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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Bfn clearblue digital day before period...

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Poppytime · 20/01/2015 21:12

I usually spot about 2-3 days before my period starts. Period is due tomorrow. No spotting. Bfn on pregnancy test taken this morning (but not first thing..). We are ttc number 2... I thought I was out after the negative digital test but with the no spotting it's keeping me on tenterhooks! I'm also on holiday at the moment and not sure if I should be drinking or not (not held back but not gone crazy...) what should I do? Test in a couple of days if no period? I figured a negative on the day before your period meant you are definitely out though? Sorry, really overthinking things....

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Meemoll · 25/01/2015 10:03

Hey ladies, a line is a line! Try not to worry and remember you definitely have some of those pregnancy hormones in your body, otherwise you'd keep getting the ol' negativo!

alien11 · 25/01/2015 08:56

I'm off to get a Digi this morning !1 hr till shops open lol So so so nervous

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Poppytime · 25/01/2015 08:49

Don't worry alien! Although I share your worries! Line seemed faint on test yesterday - going to try and get a digi today but got small fear will say not pregnant!! We must keep faith alien! Glad your night went well and you got away with not drinking

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alien11 · 25/01/2015 07:59

This morning cheapies line was so so faint! Surely it should be strong with FMU?! Hating the wait until Tuesday to get the Digi. Those minutes waiting for it to flash up pregnant or not pregnant will feel like a lifetime. My lower abdomen is so swollen-symptom?! Worry?!

alien11 · 25/01/2015 01:25

That's so funny we both has boozy nights out! Just got back from night out. Was nice , only went to weatherspoons then McDonald's ha. Were planning on going to a bar/club but we all didn't fancy it. I'm beginning to get worried re bfp as no symptoms whatsoever. Can't believe it to be true until I get a Digi test.am cd 39 now.i hope the Digi says positive x sorry for the negativity

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Poppytime · 24/01/2015 21:34

Haha alien same! I'd been on my xmas work night out the night before and thought it was a good time to do a test the next morning whilst hungover - and bam! Dd also seems fine though

Let me know how your night out was!!!

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alien11 · 24/01/2015 15:29

Me too I got hammered last weekend! I found out I was pregnant with dd the morning after the drunkest I have ever been! She seems normal

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Poppytime · 24/01/2015 14:35

Good one alien! I was drinking up until I got my bfp yesterday! as due to the negative tests assumed I wasn't pregnant....feeling guilty now...should be ok?

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alien11 · 24/01/2015 14:31

Drank last weekend so can't use dry January :( just text them to say I'm driving = cheaper night + no hangover!

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Poppytime · 24/01/2015 14:12

Thanks Rachel! Really hoping it all works out.

Alien - tough one! I reckon the dry January or could you pretend to sip and nurse a drink etc?

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rachelrawrrr · 24/01/2015 11:58

congratulations to you both

it really makes me happy seeing positive tests! I wish you both a healthy 9 months xx

alien11 · 24/01/2015 11:24

I have no idea what to do re drinking. I obviously don't want to touch a drop but so hard to divert attention especially with new friends

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Poppytime · 24/01/2015 10:57

Say you are doing a dry January? I am out with my old boss on Monday night who is a bit of a drinker, and a work colleague who I haven't decided whether to tell or not, so may use this one!!

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alien11 · 24/01/2015 08:03

Yeah I think that's what I did too, was a long time ago ha. Also living in a totally different county. Last time I had a super fast labour so should be interesting!!

I have this massive night out tonight as not sure what to do re hiding not drinking?! I don't know my new mummy friends that well to tell them the truth.
Also I have my dads partner coming to highlight my hair on Friday... She uses the old hat method and I have no idea if it's ok?! Really really don't want to tell her...

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Poppytime · 24/01/2015 07:48

Ahh alien! See it's there :) digi will help you to see it literally in black and white! Re doctor, I don't know, I was thinking of making an appointment for the next week or so? Last time I had to so they could refer me to the midwives for my booking in appointment

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alien11 · 24/01/2015 07:45

Scrap that I grabbed it from the bin and second line there!!! Arrrgh the long wait until weds to see how far along I am then dreaded wait until scan. When are we supposed to make contact with the doctor??

alien11 · 24/01/2015 07:41

This mornings cheapie supermarket test didn't show anythingr! what am I supposed to believe?i have 5 from yday showing positive and this one showing negatives with FMU. Will try internet strips next. Dh is excited.i just hope I can keep the bean that was apparently showing on the tests yday.... We decided to test this morning then we re buying a digital one on weds to get 'confirmation' but it appears I may have had it this morning that it's not happening?!

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Poppytime · 24/01/2015 07:32

Thanks! Alien how did it go with DH last night?! Yes fingers crossed all goes well for both of us - it's a stress getting pregnant and still is once you are, as everything is so uncertain!

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alien11 · 23/01/2015 23:38

Thanks :)

sykadelic · 23/01/2015 23:26

Congrats to you all!!

HaroldLloyd · 23/01/2015 22:12

Congratulations!

alien11 · 23/01/2015 16:51

Mines a lot fainter than yours but I think I am ok to start getting a little excited. Have one more cheapie test stick left I'll do tomorrow with FMU.i know I got my positive with dd on cd40 on 29th January 2010!!! Freaky or what?! How the devil can I plan her bday party though hahaha. Dh has no idea and is home in 10 mins.. Port and brandy is in a plastic cup and to shirt about to go on dd. Glad it's a Friday night and he's going up the pub he ll need too! Fingers crossed both of us have sticky beans . I had a cp couple of months ago so bit scared but a missed period is my sign. Eeeekkk!

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Poppytime · 23/01/2015 16:32

That's amazing same due date, must be fate alien!

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Poppytime · 23/01/2015 16:32

I know! I'm definitely going to get some more on Sunday at the airport...I just can't believe it yet either. I mean the line is pretty small right?

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alien11 · 23/01/2015 16:31

Have you got pics of your tests? :-) my dd will be 4 bang on when this one arrives! Predicted due date exactly same as she was ! When do we believe it?! I will pee on sticks for weeks for reassurance hahaha

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