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soy isoflavones or agnus castnus?

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Vap0 · 03/04/2015 10:08

Hi

Can anyone tell me more?

I am waiting to be prescribed clomid by my doctor. I had a HyCoSy a couple of weeks ago and he felt I would ovulate this month but have tested every day and nothing, so now to wait for my next cycle. I have an appointment booked in to see the doctor again in about june (he said I would be prescribed clomid at that appointment) but being very impatient and knowing I'm not ovulating I need something to help me during the 3 more fertile months following a HyCoSy.

So, I bought myself some soy isoflavones online which will arrive soon which I have read a lot about and understand can help you ovulate.
Yesterday my SIL gave me a pack of agnus castus saying a friend of hers who had ovulation problems (after depo like me) and this made her ovulate and she is now pregnant.
I'm in a quandary now.
Which do I take?
Will they mess me up more?
Should I just wait for the clomid?
Is it ok to come straight off one of these and immediately use clomid or will I have to wait?
I understand you take soy for only a few days but take agnus castus every day, is this correct?
With the difference in days you take then it makes me think the soy will be more effective as you take less, so in theory it must be stronger, is this a plausible suggestion?
Just don't know what to do now....
Help Confused

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Vap0 · 21/05/2015 07:25

Also, I won't be using my soy anymore if anyone wants it?

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Vap0 · 21/05/2015 07:06

Update! If anyone is still following!
So this month I didn't take any soy as was hoping to be given clomid. He wouldn't prescribe it because I ovulated in April. I felt my ovulation in April was down to the soy, Dr said it was a coincidence and it was probably just my body getting back to normal after Depo. So a "clean" month for me and I have ovulated all on my own!
Yahoo!
Perhaps the soy did help last month or perhaps the Depo has finally worn off (20 months later) but just thought I'd update for those unsure about taking soy and wanting as much info as possible.
aux any updates?

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Vap0 · 16/05/2015 08:53

aux so what are your thoughts on soy? Do you think it works? Or do you think it was a coincidence as my dr said...? really hoping for the coincidence as it may mean I'm more likely to ovulate this month on my own
What does the progesterone do? Who gave it to you, go dr or fertility dr? Maybe that counteracts the soy? Did you tell your dr about the soy when you got your prescription? Sorry for being so nosey, I would try anything to get my bfp!
Fingers crossed for you this month!

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autonomousplum · 16/05/2015 08:18

Oh damn I wrote a long post and then accidentally reloaded the page.
Angry
Also wrote a witty reply to the thread-flitting but I'll be damned if I can replicate that now! Grin
night I took epo this cycle as I read the same about cm but soy didn't really seem to make a difference and neither did epo. I never get masses over extended periods, usually one day maybe of a lot and then just a small small amount on other days. I think cm is less important on the scale than ov. Preseed might be a good option for you anyway?
vap I'm sorry AF came in the end. I really did have my fingers crossed for you and thought you would be lucky. I feel positive about conceiving this cycle but less so because of the soy and more so because I got a progesterone prescription to take after ov as I foolishly think that will fix eeee-eeeverything and then I'll obviously just get pregnant right away innit. Really just want ov to come already! Grin
So far the soy this cycle hasn't brought ov/lh surge forward by the same amount as last cycle, but I'm okay with that. As log as I ov again (as in pretty sure I did last cycle for the first time).

Vap0 · 15/05/2015 22:23

aux hi, nope AF came and went, currently cd8.
I wasn't planning on using both the clomid and soy this month. I was waiting for the clomid.
So on nothing this month, just waiting to see if anything just happens naturally, you never know month 20 off depo may be long enough for my body to get back to normal.....
Not sure what to do yet if I don't.
Private is a possibility although by the sound of all of the scans I'd think it will cost between £1.5 - £2k per cycle which is an awful lot.
Soy is another possibility which is more likely what I'll choose to do and after the 3 months I'll go in and tell them what they want to hear so I can get my clomid.
Not holding my breath on ovulating myself, should know by this time next week.
How are you getting on with your soy?
Do you think you'll be lucky this cycle?
night one thing the doctor said to me was that cm is not necessary at all, I told him that I have had none all year and it was bothering me as I understand it's importance but he totally disagreed.
Are you thinking of taking soy?

I'm almost quite happy I'm on nothing this month as it will show me whether the soy actually made me ovulate last month or if the depo has just finally worn off.....

