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It's staying light longer and we are taking the opportunity to get well and truly upduffed, yes that's right, three BFPs in one day! That's the May bus for you.

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nightandthelight · 15/05/2015 21:34

#####STATS#####

Forgive me ladies but I must rush, DH is waiting to inseminate me!

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pulpi · 19/05/2015 12:30

Non-ttc update: I got the job!

TrixieRay · 19/05/2015 11:12

Hi ladies, just checking in on the new thread- thanks Night!
Three BFPS in one day Smile excellent work.
I think our chances of a BFP on our last cycle before IVF are slim. Only DTD CD 12 and 15 due to DH being away, pretty sure I ov on CD 14 or 15 so I guess there is a chance - FX

Brooke113 · 19/05/2015 10:17

Thanks carlton it's just worrying. I constantly feel like I'm going to find Af when I go to the loo. The doctors said they don't do an acknowledgement of pregnancy until 2 weeks after missed Af. Will test again Friday if Af doesn't arrive x

Carltonlives · 19/05/2015 10:07

Morning teenie Smile

brooke I had day-before-af feeling for the first couple of months of my last pregnancy. It doesn't mean you are any less pregnant at this stage. When will you test again? Hang in there Flowers

Brooke113 · 19/05/2015 09:58

No more blood carlton but the cramps feel just like Af cramps. Why am I getting these? I feel so miserable :(

TeenieDeenie · 19/05/2015 09:45

Morning all!

Brooke sorry to hear you're still struggling, FX you get some relief soon! Flowers

Carlton I'd agree with Dizzy and Night, if you're just noticing ewcm then it's likely you are approaching ov, tonight should be fine. Smile

Great info ladies re the tilted uterus!!!! My GP commented when I had my last smear that I have this so from now on it'll no longer be bum on pillow, but pelvis on pillow!!! CD35 here, am going to test Thursday morning. Guessing I will be 12dpo if going by opk but sceptical I ov'd this cycle so who knows. At least if BFN then I can prepare for AF and starting to temp.

Carltonlives · 19/05/2015 09:36

Any more blood (in wee or af) Brooke?

Fx for you xx

Brooke113 · 19/05/2015 09:28

Sorry things didn't go to plan last night carlton I don't think tonight is too late to dtd at all, this cycle I had a positive opk and v.bad cramps on bank holiday Monday, so I guessed I ov'd that day at some point, and continued to have Ewcm for at least the next 7 days, good luck for tonight x

Still cramping today, have took paracetamol. Really struggled to walk. Dc to school this morning, felt like I was going to puke the whole way :( have forced myself to eat some toast.

Carltonlives · 19/05/2015 09:27

Right, tonight I will make sure she is locked in a cupboard well and truly fast asleep!!

Thanks guys Smile

DizzyMerry · 19/05/2015 09:22

If you've only just noticed ewcm then I would say that's an indication that ov is approaching.

Carltonlives · 19/05/2015 09:15

Really?!

I only just got a tiny tiny amount of ewcm this morning, does that usually happen after or during ov though?

DizzyMerry · 19/05/2015 09:15

I don't think it's too late either carlton and fx you get to dtd tonight. It was frustrating but we resumed activity as soon as she fell asleep so all was not lost apart from our enthusiasm

nightandthelight · 19/05/2015 09:11

Ok well with a 31 day cycle CD13 shouldn't be too late Carlton Grin

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Carltonlives · 19/05/2015 09:08

Not using anything to track at the moment and cycle last month was 31 days.

Can't really leave her with anyone else for an hour, by the time we drop her off then pick her up this evening it will be past her bedtime. Hopefully she feels better tonight, will get on it as soon as she goes down, even when she's teething she usually sleeps for a couple of hours before they wake her up. It was probably my fault last night really, I thought she was feeling better and went to sleep easily so thought we were safe to chill out in front of the TV for an hour or so before bed. I won't be making that mistake again!
Dizzy that must have been so frustrating if you're halfway through!

How is everyone else? How are you feeling brooke?

DizzyMerry · 19/05/2015 08:42

Carlton It's impossible to dtd around unwell toddlers and I know exactly how you feel as it's happened to us a few times. Once DD woke up in hysterics while DH was still inside me so we had to stop!!! Are you using opks? You may still have a chance so don't give up. Hope your DD feels better soon.

nightandthelight · 19/05/2015 08:34

Oh no Carlton :( How long are your cycles? Any chance you can dtd today? Hand toddler over to someone else for an hour? Appreciate that may not be possible!

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Carltonlives · 19/05/2015 08:26

Urgh. Had another dtd fail last night. Toddler woke up with her teeth again, just as we were about to get into bed. Can't bloody believe it. She was lying inbetween us all night so no chance this morning either.

I'm cd13 today, and haven't dtd for 4 days now. I've ruined it haven't I?

Oh, and just to add insult to injury, I woke up with a tiny amount of ewcm this morning Sad

Hope everyone else is doing better than I am

pulpi · 19/05/2015 07:14

Dizzy & Brooke, my mom had a tilted womb (not sure if it's the same as a tilted cervix, though). She said it didn't have any impact on fertility, at least for her, as she apparently "got pregnant just by your Dad walking past the end of the bed." After kids, it flopped back to its correct position.

Mumof1sofar · 18/05/2015 23:03

Forgot stats...

32, ttc#2, cycle 4, bfp due 14th June

Good luck to all this cycle Smile

DizzyMerry · 18/05/2015 22:22

Brooke I hope you're feeling better soon.

DizzyMerry · 18/05/2015 22:19

So LPD is luteal phase defect? Wish do you have a short luteal phase? I think plum posted some great advice about this a few pages ago. She mentioned vit b6 and soy isoflavones. Where is plum today and where's woolly?

Thinking of you carrot.

louwn · 18/05/2015 22:18

I was on the last thread but didn't comment much as hadnt actually started trying. Have had sex 6/7 days last week in my 'fertile phase' (just using an app, nothing more fancy as yet!) so 2ww begins now. AF due on 30th so a week on Saturday.

loopylou1984 · 18/05/2015 22:09

Hope you feel better soon Brooke. Xx

loopylou1984 · 18/05/2015 22:08

'Jinx' Pulpi! X

Brooke113 · 18/05/2015 21:51

Afraid I don't know anything about a tilted cervix to offer any words of wisdom dizzy last time I was pregnant I got told I have a tilted womb, but nobody went in to details with me.

Still got cramps here, not as bad as they have been, but still there, feels like Af is about to come, that's the only way I can describe the pain. Off to bed now, to try and sleep. Catch up with you all.tomorrow.

Hope Af stays away for those who are due in the next few days x