Morning guys! Hope everyone is well?
Oh brooke I'm sorry to hear you are still in pain. Did you manage to have a chat with your dh? I hope so
pulpi I don't think I would pack tests. That way you a) can't be tempted to test early, b) can enjoy your entire holiday without thinking of ttc and c) when you get home and have the holiday blues you can pee on the stick and cheer yourself up with a nice strong BFP!! One born every minute is scary, but when it's your turn remember this: Women giving birth cannot see up their own vag, so you will have a slightly better view than on one born every minute 
So, I updated ovia last night with my dtd and ewcm, and it tells me it's detected a change in my prediction and now thinks my fertile window is over!! Wtf!! How does it calculate this? I had more ewcm this morning so put that in but it's sticking to its guns, I'm no longer fertile! I don't get it. I know I know, it would be clearer if I temped or opk'd but I just wanted it to be no pressure on the first month at least 
I've decided to carry on dtd anyway cos I don't believe it haha
Also, dh has just found out he's going away for 10 days next month. If we are successful this month I will be early days pg on my own for that entire time with a toddler. Bricking it now