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Bfn clearblue digital day before period...

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Poppytime · 20/01/2015 21:12

I usually spot about 2-3 days before my period starts. Period is due tomorrow. No spotting. Bfn on pregnancy test taken this morning (but not first thing..). We are ttc number 2... I thought I was out after the negative digital test but with the no spotting it's keeping me on tenterhooks! I'm also on holiday at the moment and not sure if I should be drinking or not (not held back but not gone crazy...) what should I do? Test in a couple of days if no period? I figured a negative on the day before your period meant you are definitely out though? Sorry, really overthinking things....

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alien11 · 23/01/2015 08:09

Omg poppy!!! Defo a line there Smile 3 mins is normal time to wait to see a result isn't it? What does the leaflet say?! I'm so excited for you!!
I've decided I'm going to take dd and run get a test after brekkie! I know it'll be negative but something's telling me to go. Will be so upset but will drown my sorrows tomorrow on my mummy's night out!
Local shop only has cheapie tests which gave me the positive for chemical pregnancy. Is it wrong that I don't want to pay out £10 for an expensive one for it to say not pregnant/negative?!

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Poppytime · 23/01/2015 07:52

If it is - about to go out skiing for the day and celebratory last day lunch! Going to be hard to dodge some drinking, will sip on one glass v slowly...but look im getting ahead of myself! I'm still not 100% convinced as taken so long to show

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Poppytime · 23/01/2015 07:51

Ok here goes...this is the clearest I can get it, and it took a while to come up (3+ mins) and this is about 20 mins later...

Bfn clearblue digital day before period...
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Didyeaye · 23/01/2015 07:39

Only one way to be sure...share a pic Grin
Fingers crossed for you!

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Poppytime · 23/01/2015 07:36

Oh sht, just looked again and there is the faintest of pink lines. There but very faint - am going to ignore it!!!!

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Poppytime · 23/01/2015 07:21

Morning alien! No sign of period, just done my last cheapie test with fmu and negative! Am so frustrated, as I am sure you are! What is with our cycles?! I'm going to leave it now for a few days, and I guess see doctor when I am back next week if still no sign of period. What about you? It's annoying isn't it as I just want period to come if I am not pregnant so we can try again Hmm

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alien11 · 23/01/2015 06:15

Any news poppy? No sign of AF here and I'm panicking something's wrong with my body to give me a 37+ day cycle... So worries about it.no tests in the house & no chance to get one and use FMU as dd asleep.

alien11 · 22/01/2015 16:32

Yes i feel the same. Cheapies didn't arrive today so hopefully tomorrow if I can hold out from wasting money on another test when it's bound to be a bfn!
Yes kids club is best bet. I'm not great at skiing but I'm looking forward to having some time with dH meeting him up the mountain for a hot chocolate Smile

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Poppytime · 22/01/2015 12:05

YeahHmm I guess when the day for my period came and went I got my hopes up.

Kids club sounds like a great idea!ill try and do that next year

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alien11 · 22/01/2015 11:54

Oh no is tht because of poas?
Our dd will be in kids club for some mornings so I can ski when we go.

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Poppytime · 22/01/2015 10:15

Yes skiing alien! Although am looking after DD today so DH can ski.feeling a bit down Hmm

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alien11 · 22/01/2015 10:13

Oh sorry to read that's poppy but still a glimmer of hope until AF shows up? Yes defo have a drink ! I'm going to wait for my cheapies to arrive then poas so maybe this afternoon if not will have to be tomorrow if they haven't arrived.but I have a strong feeling AF is on her way

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Poppytime · 22/01/2015 10:02

Same alien, would expect it to show now. Oh well at least can have a drink later! No harm you poas and see?

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Poppytime · 22/01/2015 10:01

Just done a basic test from the supermarket, not fmu and pretty diluted but I expect one day late it would show up by now - looks pretty negative Hmm so looks like I am out Hmm

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alien11 · 22/01/2015 09:21

Ps jealous of being in the alps! Presume skiing? We re off to Slovenia skiing next month :-)

alien11 · 22/01/2015 09:20

Hey poppy :-) no sign here as yet! Having mild cramps so will see what happens.. Tempted to go poas but also have some cheapie tests from eBay that should be here today. I would have thought it would have showed a positive a couple of days ago if I was?

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Poppytime · 22/01/2015 07:50

Hey alien, how are things this morning, any sign ? Nothing for me yet..Am on holiday in the Alps so will need to head out to get tests parents also with me and hard to be subtle! Wonder if they have the same brands here?

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HaroldLloyd · 21/01/2015 21:58

First response are the best I've used..

alien11 · 21/01/2015 21:49

I'm the only one from my NCT group who hasn't had no.2 :( oh figster that's rubbish! What cd did it appear?ill be cd36 tomorrow...
I took morrisons & tesco tests yday . I have a big night out Saturday with my new mummy friends so if no AF by then I'll do another test with FMU on Saturday.others I did in the afternoon. What tests are supposed to be decent?

hillyhilly · 21/01/2015 21:30

Sorry but the the only time my period spotted and did mysterious " "am I arriving or aren't I" type stuff was when I was TTC and watching for it.

HaroldLloyd · 21/01/2015 21:24

I remember reading that clear blue digis are not all that sensitive for early testing. I always use first response!

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Poppytime · 21/01/2015 21:06

Aarhh just posted a reply but swallowed by MN! It's my 3rd cycle trying alien - so not all that long (but all relative, feel like a lifetime!). I understand about others getting pregnant left right and centre - all my original Nct group are at it, sigh!

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Figster · 21/01/2015 17:36

AFs are mind game playing fuckers

Mine was 6 days late this month NEVER gone that long before.

alien11 · 21/01/2015 17:01

If you don't mind me asking have you been trying long ? This will be my 8th cycle and I'm really beginning to feel depressed about it now. All my friends are falling pregnant with no.1/2/3 so quickly and others are having their newborns. Only two friends know I am trying and neither of them live close.

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Poppytime · 21/01/2015 15:58

Alien!yes let's stay positive definitely - we aren't out until af turns up! With you on not wanting 35 day cycles...thought I had some spotting earlier, v v light though.

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