Fingers crossed for a positive opk

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nightandthelight · 15/05/2015 22:06

You are right plum really don't want to bring it any more forward! Am also worried as I have heard it dries up CM and am desperately trying to increase mine. Will see when I ov this month and then make a decision. Many thanks for the advice :) p.s is there a thread you aren't on?

autonomousplum · 14/05/2015 20:14

Of course, I haven't looked into it too much. It's always a risk because it isn't explicitly formulated to do something in particular (like eg clomid or certain types of progesterone etc) although as I understand it if you have regular cycles it will more often than not tend to mess them up by delaying ov. Which may be a good thing if it allows for more maturation of an egg.
Question is if it doesn't delay ov for you and God forbid actually brings it even more forward, would you be comfortable with the risk you took in having wasted a month? I would have been irritated if the soy last month pushed my ov/oh surge even further back but was willing to "lose" a month so to speak as my cycles were totally unable to support a pregnancy anyway. I wasnt even sure I was ovulating either so it was a very small risk in that way. But if it brought it even more forward for you would you be okay with that and feel it was worth trying anyway? I would hope that if you took it late it would help push it back but who knows until you do it! Confused

autonomousplum · 14/05/2015 18:46

Hi night Grin
As far as I know if you take it quite late it can delay ov? Eg cd5-9 rather than eg cd3-7? Hmm

nightandthelight · 13/05/2015 18:45

Hi ladies. I ov early it seems and have been told that soy can delay ov as well as bring it forward. I know nothing though so any wisdom would be much appreciated :)

autonomousplum · 12/05/2015 07:57

Oh no vap! No! That's so terrible! I'm so very sorry. I Dont know what the other interactions might be between soy and clomid although I do know that hyper ovarian syndrome developing is a distinct possibility. If you took the clomid on top of the soy and it made you release eg four eggs all of which got fertilised you'd stand an enormous chance of miscarriage or other complications so I think the doctors are very nervous about it. I know it is awful and I do feel awful for you (trust me I know!) but I think you did the right thing telling. And it was a decision for both you and your dh because any complications will effect him too. I hope you and your dh are okay today.
Fwiw it is true that soy can work counter actively and prevent ovulation completely. That's because soy sometimes suppresses the oestrogen receptors. So your body thinks it isn't making oestrogen so makes even more until you stop taking the soy. But it can also stop the oestrogen from being released in first place as it confuses your hormone producing systems into believing that there is too much oestrogen in the body and so it will result in anovultion. Clomid is molecularly designed to ONLY work on the receptors, while soy works generally across the whole body hence the chance it could go the other way too. However, mostly it seems that people's personal experiences are that it helps stimulate ovulation rather than suppressing it. But it is a risk and I guess for doctors who know that clomid is a far better option they would consider it a risk not worth taking.
Sorry for the long post. I do feel for you so I'm just babbling on hoping to make you feel better about waiting for the clomid. You could try get a private fertility clinic appointment. They might be more inclined to prescribe it sooner?
But wait aren't you still waiting for af anyway? Could you be pregnant?

Vap0 · 11/05/2015 18:11

Stupid me went and told the doctor I took soy! DP suggested I should. So now he is not interested. No clomid for me. I have to go 3 months without ovulating before he will give it me. He also said that if anything soy should stop you ovulating and disrupt a cycle so he feels I ovulated in spite of the soy... Well let's see what happens this month. I'm so stupid for taking it when I had an appointment booked. I couldn't just sit around waiting. If i'd just held on another month then I'd have my clomid and would be on my way to starting a family. Sad
Whatever you do, don't tell doctors you took soy! It will only slow you down.
Will update on whether I ovulate without anything this month and then will make a decision on whether to go back to soy in June...

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Vap0 · 08/05/2015 11:37

Still no af. Been testing like a crazy person - every day. I wasn't expecting anything until sun, it's the app on my phone which decided af should have arrived yesterday. I will probably wait until I have the prescription in my hand and then tell him - just in case.
I'm not sure if that isn't good cm, I don't really get any anymore.
I hope your lp is extended this month.

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autonomousplum · 08/05/2015 11:02

Yes stuck to the same days. Have watery cm today which is a bit strange at cd7. Finished this round of si last night.
Yes I can see why you wouldn't tell. I work on science research and my theory is that I'd rather tell than keep quiet and maybe there is some terribly bad interaction between the two that I don't know about. Probably not so I wouldn't stress, but I do generally trust people who know more about drugs than me. :) hence why I will say I took it and say what I think it did.
Did AF come or was it something else? Hpt?

Vap0 · 06/05/2015 15:06

Have you had a name change?
Do you think you'll stick to the same dates you took soy last time?
I'm not planning on telling the docs that I took soy last cycle, I don't want anything to jeapordise them giving me clomid.
Still have 4.6lbs to lose for them to prescribe it, (bmi currently 29.7 but they want me at 29.1) doing my best to get it off, hoping if I'm a couple of lbs over they won't turn me away.
I'm really hoping the 5-9 is what they say.
More importantly I'm hoping AF stays away until tomorrow, cramping all day, I'll be so gutted if she makes an appearance today as I'll be delayed by a whole month....
Fingers crossed
Hope the soy helps you this cycle.

