - which made it difficult when we got a BFP as I didn't want to lie to them either. But since the mc everyone has backed off luckily as they realise BFP doesn't mean a healthy baby

francoise OMG I can't believe that you got told that! People really don't think before they speak do they....

Thank you all for being so nice, im feeling a bit better, although came into work and someone came up to me and asked how I was feeling (yesterday I was really hot - office was 29degrees) and I don't do well in the heat, also doesn't help that my house gets hot too and I didn't sleep well so very tired. She then lent towards me and said did I know she had trained as a midwife.... Luckily my colleague came back into the office at that awkward moment, and she announced she would talk to me about it another time. I know exactly where she was going with it!! I've had enough of so many questions, I feel like I'm permanently being analysed. I would love to just tell people we are ttc mummy but I'm quite stubborn and hate telling people about me. Dh is also of the mindset that people shouldn't know as its none of their business. I feel torn as I do think it would make some people back off, however I think it would backfire with my other friends as I would have to be honest about having problems - otherwise they'd be guessing whether I was pg EVERY month... And even then the fact we were having problems would probably go in one ear and out the other!

Well done for holding out lovely!

Hope you're ok miss? Don't you worry about not seeing me moaning, you have enough on your plate, hope everything's ok xx

Just catching up on all the new posts. Miss I hope you are ok, thinking of you today.

Still no sign of AF for me - was due on Saturday and I am normally bang on regular but nothing, no cramps or anything but I am still getting BFN's. So frustrating.

Southy ignore your friend. I was once told by a friend of mine that the womb is like a jam jar and if you leave having a baby too long its like leaving the lid off the jam and letting it go mouldy so its no use to anyone. Took a lot of resolve not to give her slap! A former colleague told me it was my duty to provide my parents with grandchildren and by not doing so I was incredibly selfish. Some people are idiots!

Lovely you have some serious willpower. I always say I will wait then 5 minutes later there I am stick in hand ready to pee. It's like an obsession.