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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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June BFP anyone?

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StrawberryRiceCake · 20/05/2015 07:51

This is cycle #3 TTC for me. I really hoping this will be my month. Who's with me?

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Carltonlives · 05/06/2015 13:23

Congrats wizard!

I've got my finger and toes crossed for you birchy Smile

WhyWait · 05/06/2015 13:22

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Vap0 · 05/06/2015 13:17

Congratulations wizard

mrs this is month 21, I do tend to pressurise him in the important days but there is no where near as much stress on him as there is on me with the constant failure. I'm not telling him the dates this month and hope he doesn't notice...

weechops · 05/06/2015 13:08

wizard that's fantastic! Congratulations on your bfp!!!

WizardSong · 05/06/2015 12:56

I couldn't wait to see if AF arrived or not so went to buy a test on my lunch and it's a BFP!!!!!!

I CANNOT believe it!! I was SURE we'd missed it this month.

Oh my god.

louwn · 05/06/2015 12:40

DTD every other day from tomorrow. Am resisting OPKs cos I think they might stress me out!!

CarrotVan · 05/06/2015 12:39

CARLTON - you're pregnant! WooHoo

louwn · 05/06/2015 12:39

Yes I tested on day period due and it was a day late! Totally identify with your feelings that it could be a long process with no particular reason why I am thinking that. I am not testing next time til I am a few days late.

Mrs1986 · 05/06/2015 12:34

Having said that I'm a total OCD so will totally end up testing early.
Louwn - when are you going to DTD? Are you using opks? X

Mrs1986 · 05/06/2015 12:32

Louwn - I am planning to be sensible and only test if I'm late cause last cycle I did a too many tests and realised this could become a very expensive game!!!

Itsme247 I will keep my fingers crossed for you and your DH!! Stay positive xx

louwn · 05/06/2015 12:22

Mrs1986, same as my plan. Notice you are on cycle 2 for #1 and on a similar day to me, when do you test?

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Itsme247 · 05/06/2015 11:59

We've been trying for 10 cycles now and my DH is approaching DTD as if it's a real test of his manhood, I know I'm desperate to have a baby too but he's more obsessed with my OV than I am...

birchygoo · 05/06/2015 11:31

vap if you get your peak ovulation in middle day - yes those are the 3 days I would choose as well.

I did the SMEP this month - so will let you know how that has went in 4 days time!

Mrs1986 · 05/06/2015 11:16

Ahh I see, how long have you been TTC? I would go with your suggestion too probably if I only had three goes. I am worried I am not approaching the DTD very well; I don't want my DH to feel like I'm using him as a baby making machine! Maybe I should lay off the dates and start pretending to be relaxed!!

Vap0 · 05/06/2015 09:43

Mrs yep, you're right.

We've been at this an awfully long time now and dp tends to feel the pressure after a couple of times of dtd in the fertile window and we usually go for it at the beginning of the few days and by the end he is very reluctant so I'm trying to pinpoint the very best days to be caught. I reckon 3 times will be the maximum we will manage.

So, sorry, let me reword the question. Which 3 days are best if you could only have 3 days of dtd?

P.S. His SA results came back with flying colours and he has loads so we don't need to worry about there not being enough if dtd on each day.

Mrs1986 · 05/06/2015 09:02

Vap - would you also DTD a few days before then too? I read that sperm can live inside you for up to a week. I will be trying to have a good build up before hand so that the egg gets pounced on when it's released! Have I understood it right? X

Vap0 · 05/06/2015 08:35

After a couple of days of spotting AF is officially here now. My app has rejigged the dates again.
Fertile window 14-19 June
I expect a positive opk on 18 June and then ovulation on 19 June.
AF now due 3 July, so I suppose I'm out of the June bus already but will hang about until the July bus arrives.

So, what dates would you say are the best for dtd? I'm thinking 17,18,19?

Mrs1986 · 05/06/2015 08:26

Congratulations!! Can you spread some of your luck our way please! I am cd7 and planning to DTD every other day from this weekend. I told my DH that since being off the pill my libido is through the roof! Xx

birchygoo · 05/06/2015 08:24

Aghhhhh carlton way to go!!! Congratulations!!!!

I did give in and tested this morning BFN - but I'm only 10dpo so could still be yet but it has helped settle me more for going away. I also didn't use a very sensitive test - was got in home bargains and says only picks up 1 day after missed af at 25ml

This bus is starting of very lucky!

Vap0 · 05/06/2015 07:57

Woo! Carlton!
Congratulations Flowers

Carltonlives · 05/06/2015 07:07

Wizard test!!

Itsme247 · 05/06/2015 06:51

Ahhh! Congratulations!

Carltonlives · 05/06/2015 06:39

Thanks everyone! Still in shock! Grin

keys27 · 05/06/2015 06:25

Oh carlton do you what I just knew it I had such a good feeling for you. WTG huge congratulations made my morning that. Make sure you stick around with us hopefully others will be joining you.

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