June BFP anyone?

Updated stats for June. Ttc #1 cycle 11 af due 26th June

Updated stats for June, ttc #1, cycle 2, AF due 27th June.

Hey everyone can I jump on board the June bus too? Last time I was on a ttc bus was in 2013 and I didn't think id be doing this again

I have 3dc (8,4,18m) so this will be -#4. Actually dtd at the right time is tricky as my dh works away so I only have a couple of goes this year!

Stats for me then - weechops, age 35, cycle 1, ttc #4, bfp due 19 June.

Thought I had my positive opk yesterday but now the line looks darker than the control line. Last time we dtd was Saturday night do you think I'm still in with a chance?
Can't dtd again as hubby not back till Friday!

Good luck Sampy, I didn't notice any egcm at all this month and was convinced I didn't even ovulate.
Obviously I did after all!! Lol
Good luck and keep us posted.

The anxiousness has started, Fertility Friend has given me 3 possible ovulation dates (Fri-Sun this week) and I'm working away tonight and tomorrow, have packed OPK and thermometer!

I'm temping at 5am at the mo, as that's when the chickens start calling to be let out , seems a bit all over the place too. No egg white CM yet though. This is my first month checking all of these things, so not sure what's normal for me yet.

AF has been forecast for Fathers Day, that's a sign right??

Sometimes you just know. Gin instead then

Vapo I do totally understand, keep your chin up! it's so hard ttc, planning remembering dates and then that awful 2ww!
I was still getting Bfn at 11dpo, with DD1 I didn't get a BFP until 15/16dpo and even then it was super faint. Didn't show well until about 18dpo so you're not out yet.
Thinking of you and keep in everything crossed. Xx

carrot im 12dpo today, still bfn
App on my phone says af due Thursday but from looking at past few cycles I think Af is due any time from tomorrow to Sunday.
I'll test each morning but know it's not my month this month.

Hi flat I didn't think the temping would work when you're away as much as you and I. And I don't need any other reasons to wake early or sleep badly. I won't bother with trying.

I'm pretty down at the minute, I saw the stats on here and I'm so much longer in the tooth than most and keep getting bfn's every morning waiting for af to show up
Was your fertile week as bad as past experiences pain wise? I'm sorry you're feeling down too.

This month has been the worst I think. It's only the 2nd time I've ovulated and so even though it's 20 months since ttc it's really only 2 viable months which is crap. The past months though I was still hopeful though and testing each day as just because I didn't get a + opk I thought I must have missed ovulation or drank too much so fmu was not concentrated enough. If im not really dehydrated I don't get a line at all. Lots of people say they can see lines right the way though the month. Not here, I'll see a faint line for a day and then maybe a nearly as dark line as the control line (questionable whether they are actually positive) the next day and then nothing.

I've stayed off the booze totally in the hope we were caught this month which hasn't been a problem in its self but everyone's constant questions about not drinking and funny looks have had me in tears. I'm not doing the abstinence thing again after this month. This could go on for another year or longer and I actually think I'll end up making myself sick with te stress of it all if I put myself through this every month.

Sorry to be on such a downer when there is so much happiness with all the bfp's going around

Thanks Flat. I hope your appointment goes well, even though it is terrifying hopefully you will get some answers and plans which will make you feel like you are more in control of the whole thing. I think that is it- control - a lot of us are so used to being in control of our lives and this is something we can't do much about and it is so frustrating for that reason. I am much happier now, and no way am I testing next month unless I miss my period by a few days!

I'll update stats later on. I'll try to do it daily whilst lots of people are joining then a couple of times a week - oh, the responsibility! Does this mean I need to start the new bus? I'll have to start thinking of witty opening lines

I'm ok thanks keys. Actually feeling pretty normal and positive about things. Are things settling down for you yet? And I use a clean tealight holder for testing

Flat that sounds very tough. Is there anything you could change to make life easier? Job hunting, move closer to work, regular acupuncture for the pain...?

Vap0 11dpo is too early. Test with carlton on Friday if she holds out.

