The Angry Pubes of Bumsnet

Sparkly please, please don't apologise my love. There isn't a single soul on this thread that doesn't feel for you right now. I'm so sorry this is happening to you. You're such a lovely person and give so much support to everyone on these threads. You deserve better. xxx

Hi everyone!! Thanks for the congrats!!

Had a lovely day back home today, done a bit of shopping and went for a walk. Just going to have something to eat then will pop back on....

Just came on and saw all your lovely messages- thank you. I'm sorry.. Yesterday clogging the thread with "oh BFP" posts and now this. I def don't want to bring the mood down here and so desperately want those waiting to test in the next couple of days to get their BFPs and feel positive! Not to read all my woes. I just felt I needed to share with you all. I don't really know where to go from here as I know that nurse will not be very helpful and I also know they don't investigate until after three mc so I feel a bit hopeless as to how to progress. Thanks to you all for your support and kindness, it means a lot

Now. The rest of you. Positive thinking...BFPs!

Oh Sparkly just seen your update. I'm so sorry this is happening to you again. I would also push for investigations, you really need some answers now. Sending hugs your way lovely

Just hopping on to send for sparkly. I really really hope.you can push them into doing some more investigations lovely. You don't deserve to get messed about so much. Look after yourself xx

Sparkly

Hello again everyone- sorry for abandoning you all. Been busy and needed a break from MN after AF came. New BFP due 1st May

Sparkly- I'm so sorry to hear you are going through this

Oh sparkly I'm so sorry definitely phone them tomorrow - if the don't investigate after 2 they should most def investigate the black discharge. I sincerely hope you get some answers xxx

Oh Sparkly - sending so many hugs xxx

I'm so, so sorry Sparkly
You deserve some answers and you should be checked out anyway so get to the docs.

Thinking of you sparkly xx

Oh Sparkly - I'm so sorry to hear this , sending huge hugs your way. Xx

ibeka test with fmu tomorrow to make extra sure then plod along of it's still +.

It is beautiful but I don't see much of it which is a shame. But I am a real southerner, I moved because dp would t have coped near London. I miss chain restaurants & a variety of clothes shops and that everything I want is in bloody Carlisle!!!

Oh no sparkly! This wasn't meant to happen. I'm gutted for you my love. Definitely phone the nurse and see what they suggest. Take care sweetheart x

I'm only on cd28. Longest cycle I've had was 33days. But because I ovd early I thought af would be early. The 30+ cycles have occured from oving cd16+. I got pos opk cd12 so now I'm 14dpo. Many times I've not got af until 15dpo. So unless af doesn't show tomorrow I shall think nothing if it.

Oh sparkly hugs! Surely twice since January warrants an investigation! I hope it is nothing and it stays stuck but good luck ringing the nurse. I am so so sorry

Aw spinning sorry about the witch. Have some . A horrible end to a difficult week - I'm sorry.

sparkles sorry to hear about the clot/red blood. I can't imagine how awful you feel. I don't think the black stuff sounds very common so I would try and push for some more answers.

alpha I was in Northumbria week before last!

mummy Kent may be warmer but surely looking around you it can't compete? I love Cumbria. Love most of the North, really. Shame DP is such an entrenched southerner or I'd be on the move up...

Getting depressed about my still-very-faintly positive HPT. If it still is tomorrow I have to go back to the hospital. I really really just want it all to go away and be a normal TTCer again (because we're all so normal!) Had a lovely time with my friend today but she seemed to think I probs do need to go back to EPU

Thanks Babybump we ve missed you!

Sweets thank you, how are things with you?!

Spinning so sorry for AF lovely. But like I said, still a good chance for Xmas maybe this cycle!!! Hope you are ok

Yokyil looks pretty positive to me! Go!

Night you most certainly ain't out yet mrs!!! Sorry you are still feeling rubbish though

Sammy I thought they were due around now. So this is good! Progression! And positive steps forward for you lovely

Choppers is this longest cycle yet?!? Let's hope for a nice birthday present Tomor of a BFP!

Mary hi lovely how's you? Thanks for asking after me I'll update you all below as few people have asked wood Spinning that's you too-
So basically been up all night with really intense AF cramps that I get just before blood flow starts. Only had brown bleeding. Then today I was still feeling a little hopeful as only brown spotting but unfortunately in the past few hours I've passed a big clot -sorry tmi- and also had some red blood when I wiped. So I'm feeling pretty drained and a disappointed. The only thing to do now is wait until it all comes away like last time and rest. I'm going to phone that oh so not helpful nurse in the am at the clinic and tell her so it's noted. I wonder whether they would investigate the brown spotting/progesterone now after this happening twice?i really want to do anything I can to prevent this from happening again it's so draining and an emotional roller coaster. Does anyone know does it have to happen three times for them to actually look at things or will they just use the "it's common and happens all the time" approach?

Hi all, sounds like everyone is off doing stuff today.

We have just been to look at a car I really liked. It was on the website as being for sale. I tried ringing twice, but got no answer, so left a voicemail, then we decided to just chance it. Got there & they didn't have it because it was at the mechanics. Grrrr.

Chopsvic, please just POAS & put us out of our misery!

Night, you too. I can't handle the not knowing!

Sparkly mamma, how are you doing today?

Good luck for your scan Heir. I can't believe how far along you are already!

Welcome Queazy, nice to see you.

Has anyone heard how Lucie is getting on?

Congrats Sparkly !! I'm a little late to the party but so hoping this is a sticky on for you!!

Congrats to everyone else with a BFP as well! Commiserations to my fellow April BFN's.

I'm only CD7/32 and don't typically OV till 20/21 so long time for me to go yet! BFP due May 6 :D

Fingers crossed for everyone else :)

Just popped in for a quick catch up. 6dpo here. Bored waiting. Went for a bike ride down the river then church today. Had a big family lunch now we are crashed out reading the paper and t'internet.

Loving all the excercise notes. oyster loved the small child!

Lots still to catch up on.... You ladies were chatty this morning!

It feels like forever Spinning! The scan isn't for another 4 weeks so even more waiting!

Oh my gosh SPARKLY!!! And tessie! I'm a bit late to the game, been rubbish at keeping up with the bus but just popping in - and wow, congratulations!

So pleased for you

Hope everyone else is doing well. Sounds like there has been some drama on the April bus...? Oh dear. Off to have a nose. Hope it's nothing that has upset anyone.

Hi Queasy, welcome. How long have you been ttc and are you trying for your first?