2 week wait. anyone else impatient?

Sorry for your loss creme.. I'd just enjoy being with your partner! Plenty of fun, passionate nights ;)

Are you a persistent POAS lady too, ginger?
I'm gonna leave it a few days and see what this spotting does..
Although I think that the 3rd time I've said that in the last few hours - I must be trying to convince myself! ;)

aww im sorry creme does sound like ur out the other side now and theres nothing like ttc and 2ww to take our minds off things.

yeah all this stressing cant help. were not out yet though maybe we will end up with bfps after all.

oh mrsgu shouldnt have told me that, i will try and rub my addiction off on u haha!

argh! *officially...

(8th Dec officials... but it was quite clear two weeks prior to that what had happened after seeing an empty sac at a scan)

My mmc was discovered on the 8th and I went in for medical management on the 13th. First AF on the 9th Jan. Good news for your friend! Maybe relaxing is the best bet after all.

I do (I secretly bought a stash just in case).. Not gonna do any though!

Also super teary, short tempered which I usually get pre period - but according to ovulation, I'm not due on for another 5-7 days?
A couple of dull pains in my left today (only 3 times) then the brown discharge stopped and nothing since.
I need to wait until at least Monday, Tuesday next week! Deary me, how will I manage!?

creme i dont know. my mmc discovered 7 november but wasnt over till 14 december when had to have erpc. af came back pretty much 28days from erpc so good sign i guess. i know that feeling! tbh my friend had an mmc couple of years ago went ttc crazy and nothing happened decided to give up and the got bfp straight away so think its best to be like that sometimes..

mrsg defos sound like symptoms, u got any tests?

No definitely not... I shall see what the next few days bring.
Right nipple SUPER sensitive the last few days - I have it pierced but it's never been this sensitive. Can't even put pens in my top pocket at work! Ouchies!

Probably. Have we discussed this before or was it Sarkymare?! I know there was someone who had their mmc the same time as me at the same number of weeks, then resumed normal cycles at the same time too!

I had loads of awful family/work things happen at the same time of my mmc. Worst time ever. I feel I have moved on from the mmc but I agree I could do with some happy news!

I'm also going to try and relax a bit more next month, one month of TTC and I am already going nuts!

creme we must be on almost same cycles. due af monday.

im glad someone else feels like me its silly but its such a traumatic thing to go thru i jus think its only right we get some good news.

i cnt fight the urge to poas. everytime i get anything remotely symptom like i convince myself oooh yes i am. i av already decided if no bfp this month i am going to relax about it all or i will drive myself crazy.

how r u feeling?

mrsg see what happens wouldnt waste time worrying right now.

Ginger- I feel exactly the same. My pregnancy that ended in mmc wasn't planned either but made us realise that this was absolutely what we both wanted. Now I am desperate to be pregnant again! I also had the feeling that I might get pregnant quickly. Almost as if I deserved some good luck? Silly really. My AF is due Friday/Saturday and I've had bfns so far. Here's to next month if this one is no good for us!

I don't like to talk about it with him until I know for definite either way.. It's unnecessary stress on him as I worry about it a lot!
When I know what is happening, I can work out the best way to put it across to him..
Our bodies LOVE playing with our minds, aye?

Well this thread has filled up a bit! Welcome to the newbies. Congrats to the BFPs... Hope it's a smooth ride for you.

If I did have AF it only lasted 1.5 days and stopped abruptly... Bit odd. No more pain from the kidney infection. POAS this Avro and got a BFN but it's still quite soon after DTD so I don't know what to make of my current situation. Still a bit nauseous and my boobs have fattened up a bit and am still super fatigued. Gonna POAS on Saturday, if BFN then I'm just gonna assume that was AF at her most confusing. :0)

mrsg does oh know u could be pregnant now? have u discussed?maybe best to bring it up get an idea.

pisovski still in it till af fingers crossed for u!

What are your normal cycles pissovski?

"Its Day 32 in the pissovski house and more arrghh"!!

still no af but another BFN this morning. This evening I have had a tiny bit of brownish discharge on wiping but not every time though. I think I am weeing more, but that could just be an excuse to check knickers!

My cousin has just had the most gorgeous, scrummiest little boy ever... So I'm a little envious. But also shit scared of being a mother! My OH puts me off being a mother purely for how he will react - although he'd be an absolutely amazing father (same wavelength) haha :)

I'm in love with the idea of carrying a child. It just seems so magical and wonderful - it's the baby thing that freaks me out haha

its awful but so common. im through the other side now. just want to be pregnant again.

was soo good feeling like protecting my little baby and seeing the funny changes that happen to your body. i wanna be there again! ill get there

I can't imagine what having a mmc does to you.. Emotionally, it must be so tough! Sending you plenty of baby thoughts - my first one I didn't BFP until about 9 weeks! It's not over until AF tears her ugly head! I shall keep you updated ... Let me know how you do ginger! :) xx

sometimes i think you have to go down that route. it's a big decision and i dont know if there is ever a right time.

we weren't trying to conceive either when got our bfp we were also kind of if it happens it happens. once we had it though we couldnt be more pleased. hopefully that will be the case with you and your oh.

try not to worry too much your oh might be more pleased than you think plus he doesnt have a right to be mad if he knows you are not using protection. hope ur ok.

ive poas again tonite, bfn. im feeling a bit gutted. af not due till monday so im not necessarily out but think i am. i really want to be pregnant again. i believe a lot in fate and thought i might get lucky fast after all the crap i had with mmc.

For me it isn't something that I do or don't want.. I'm happy if we are or we aren't. There are things we wanna do but it wouldn't be the end of the world if we had children whilst doing them - if that makes sense.
My OH on the other hand.. Would think his life had come to an end. He isn't in a good place emotionally at the moment so wouldn't be brilliant timing...?
We didn't go through with our first pregnancy.. We were 18, both just started our nursing training and had only just got together. We've been together 6 years now, married 6 months... It's a tough one! X

dont u want to be pregnant mrsg? do u av any dc?

i definitely hadnt guessed got a shock when saw bfp.

Ginger - that's what I'm thinking! It would be just my luck that the few days my husband is home from work and the only time we don't use anything, I would fall pregnant!
I panic most months as I've been pregnant on a pill before .. So to be on nothing (on the advice of my gynae cons, due to endometriosis) is really scary for me!

fig i wasnt actively trying but came off my pill about feb last year and didnt get a bfp until the beginning of october. unfortunately ended in mmc.

what u describe does sound a bit like implantation. i didnt know when i conceived as wasnt actively trying but a few days before af was due i got light spotting which isnt unusual but then normally af would come and it didnt so that must have been implantation. i was very surprised when i got my bfp even tho i tested when about 8 days late.