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TTC and still breastfeeding? You're not alone! Thread# 2

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peardrop2 · 21/02/2015 20:46

Marking my place...hoping I won't be here for long Wine

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Mumof1sofar · 18/03/2015 05:08

Pear, I wasn't sure if the 400 mg in the pack would be enough for possible pregnancy & breastfeeding?? But last night I read about the dangers of taking too much folic acid & now worry that I don't need both!

peardrop2 · 18/03/2015 03:26

Mumof1 - why are you taking an extra folic acid tablet? I am taking Pregnacare tablets and omega 3. I take one of each after my evening meal. That said I've forgotten the last 2 nights!

Duchess - well done! dH took so long to come to bed last night that I fell asleep. Trying not to stress over it but I keep thinking that I bet I will peak this morning because of it! I am on cycle 4 so perhaps that is why I am struggling to continue EOD mission after only 6x DtD Hmm

DS is still waking up crying in the night because he's unwell Hmm He's not at all happy about me saying no to comfort boob either ??

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Mumof1sofar · 17/03/2015 23:26

Can I just ask what are you ladies taking in the way of supplements? I am taking pregnacare breastfeeding tablets & have also been taking an extra folic acid tablet a day. I was in boots today & compared the vitamin amounts in pregnacare & the breastfeeding one & both contained 400 of folic acid. I'm now wondering if I am taking too much folic acid & if that might be harmful?? Any advice gratefully received. Tia Thanks

Duchess007 · 17/03/2015 23:25

Lol thanks guys. I don't know how I even have the energy to be honest (she says, while simultaneously typing and dangling her legs in the air like a crazy person Wink ) This is only my first cycle of TTC though, so I think I'll have to temp and use OPK's next cycle as there is no way I'll be able to maintain this for months on end!

Mumof1sofar · 17/03/2015 22:45

Duchess you are a real trooper Smile We've dtd 5 times in total this cycle (& that's more than most months lol!)

peardrop2 · 17/03/2015 22:20

Duchess - wth do you get your stamina from? Lol I'm thinking about giving up tonight and it's only cd24 for me. I told Dh to come to bed but he's taken forever to get his act together tonight and all I've done is stress eat on the sofa Hmm i just want to go xzzzzz

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Duchess007 · 17/03/2015 22:06

Pear - I'm currently debating this myself! It's so hard to know what to do. Is it insane to just keep trying until either AF or BFP?! Grin

I keep obsessively looking at my notes from the cycle I got pregnant last time and trying to mirror everything this time round, which is stupid since I don't even know if I'm ovulating at all since I'm still bf. The cycle I got pregnant, the last CD I DTD was CD32 and I got my very faint BFP on CD39, so I had already conceived when we were still trying.

This cycle I'm thinking I will keep trying until CD30 and then start testing. What do you think? It's so hard to know! Especially when we've put so much effort in thus far, I don't want to risk giving up too early! (I can just see I'm going to be doing alternative DTD and POAS days and you're all going to think I'm insane!)

Mumof1sofar · 17/03/2015 21:34

Mary it's not over til it's over! If af doesn't arrive let's be poas buddies on mon?Smile

peardrop2 · 17/03/2015 20:25

Duchess, what cd will you stop trying. It's sooooo hard to keep going without knowing whether one is OV or not Blush

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MarysPrayer · 17/03/2015 17:19

It's due on Saturday, or there abouts. I think it's imminent as I have the usual cramps and low mood. When we conceived dd I felt really good, I Poas as I felt like af wasn't lurking. Although I was three years younger then and didn't have a toddler to chase after!

Mumof1sofar · 17/03/2015 16:45

When is af due for you Mary & why do you think she might be arriving? A bfp might be just around the corner Smile

She is due for me on mon so I'll try & hold out til then for testing if she doesn't arrive.

MarysPrayer · 17/03/2015 16:40

I'm hoping she arrives in time for me to have the wine at the weekend. last month she cruelly waited until Sunday. Angry

Mumof1sofar · 17/03/2015 16:30

Thanks Mary! I can't believe I'm getting so impatient Blush Definitely appreciate the hand holding! Think I might join you in a bottle of wine come mon - don't think I am really pg either! Wine

MarysPrayer · 17/03/2015 16:23

Put the pee sticks down mumo, it's twerly! Grin

Seriously, don't put yourself through it. I've seen a few people get false positives from testing early on an ic. The heartache must be horrible. I'll hold your hand for another few days yet Smile

MarysPrayer · 17/03/2015 16:19

duchess and mumo I'm glad your dds are better. I think we're well and truly in a sleep regression here Sad

I think AF is around the corner. Just has a good old cry, which is just how I get at this time of the month. I have resolved to not poas at all this month. Instead I will spend the money on a bottle of wine, for when AF shows.

Mumof1sofar · 17/03/2015 16:08

I poas this morning in a moment of madness & it was bfn of course! It wasn't even fmu & I'm still only 8/9dpo (I think). Ahh I've really started getting itchy fingers... I hate not knowing! I would rather know for definite 1 way or the other but I'm not very good at waiting Blush sits on hands

Duchess007 · 17/03/2015 13:57

So exciting that people are Poas soon! Am very jealous Wink I feel like I still have ages to wait. I have to try and hold off though, as otherwise I'd be Poas twice a day and my bank balance would be taking a big hit. I have three pregnancy tests in the cupboard ready and waiting. Might try and wait until CD35 if AF hasn't got me before that. CD21 today so a long wait ahead. Still DTD as well in case I haven't ovulated yet, so at least that keeps me busy! Wink

Does anyone know if Agnus Castus is safe to take while bf? I took it the cycle I got pregnant last time and definitely think it helped me ovulate quicker (CD14 for the first time ever!). Just wondered if it was worth a try next cycle? Online advice seems a bit conflicted.

DD seems back to her normal self today which is great and she is finally rash-free. Might venture out to the park later if she seems ok. Going a bit stir crazy at home!

peardrop2 · 17/03/2015 12:14

Or POAS on Monday if you can wait Wink

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peardrop2 · 17/03/2015 12:13

Excited for your ladies POAS this weekend and a little Envy Grin

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peardrop2 · 17/03/2015 12:12

Ooh I won't be POAS until next Friday morning. AF is due next Thursday. I'm going to have to DTD again today in case I peak tomorrow. Man this is hardcore TTC Hmm I know I keep saying and thinking this but I really don't think I can keep going Shock

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Mumof1sofar · 17/03/2015 10:03

It's a deal, Mary. I hope af stays away for you. I am itching to poas already but if I start now I will have to do it every day (as I'm so impatient) & I'm sure I will waste loads of money! So I'll do it on mon which will be cd28... Surely not too early to test?Smile

My dd is much better today thanks. Hope all the other LOs are too Thanks

MarysPrayer · 17/03/2015 09:45

Morning all. Smile
mumo, af is due at the weekend so I will be your Poas buddy on Monday if she doesn't show! Determined to wait this month as pee sticks are getting expensive and it's only cycle three! I've been getting some cramps on and off for the last few days, which did sound promising but I then realised the exact same thing happened last month Sad
How's everyone's dcs doing now? all better I hope.

Mumof1sofar · 17/03/2015 08:27

Eek pear, sounds promising! When are you poas? I am on Monday (if I can wait that long) - anyone going for the same day?

Swannykazoo · 17/03/2015 08:18

Phew - not just me then! I feel a long-term place marking coming on -we can be buddies special

peardrop2 · 17/03/2015 07:52

Cd24 still high. Feeling very weak and faint this morning. Was very tempted to POAS Ic lol GrinGrinGrin Obviously didn't though because that would have been a waste!

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