April 2013 TTC girls, where we ALL get our babies!

How many naps in the day does he have cupcake? Could you distract him some how for a few days, like taking him to a park or something? Then hopefully he will get used to it? Although I have no idea if something like that will work!

Oh tori I really feel for you. I'm exhausted doing it alone but can't even imagine how it is with bf aswell, I bet that takes a lot of energy. My h wears ear plugs too x

Lil, think there must be something in the water! Everyone at the baby group I go to is saying theirs are having growth spurts ATM, think ds has just had one too!

Well I spent most the night at the hospital a bloody gain. Ds came out in a big rash this morning all over, it kept getting worse and worse, then when I put him to bed he was so tired his eyes were rolling back but he wouldn't sleep he was just screaming and screaming, that went on for about 1.5/2 hours, then when I picked him up and he has vomited everywhere all over my side of the bed too . Then I tried to comfort him and it happened again. Hosp have said they recon it's a bug. Fingers crossed he feels better tomorrow

Glad your H apologised Ducky! Totally sympathise!
Lovely pic of your DS Lulu! And good bump Cupcake
Tori, Wollaton park's a lovely idea but it's still be two buses for me because I live on the other side of notts! Sorry to be so difficult Somewhere near the centre would be best for me really. I'll try to think of a possible place.
DS has been so hungry! He woke me up every hour from midnight onwards last night, then I tried to go shopping today in town and he just wanted to feed most of the time! I'd gone into the changing rooms in M&S Md had to leave without trying anything because he was so cross Must be a growth spurt. I'm worried I'll run out of milk I pretty much did earlier and had to distract him instead!!
Knackered now and about to go to sleep but I really hope tonight goes better tan last night did!
Also my neighbour on one side has had people round and been talking loudly (to a group of friends it sounds like) and listening to loud music since last nightl. It sounds like he's having a bit of a party but it's right next to my bedroom.!

Oh no Ducky :( but at least he apologised!! So rele he knew u were right! :)

Tori how is bf going? Is Ollie cluster feeding still?

I need to try and cut out ds's daytime nap :/ when he doesn't have a nap he's alseep in bed by 7:30/8 but if he naps he's still up at 9:30! And may not go to sleep till 10pm!
I literally get no time to myself when he's up and when he finally falls asleep I'm ready for bed myself and haven't had that time to relax and chill out on my own.
Just have no idea how I'll force DS to stay awake In the day!

Oh tori it's exhausting isn't it! And I bet more so for you with the bf!

well..... He sent me a big apology. I'm in shock! Let's see how long this will last.

Well that didn't go well.

H didn't speak to me this morning then txt me to ask why I'm in a mood with him I said I'm fed up about doing everything all the time and I need help. He started arguing saying he does things, I said he never does without me asking. Then he went off about how I'm sat at home all day while he's at work and I said 'that's why I feel I can't talk to you, it always turns out like this and then I end up feeling worse than if I would have kept my mouth shut', he started to reply then stopped

Didn't go as planned

I got v bad panic attacks when PG. I didn't know they were panic attacks but the hosp told me they were. They started off small then got bad it was horrible

They usually are quite good about having time off. There's not a lot of work to do today anyway as I got it all done the other day. So it'd literally be whatever post has come. Least it'll give me something to do on Monday
And good on u! :) hope the talk goes well and he understands that being messy isn't an option!

Very strange thing but did anyone ever feel like they were having little panic attacks when pg? I keep getting them only small ones like right now, it's feels like I'm really nervous but I'm not! it's weird! My heart rate isn't racing or anything.

How annoying cupcake! Are they quite good about people having time off? Hope the car gets fixed soon!

Right, I'm going to try and pluck up the courage to have a serious talk with h today. It's beyond a joke. He is an adult so should be able to do a little bit of washing up etc without me continuously asking him I feel like a single mother of a baby and a very messy teenager!

Aww Lulu he's adorable! Such a poser!

Oh Ducky :( that's not good. My DS hasn't slept either he was in my bed practically all night as he wouldn't stay asleep!

