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Good thanks miss sparkles! :) take care of yourself, keep us updated with those pesky cramps. So pleased for your bfp. Xx

Love seeing all these BFPs!! I unfortunately had my period however it only lasted 2.5days and I now have period pains again so feeling a bit confused!

Hopefully we will be 100% trying this month when hubby gets a new job!! Excited!!

Xx

Deffo don't leave sparkly!

melon hope you get an answer about missed af soon. Was it you going to try running? Best of luck. I've tried couch to 5k at least twice but never complete it! I just can't commit to 3 evenings a week in the British weather!

Sparkly if you leave I will throw the mother of all tantrums!

sparkly: I think/hope everyone here is delighted for you and are wanting nothing but the best. you are always so thoughtful and compassionate, and have shared your life and listened to ours. I think what hasn't been mentioned much is that all the stuff that has gone on isn't necessarily about people getting their bfps, it's how they have gone about it. I don't think any of this applies to you.

I don't really like this no-lpb idea, or excluding people who get what all of us are wanting ourselves (bpfs all round!). I would rather just ignore people who don't have the common sense to apply some social ettiquette when joining threads, or those who don't think about what they are saying (eg "the just relax and it will happen" comment, which was what I think set things off yesterday, not just a bpf pic. The poster obviously did not think about the women who she was talking to, no matter how well intentioned her comment).

You as much as anyone knows how difficult things can be, you are aware of how tact and thoughtfulness is required when interacting with people,. This self awareness has been somewhat lacking recently (and has obviously caused problems). You are honest and caring, even on your bad days you ask after others and share your thoughts and feelings with us. You seem sensible enough to know what is appropriate to post, and ultimately I hope that everything settles down and you have a healthy and happy 9 months ahead of you

Sparkly I think that cramps are quite common and are caused by your womb stretching and changing. Sometimes loose waistbands help.

sparkly yep fingers crossed..will DTD anyhoo give us a good chance hopefully. Hope you're feeling good sparkly, hope the cramps ease off, will def give you a better feeling. Did you see the 'royal wedding' purdy dress - anything like yours oyster

went for a wander with my friend today and ended up dragging DS 4.5 miles to an ice cream farm and the same back. He seems ok, my legs are killing me!! Ov tomorrow hopefully. No idea how I will Dtd with these legs, knees & hips! DS late to bed too as had a friend round who is in a really bad place and needed somewhere safe to be. My heart aches to see someone hurting so much with depression.

Sparkly I can completely understand how you feel, I haven't joined an AN thread. The last bit of me post to you came out wrong, I was meaning that I was thinking of you and hoping that your worries ease. Take care.

Spinning sorry here's the chart I forgot to attach it!

Sparkly hi! I'm good thank you, I'll be 9 weeks tomorrow. I thought I'd pop back on here and catch up with everyone's news. Keeping fx for you xx

I think everyone would be really angry actually....

If you didn't stay!

Can I just say thank you to everyone being so uplifting and lovely to me. I hope it's ok I stay here just now?? I won't post anything BFP related I promise! I just don't want to leave you all and I need to see how things are gonna pan out. Is this against the rules? What do we think?!

Bean how was the hol? still not OV love? Poor you. Hope it comes soon!!

Yokyil I would say it's almost positive so always worth dtd! Prob Tomor it will be. Negative now but prob be much darker Tomor! Fingers crossed

Choppers and Night I have absolutely everything crossed for you two beauties. Not long!

oyster how exciting! Not long now! We had our own royal wedding today nearby.. Andy Murray's! Enjoy your night out after productive day! Love the sound of your veg patch!

pug maybe the sexy sex ha ha!

Dizzy sounds like you have lots of time for dtd this cycle good plan girl!

Nomio yes there's a teensy bit excitement but between the pain/spotting and dh telling me to keep a level ahead I have to say it isn't much at the moment... Believe me, I want to be! I'm not ungrateful, it's just cautious I guess. If cramps die down I will def feel better. How's you lovely??

aux love that sing song thanking you!! How are you sweets?

fifi thank you so much lovely. How are you??

Missmrs thank you, how you getting on now lovely?

Gidders we miss ya! How's you?

Tessie Vienna! Lovely. Not long until you are back. Thanks girl,Can't believe it . How did dh take your news?!

Rainy thanks so much for encouragement sweetheart. Hope you are ok

ibeka !! You dirty dog! In the garden shed! Love it! Ha ha . Glad we can give you hope! (Please don't listen to my worries!)

Spinning you are back!!! First off forget me.. How are you sweetheart? Glad that everything went as well as possible and it sounds like your family did your uncle proud, you included! Hope you all feel some peace after such a long wait. So eh yeh, BFP?! But it's faint lovely. And I have cramps tonight like before AF starts and still brown spotting. You know me, like a bit positivity but struggling a bit here!! What will be will be, there's nothing I can do but wait it out! So glad you are back! Test day Tomor for you?ps so sorry I made you cry! You do realise I haven't even cried yet ?!? Ha ha . Chart attached for you.

Melon great news on the running gear! You are amazing lovely, glad you are keeping strong and feeling motivated!

Cariad thank you so much sweetheart. I posted to you on an earlier April thread hope you got my congrats! Are you doing ok?

Purdita are you and dh having a lovely day with Nancy?!

I thought it was obvious when I mentioned the upfoof scan I was having on my birthday :-)

spinning glad your uncles funeral went as well as it could be, it is always a difficult time x

chopsface I'm trying to think who you were before you changed your name, put me out me out of my misery and tell me lol

Have been meaning to send you a message spinning to say that I am glad that the funeral went as well as it can and that it was the send off that your uncle deserved. I hope that you are ok?

spinning hello glad everything went smoothly, hope you're okay

Good luck night and chops!

I am keeping my fx for you chops, your DH's sperm had improved had they not so maybe they have done their job!

No signs, on and off cramps. Was like this last cycle too. Should be glad there is no spotting but I'm not as its just prolonging the agony!

Heaven's knows if I will make it chops but will try my best! I am feeling well thank you, (TMI alert), loose stools today but not as bad as yesterday :) How about you? Any sign of AF?

Wow that's a long time to wait night! How are you feeling now? Any signs of d?

Have decided to take purdie's advice and not test until my AF is late according to my latest cycle so that will be Wednesday morning :) Just so scared of seeing a BFN!

Have a nice evening oyster and sparkly and anyone else going out tonight! I'm staying in, me and dh went to Frankie and Benny and had one of their fab breakfasts which has kept me going until now! Chicken boobs currently cooking now :-)

I wish I had more symptoms :-( at least with spotting months I know its over and I just need to wait for af proper. I have mild cramps only. And pretend sore boobs where in reality the underwire is sticking into my side boob :-(