I'm seriously thinking of not testng until I'm actually, properly late in case of chemical pregnancy or early MC. That being said I'd be amazed if I got pregnant this month.

carlton I wish you the best of luck today hun if you give into testing im /keeping everything crossed for you. :).

carrot How you feeling today hun?

suz That what I done lol. Couldnt find a proper pot to pee in so I cleaned out the top of a washing comfort lid pmsl.

louwn Keep your chin up hun I know its easier said than done hun I need to take my own advice as well.

flat So sorry to hear your story as well hun. I hope thingsstart getting better for you really soon. Big hugs hun xxx

Oh and Carlton, I have an appointment with a specialist gynae in a month (ish). Hopefully I'll have a clearer idea about 'next steps'after that. I can't wait for the appointment, but I'm also completely terrified...

Congratulations for the many BFPs!

Awww Louwn I'm so sorry you feel so down. This can be a pretty miserable, lovely process. Please don't give up though...yes, some days will be awful but some days will be ok...and you never know when you'll get your BFP. As it's playing on your mind, I would def go back to the doctors. Let us know how you get on, and if you have anyone in RL that you can confide in make sure you chat to them too x x

Aww thanks for the concern Carlton. I'm just having a bit of a rough time - fallen out with some friends, have the worst boss on the planet and a pretty sh*tty job at times which also means I live away from DH, then just CANNOT seem to get pregnant and have 2.5 weeks in a month where I'm in quite a bit of physical pain. Just feeling a bit generally mopey and sorry for myself...but I know I have a lot to be grateful for so am trying to keep my chin up as much as possible. Thanks for asking after me though . How are you getting on and how are things this month? I find some months are easier/harder than others.

Vap I was thinking I hadn't seen anything from you in ages! Is work keeping you busy? How is everything going? Both on the TTC front and generally? TBH the temping thing just isn't working for me for the reasons you mention - total lack of sleep, waking in different places and waking at all hours (if I even get to sleep, which apparently isn't going to happen tonight ). Maybe give it a whirl, but I think you may struggle if your sleeping is that bad.

Does anyone else seem to have more cm during af time than any other time in cycle or is it just me? Sorry if silly question is just playing on my mind.

Carlton, I'm also patiently waiting and ordering a shitload of tests off Amazon - bring it on!!!

Congratulations bear! Yep, id say that is a pretty strong line, or one of strongest line I've ever seen! Woo Hoo

flat is your temping making any sense? I have the same issue being away and don't think I could deal with firstly remembering to take a thermometer away with me and am also up and down in the night as not the best sleeper. Doubt it would work for me but if is working for you and giving ok results after being in so many different beds I may give it a go

isla congratulations to you too!! 5 years! Phew! That's the long haul!

roxy congratulations to you and thanks for your reassuring words. I tested this morning at 11dpo and have been really down as no slight line at all and I'm really starting to struggle with all the ttc disappointment.

Here's to hoping!

Hi carrot good to see you too, thanks for the stats mine are
ttc #1 cycle 26 bfp due 06/06
although i think it will be later this month as think I either didn't OV or OV late :(

Congrats to boo and roxy and isla it's so nice to hear a positive story of someone who has been trying for such a long time- gives me hope :)

I'm with you strawberry! # 6 for me tho

Seems to me from what I have read from those with BFP that the less symptoms the better! No more symptom spotting for me! I'll be more worried if I get any now! Massive congrats again to all today's BFP! I'm so much more hopeful it WILL happen for us all x

Ahh thanks everyone.

Good luck Carlton, I bought some of those ebay cheap sticks that showed very faint lines today, found Asda selling Clear Response 2 for £1 work brilliantly though.
I don't know about Isla and Boo but I didn't really feel anything! Maybe a slight ache in my boobs and a slight headache today but that was it!
Keeping everything crossed for you all and sending loads of baby dust. Xx

Evening everyone!

bear CONGRATULATIONS!! I bet you're so excited

Welcome princes! Hope your stay here is short and sweet :-)

isla wow congratulations to you too!! You must be thrilled

Omg another bfp?! congratulations roxy!! This June bus is on fire!!! :-)

I'm still patiently waiting for test day! Ordered some tests with my online shop which will be here tomorrow, just hope I get a chance to use one and its positive! Still planning to hold out until ad is due on Friday though. I have s busy week planned so that should help. I have been feeling stretchy feelings in my stomach and heavy boobs, also my legs were aching today (not sure if that's even a symptom!) but not getting my hopes up too much

3bfp's wtg guys such good news congratulationxx

Wow! Since I posted there's been 2 more bfp hope that's a sign!

Huge congrats to you all