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Don't mess with the Bumsnetters they have Angry Pubes!

979 replies

juneybean · 26/04/2015 11:37

The Rules of Bumsnet

You can shag, you can syringe, you can temp, you can OPK; as long as your aim is a BFP!

We're cliquey so fuck off. LPB will be annihilated.

Make sure you're on the ###Bumsnet Bumstats###

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Mummyofonesofar · 01/05/2015 09:40

Lucie fx it is too early for you, will you hold out until Tuesday's blood now?

nightandthelight · 01/05/2015 09:37

Don't give up yet Lucie, I'm sure someone said further up the thread that their sister didn't test positive till 16dpo with their IVF!

lucieloos · 01/05/2015 09:33

Thank you Sammy I'm so crushed at the moment. Just sat in bed crying.

loopylou1984 · 01/05/2015 09:33

Oh Lucie, I have no words. I'm praying that you are one of those people who don't show positive until like 16dpo. Thinking of you lovely, Xx

lucieloos · 01/05/2015 09:32

Thanks night. I really want my own children. Adoption is amazing but that would be a long way down the line for us. We will have to find the money to try again Hmm

nightandthelight · 01/05/2015 09:31

Oh Lucie I am so sorry! It's not over till AF arrives though.

If you haven't been successful will you try again or is adoption an option? You can be a mum and have a family some way or other I promise :)

lucieloos · 01/05/2015 09:21

Congrats yokyil!

Another massive bfn for me today so looks like I can't get pregnant with ivf either. Devastated. Thanks for all your support everyone.

loopylou1984 · 01/05/2015 09:06

Yokyil!! Congratulations :). Xx

chopsface · 01/05/2015 09:05

Congrats to yokyil! Wooooooo! Yaaaaaaaaay! Etc etc!

Have a lovely wedding oyster! Is it tomorrow?! How utterly exciting! It'll be fab my love! X

Yokyil · 01/05/2015 09:03

And night glad you're feeling a bit better Grin

Yokyil · 01/05/2015 09:03

Sparkly best of luck today Smile
And lucie fx for your bfp xx

nightandthelight · 01/05/2015 08:41

Thanks mummy :)

Mummyofonesofar · 01/05/2015 08:39

and night I am glad you are feeling better

Mummyofonesofar · 01/05/2015 08:39

sammy sorry for the temp dip - it looks normal for impending AF Flowers

yokyil you have a positive!! Pictures!? Congratulations lovely!!!

spinningirl10 · 01/05/2015 08:26

MorningGrin

Just popping in to wish Sparkly all the best, thinking of you.

Back later Smile

nightandthelight · 01/05/2015 08:24

Yay congrats yokyil! :)

nightandthelight · 01/05/2015 08:23

Congrats wotsits!

Good luck today Sparkly, Lucie, yokyil and Eskimo Flowers

Enjoy your last day of freedom oyster :)

I am feeling much better thanks woolly, drank my own body weight in water yesterday and that seems to have flushed it out :)

So sorry for AF Sammy :( you are not a defective wife at all (I did originally read this as detective and got you confused with Dizzy and couldn't work out why being a detective wife was a problem) Flowers

Well am 10dpo, temps still above coverline but only just and have been low for three days now, will post chart this evening!

Yokyil · 01/05/2015 08:22

whispers it's positive Shock in complete shock...really hoping this one sticks around. There was a reason me boobers were tender Wink

Pikz · 01/05/2015 07:43

And Eskimo good luck x

Pikz · 01/05/2015 07:33

Sorry sammy

Good luck Lucie, sparkly, Purdie, yokill and anyone else who needs luck today

Wotsits congratulations!

Pug I completely get what you mean, I feel a bit lost without a am too

loopylou1984 · 01/05/2015 07:07

Oops, attached now

Don't mess with the Bumsnetters they have Angry Pubes!
loopylou1984 · 01/05/2015 07:03

Morning all

###stats update###
Cycle 19, AF due 30th May :(

At least I can call the hospital today about my HyCoSy.

I hate this part of my cycle, I always feel awful for DH. Like I'm a defective wife. I just want to give him, well us, the one thing we really want. I know it's my hormones, but meh.

Good luck to everyone today for appointments and tests, will try and check in through the day for updates, but will probably reply tonight.

Charting experts - could someone take a look? Why did my temp drop to 36.4 (quite low) for two days before it plummeted to 36.1 for afs arrival? Is that normal? Xx

chopsface · 01/05/2015 06:51

Those ladies with dh's handing in samples soon.... Does the clinic not have rooms to use there? Ours does. Plus partners could bring in the samples. Worth phoning up.

Good luck at the scan today sparkly

Good luck testing yokyil and Lucie

Don't pity yourself too long rainy Sammy nomio you must keep positive and keep going. I'm proof it can happen when you least expect it to! Flowers

Mummyofonesofar · 01/05/2015 06:46

sparkly good luck today!!

purdey I hope you get to hear what you need to from the career lady!

lucie sorry you're feeling rubbish, try to stay positive lovely!

wotsits congratulations to you!!

Does anyone know how oyster is?! Is she married and off in Barbados making a baby yet?

wotsits1 · 01/05/2015 05:21

Lucie Sorry you are feeling down! This TTC malarkey us so hard. My sister only got a positive hpt at the equivalent of 16 dpo both times after her ivf and iui and my niece and nephew are now 10 and 7. Please don't give up hope.

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