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Ducky23 · 13/04/2015 10:20

We quickly ran out of room on the old thread so here's a shiny new one Grin

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Ducky23 · 14/04/2015 12:03

Thanks guys, its just like no one else can see why it's so wrong Shock

Been in the hospital all day with ds, his breathing got worse, he stopped eating and his rash became worse too Confused I should just rent a room here Grin waiting for the consultant, but it's the horrible one so I can see this turning into an argument!

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Cupcake92 · 14/04/2015 08:24

Okay I'll mention to both :) may as well lol!

And Ducky just like what Lill said u don't need people telling u ur out of order! I need people being considerate to u and understanding! I'd also do exactly the same and walk away. I wouldn't be able to bare seeing the baby as it would have brought too much back. No they ree should be sticking up for u and they need to stop being stupid and selfish. I can't believe she can call herself ur friend! It's so rude.
I knew someone from school I have her on my Facebook but don't ever speak anymore, she also lost a baby girl at around 26(?) weeks. The name she gave her baby was the name I wanted for DS if he was a girl and I'd wanted that name for years as its my favourite but we ended up changing our name choice out of respect because we knew if we had a girl and people posted pictures with her name Etc it'd be heartbreaking to them. Or even worse send them into a depression and I didn't want to do that to them. Obv DS turned out to be a boy lol! But even so I just don't get how she could have done that to u. That's not a friend at all and she should be ashamed.

steph1204 · 13/04/2015 22:41

Found you ;)

lillamyy1 · 13/04/2015 22:29

Oh Ducky Flowers Just ignore them. Anyone who tells you you were out of order is completely insensitive. I'd have done exactly the same thing in your situation. That woman was a total heartless bitch to use your DD's name and If other people can't see that they're idiots Flowers Anyone who isn't sticking up for you in this situation isn't worth the time of day Flowers

Ducky23 · 13/04/2015 21:50

Personally cupcake id tell both Smile

I'm feeling very very down today Hmm I found Out that girl had her baby (who had dd's name) one of her family members came up to me today and said 'she's had a beautiful baby girl' (not mentioning babies name) and tried to show me a picture. I just walked away, now everyone is telling me I'm out of order. I really don't know how to deal with this Sad

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Cupcake92 · 13/04/2015 21:32

Ducky I hope these doctors start taking u seriously ! U should bring him to my surgery lol the docs are lovely! N children are number 1 priority there.

I'm not liking the sound of increased cm till 3rd trimester!!! Shock seeing midwife on 6th may but seeing consultant after my scan a week tomorrow. Should I mention it to him or keep it for the midwife?

Ducky23 · 13/04/2015 19:32

Ah lulu bet shel have a lovely time with ds. Smile

Cupcake, I did have increased cm when pg but do mention it to mw Smile

Lil, get on those stairs!

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lillamyy1 · 13/04/2015 19:30

Ducky, I hope DS feels better soon. Maybe you should make an appointment to see a different doctor?? It makes me Angry that they're not concerned about his eating and about him being so sleepy. If they're all rubbish at your practice maybe you could move to a different one?

lillamyy1 · 13/04/2015 19:28

Haha yes I do Cupcake! Ducky, I'll try the stairs thing for sure. I've got 4 tins of pineapple in the cupboard as well!! Lulu, I am really fed up now yes!!

Cupcake I had a lot of cm around 12 wks onwards and did wear a pad most days. Blush Got thrush as a result as well Blush It lasted pretty much throughout the 2nd trimester I think, and then decreased enough to not have to wear a pad around 3rd trimester but I think it can last all the way through Hmm If it's watery though it can be a symptom of strep B (my friend from antenatal class had to be checked for that but it was fine) so it might be worth mentioning when you see the doc or midwife next.

Cupcake92 · 13/04/2015 19:02

That'll be nice to see ur SIL Lulu :) bet Ull have a lovely few days :) does she like DS a lot?

And Lill u just need to pop this baby out now! Lol Grin

Cupcake92 · 13/04/2015 19:00

Here u are!! :) :)

Aw these poor babies :( I hope they are all okay and start to feel better again soon Ducky and Siarie. Flowers

I'm feeling so bloated today and fat lol. I have a tiny bump already so when I'm bloated it suddenly looks massive!
Tmi moment but did anyone have increased cm when pg? Since being pg mines increased loads and I feel like I need to wear a pad all day on some days! It's awful I don't like It :(

LuluJakey1 · 13/04/2015 14:40

Found it. Thanks Ducky. You'd think the GP would be really careful with DS given how lng it took them to diagnose him properly in the first place. Don't let them put you off.

Lilla- it will be any day now. Are you fedup now?

Wonder how Sairie and her baby are getting on today?

SIL is comng up tonight until Wednesday so that will be nice. Is bringing the boyfriend. DH says he is going to quiz them about their plans- needs to mind his own business. Smile

Ducky23 · 13/04/2015 13:00

No there's no blood now thank god! He is just hardly eating and sleeping all day Confused

I'm trying to think if these anything you haven't tried to evict your baby!

Ohhhhh I know!!! When I went in I was told to walk up and down the stairs sideways cus it helps to get them really low! Grin

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lillamyy1 · 13/04/2015 12:44

Yes they do! But we started here in conception so I think it's fine to stay here Smile
Poor DS, is he pooing blood again??
OMG you're right - this is the thread where I'll have my baby! Eek! Shock

Ducky23 · 13/04/2015 12:25

Haha that's true it was probably written by a man!

They didn't say anything at the drs, just that his chest is clear, not very reassuring! I'm fed up of going there now because they kind of look at me like 'back again?' And they talk to me wierd now Confused it's not my fault they took 2 weeks to diagnose cmpi! And I don't think anyone would just leave their baby pooing blood! Confused Never mind Confused

This is the thread your baby will be born ShockShock

I didn't know whether to put it in ante natal now as everyone has a BFP (don't they?) but thought id just keep it in conception Grin

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lillamyy1 · 13/04/2015 12:10

Thanks Ducky Grin
I hope the doctors manage to sort your DS out this time. Poor little chap Flowers

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