Having to call in to work today to tell them I won't be in because I have no car! It went to the garage yesterday as my window is stuck. It only came off its runner so just needs realigning again. Literally a 10 minute job! But.....it's still there! Was trying to find a way to get to work but couldn't. There isn't a bus from where I am to work and all my family are at work themselves. So looks like I'll have to take today as a holiday and wait for my stupid car to be done

Well ds is awake. Hardly slept tonight I've constantly been up and down. He still has that cold too and keeps coughing

He is now fast asleep. Yayy! DH and I are just relaxing - with two mint magnums. Life on the edge!

That is a good bump Cupcake.

DS ready for a walk a couple of weeks ago. I love this photo. I think he looks so cute.

Haha thanks Ducky he does have trousers to match his pj top but he had an accident so he had to wear odd trousers also men don't listen ever. Think u need to be extremely stern with him and say why u need help with cleaning etc and why it needs doing properly. Men are just stubborn.

Tori that's good he put on weight! :) my DS only weighed 1lb less than that at birth!
Makes me realise how big he was!

That's a good weight gain tori

Just need a rant, the only job h does in the house is put the bins out, that means moving them to the bottom of the drive. He cooked chicken the other day in the brand new oven I brought cus he wrecked the last one cooking chicken and not cleaning it. I told him he needed to clean it, two days later it wasn't done. I told him again, that night he cut his hair, I asked him to pick up his hair.
Today I got up to find he had wiped the oven but there was big bits of fat and grease everywhere. I cleaned it again, When he got up he moaned at me saying he did it and I was just being dramatic. Just been to where he cut his hair, there is hair all over the floor, I text him and he said he had cleaned it. To top it off this morning the bins weren't put out, luckily I got them there just in time. I don't know how to discuss things with him when he just denies anything I say blahhhhhhhhh

Could he be having a growth spurt tori? Has the feeding calmed down a bit now? You've done really well with that.

Cupcake glad he's moving it's so bad they've left you waiting for your appointment like that utter madness that they can leave you in pain. And that's a good bump you have there! I just went online to look at your bump pic and saw the pic of your ds chillin! So cute! And love his top!

Thanks Tori. And of gosh, bless him. Hope he feeds better today for u!

I had an awful nights sleep. Lower back was in agony and cracked every time I moved. My pelvis was awful too and just hurt. Like growing pain but a bit more painful!
I've added a bump pic and as u can see I'm already huge!!! I still have 19 weeks left or 16 weeks if my baby is nice and comes at 37 weeks! I think I will deffo have a 10lb baby this time! DS was 8lb 13 so ....

I know Ducky, doesn't feel right not seeing the mw for so long! It'll have been 10 weeks since I last saw her! I need to see her every 2 weeks to put my mind at rest

And yep baby has been moving a lot more this afternoon!! :) think he must have been asleep this morning. As soon as I had lunch he wiggled loads and has done all day now. Phew ! In fact he's kicking now

Ducky that's so cute about your DS! Poor little thing having a cold. I thought it was that though, there's one going around. My DS was worse before the symptoms like bogey and watery eyes appeared, so hopefully your DS will feel better soon.
I hope the baby's moving more now Cupcake! I got worried in the last trimester too.

That's a horrible stage isn't it, from 20 weeks - 30 weeks you seem to have no contact from anyone. Just keep aware of your movements and if your worried at all get straight to mau

Lil you were right, ds woke up with a cold this morning, I think it is anyway, could be hay fever. He has all bogeys under his little nose

He's kicked! I'm 21 weeks Ducky but I'm starting to worry again. Even tho I know everything's okay n had my scan and that. Just panicking lol
Think it's because I've not got anymore scans till the end at 36 weeks and I hardly see my midwife. And I remember with DS I was in from about 24 weeks with reduced movement as I went to midwife and said he hadn't moved for a whole day and she sent me straight to hospital. Got to try not to worry I guess!

How many weeks are you now cupcake?

When I was pg with ds, right up to around 25 weeks there would be a day or two I didn't feel him at all. I remember the midwife coming out at 17 weeks to find his hb. It's so stressful isn't it! Hope he starts booting your insides about soon.