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autonomousplum · 06/05/2015 14:43

Hi vap
Sixth cycle ttc. No clomid or anything. I had a bit of a headache but it was probably AF related and not soy related. A bit of nausea first day but none thereafter. None this time. Also taking them at night!
I think the doctors will prescribe the clomid for cd5-9 and not earlier as they really want to avoid multiple eggs being released. So be prepared for that. Makes sense to not take it this month though just in case they don't want to give you anything until your system is "clean" of other things which might mess up your hormones.
I sympathize with all the testing! Grin

Vap0 · 05/05/2015 15:46

aux sorry to hear AF turned up so early. Good luck with your 2nd month of soy! Flowers
Did you have any side effects from the soy? I didn't, but did take it at night so that may well have helped.
Are you in the process of going to doctors for clomid or any other treatment?
How many months are you Ttc?
Sorry for all the questions

I am totally addicted to these tests! 11dpo today and negative today. Yesterday I did a test but didn't check for a couple of hours (fell asleep) and had an evap line.
I will be testing every morning until AF arrives. I can't help myself.
The app on my phone says AF should arrive on Thursday 7th although I think it's not correct. Last month AF arrived early (26 day cycle) and so it has predicted that this month will be the same with a 26 day cycle but the 3 months before that were 30 day cycles.
So I'm expecting AF to arrive somewhere between Thursday and Sunday.
I'm going to hold off on the soy this month though as I have my doc appointment for clomid on Monday 11th and am hoping to start that. I have read you can start that anywhere from day 2-5 like you can with the soy and so am hoping that even if AF does arrive on Thursday then I should stil be able to take the clomid. If the doc advises otherwise I may go with soy again. Will just have to see what happens and what he advises.
I'm expecting this month to be a bfn as we didn't dtd at the right time due to birthday celebrations and having loads of friends around.

Good luck to you! Hope your lp is extended by more this month Smile

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autonomousplum · 05/05/2015 12:58

Hi vap
Unfortunately af got me at 8dpo. So the soy appeared to bring my opk and ff-confirmed ov forward by six days. That's really good. But I'm not sure I actually ovulated as my temps post "ov" were still erratic although I'd like to think so. Didn't really do much for my lp as I only added two days to it so it could have been just normal evolution of my cycle. Am sure however that it brought my positive opk forward! Was very down about af arriving but am now on cd4 and started my second soy cycle on cd2 so we will see what that brings.
Have you been tempted to do a hpt yet? Grin

Vap0 · 04/05/2015 17:05

Hi aux
Any news from you? Must be about time for you to test?
I did one this morning and had an evap line...
Still only 10dpo here - depending on if I ovulated when I had a positive test...?

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KittyVonCatsington · 30/04/2015 11:25

Interesting Vap - the sore boobs, exhaustion etc could well be hormone related re: oestrogen and progesterone imbalances so maybe sorting that out has helped (I don't really know!)
Keeping fingers crossed this is a BFP month for you!

Vap0 · 30/04/2015 09:11

kitty I wonder if you can answer a question about soy?
For the last few months (excluding this one) I have had sore boobs, exhaustion and other mild symptoms throughout the month. This month I have not had this at all which is kind of unusual. Do you think this could be the soy regulating my hormones or just a coincidence?

I think with this lack of noticeable things happening with my body could mean I'm out this month. I can't wait for my appointment on 11th may. It really can't come quick enough...

aux any revelations?

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Vap0 · 26/04/2015 17:29

Excellent Aux Smile
When will you be taking a pregnancy test? If I can be patient enough it will be Thursday 7th may as that is when af should be turning up.
So pleased soy has had the desired effects for both of us Grin
Fingers crossed for us both Flowers

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auxiliaryauroch · 25/04/2015 12:21

Positive opk yesterday four days early! Temp spike today which might (I hope) indicate ov happened last night which would make ov six days earlier (presuming I ov-ed before). Hoooo-ooping that means an extended lp from five days to nine or maybe even eleven! Will keep you updated! Smile

KittyVonCatsington · 24/04/2015 18:48

Get shagging Vap!! That's a great positive and Happy Birthday Cake

bluewisteria · 24/04/2015 17:56

Hi Vap,
I used pre-seed to conceive my first. It is exactly like KY Jelly, in fact felt much nicer! It won't put your DH off, comes in a tube like KY Jelly, and has the same texture/look etc.
You really have to use sperm friendly lubricants!
Hope you get your BFP very soon.

Vap0 · 24/04/2015 11:19

Thank you again Kitty.
I just tested again and i think it's my 1st positive...
Best birthday present ever ??

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