I have missed so much but have read the end of the last thread, so please bear with me as I cluster post throughout the day (I'm off to the swings in a minute..)
Sammy, thank you for your lovely words to me yesterday. I promise to hold your hand right through this journey to your baby. If it's IVF then so be it..but I'll be there whatever. That goes for everyone struggling on here with the length of their journey. I've been there and it's tough seeing 'easy' bfp's come and go 
Nomio, can't wait for your bfp. Did you increase your Clomid to 100mg this month? How do you feel? Any different (on this dose)? Thank you for being so lovely to me. Thank you, too, Woolly, you really cheered me up.
Sparkly, not quite sure what your friend is getting at re parenting. They say there is no manual for raising a baby but I call Gina Ford a goddess for what she achieved for our family. What I found when I had a baby is that Everyone Lies About Their Baby's Sleep. Don't listen to a word from those who have it seemingly perfect in their house; they are very likely to be on the verge of divorce 
Oh, and one more thing...slings, co-sleeping, feeding-to-sleep, baby-led anything are your enemy 
Mummy, I read this over and over yesterday and it made so much perfect sense. I slept brilliantly because of this: ..Just because we don't want it 24/7 doesn't make us bad parents, it makes us normal! It is mundane and wonderful all at the same time. But don't feel like you need to feel like this just because Nancy is all you wanted. It's ok to want more. Being a Mum is hard and at Nancy's age you don't get much back for it!