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Did anyone 'just know' they were pregnant before testing?

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bluewisteria · 15/12/2014 16:32

I've heard lots of people in real life mention that they 'just knew' they were pregnant. Did anyone on here feel that? And were the right or wrong??

I suspected with both my children and wasn't surprised at all, more 'thought so', but not sure I ever definitely 'knew' before testing.
I was however certain from the moment I found out that they were both girls, and they were.

Did anyone 'just know' and how often were you right or wrong?

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bluewisteria · 19/12/2014 14:25

Thanks ladies!
I'm only due on Monday earliest, 28 days but sometimes cycle is 32, but I completely broke this morning and got a light positive on first response test! But then I got a 'not pregnant' on a digital... I peed in a cup and dipped both tests from same pee.

So now I'm very paranoid it will be an early mc as it isn't showing on clear blue digital. Am I being ridiculous? Should I step away from tests till Monday?! I know I should but so hard to do!

I knew I was pregnant!

I'll try and upload a pic.

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isolemnlyswearthatimuptonogood · 18/12/2014 13:41

I knew. My sense of smell always heightens. I smell everything in technicolour! Car fumes bother me to the point of sickness and I can't fry meat without wretching. I also get soooo tired, like falling aslesp anywhere and just sitting on the sofa and next thing I know two hours have passed kind of tired.

MeMyselfAnd1 · 18/12/2014 13:35

I just knew, straight away. I also knew it was a boy. When they told me it was more likely to be a girl, I thpught "that can't be right", and lo and behold I got a boy.

Damnautocorrect · 18/12/2014 13:11

Yes I knew, found myself clutching tummy and talking to it!! Even though I was on contraception didn't have periods miss and could only have conceived 4 weeks ago. But somehow I knew

IShallCallYouSquishy · 18/12/2014 13:06

Yes with DD. We were on holiday and I stopped drinking as I "just knew" even though we didn't POAS until we got home a week later. Sore boobs, shattered and lack of appetite.

DS? Not so much. POAS to prove to myself I wasn't pregnant and my boobs weren't really tingly and no period was due to depo. It was positive. Went to see MW end of that week. Had scan a week later. I was 16+4 Blush

kalidasa · 18/12/2014 12:58

blue I'm not sure but I'm sure it can. My cycles have been a bit more regular since having DS, but I also noticed over my years of charting that they were in general more regular when I had a partner! It was almost as if my body didn't bother with ovulating as much when I wasn't sleeping with anyone . . . I have always had pretty variable cycles though, which is partly why I charted for so long, even if I was single - it meant at least I knew when my period was going to arrive, otherwise it was completely unpredictable.

thejoysofboys · 18/12/2014 12:32

Yes, with DS2. I was convinced I was pregnant - even though DS1 was an IVF baby and we were told we'd never concieve naturally. I definitely knew.
I just felt a bit "off".

bluewisteria · 18/12/2014 12:11

Ooh that's really interesting!
Does it alter after each child? I've felt very different in my cycles after birth.

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kalidasa · 17/12/2014 21:35

Blue - yes I think progesterone is partly what sustains the luteal phase so if yours is low it can mean you have a luteal phase that's too short for successful implantation (even if you are in fact conceiving). I did natural family planning for years (fertility awareness method) so charted v carefully which is why I knew this stuff. Am quite impressed in retrospect by how effective it was given how fertile I obviously am!

NickiFury · 17/12/2014 21:15

Yes every time.

bluewisteria · 17/12/2014 21:14

*DD1 not DS1!

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bluewisteria · 17/12/2014 21:14

kalidasa I have no idea what my luteal phase is now. Prior to DS1 I knew exactly, I had 28 day cycles and actually ovulated in cd 14 with positive opk's, I charted everything and was completely textbook. But since DD2, my periods have been anything from 27-31, generally 30. I haven't used opk's just taken the view that it will probably happen at some point. Is luteal phase linked to progesterone?

BlanketOfStars yes I know how that feels! A few times I gave been really astonished AF has shown up. But I think this time I really can feel it physiologically. I totally get feeling positive about cycles. Very exciting, when are you due to test?!

Prof yup in wazzling away!

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professornangnang · 17/12/2014 18:10

Couldn't stop weeing and I knew then that I was pregnant

BlanketOfStars · 17/12/2014 16:56

I've "known" about 5 times. Twice I was right Smile
I'm feel pretty confident I'm pregnant right now. I've just felt really good about this cycle from the start. Haven't tested yet but odds are in favour of me being wrong Grin

kalidasa · 17/12/2014 16:19

Thanks bluewisteria but sorry I wasn't very clear - the two v. early losses were actually before the two successful pregnancies. I have one DS who has just turned two and I'm 34 weeks with no. 2. Like you I conceived very easily - in fact I have conceived every time we've tried. They were going to do some tests if it happened a third month in a row but that was the month I conceived DS.

Do you have a short luteal phase? I have a friend who has that and is trying progesterone for it. My LP is actually really long, which seems to be a bit unusual, as I can never find anything that says whether that is good or bad!

bluewisteria · 17/12/2014 16:11

Yes yes to the vivid dreams and feeling iffy but I am worried it is a case of my mind playing tricks on me!

Before my first DD, I has 6 early mc's. So I'm nervous testing early.

Kali have you tried progesterone supplement from ovulation? I seemed to conceive easily but not hold onto them, and progesterone supplements really did it for me. I had to do all the research myself and asked my gp for them but it really helped.

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Threeplus1 · 17/12/2014 15:38

With my first and second pregnancies I only found out when my period was late. With my 3rd I just knew and found out at 3 weeks. This time around I again knew from 3 weeks as I noticed that I smelled differently, was having multiple vivid dreams every night and just felt different overall.

kalidasa · 17/12/2014 15:37

V. obvious in my case as the overwhelming nausea has started 48 hours after conception every time (2 pgs, 2 early losses), about 10 days before the test turns positive. One of the losses was so early that I only ever had one very faint positive test before they went negative again but it was still obvious - obvious when the pregnancy was failing too as the sickness stopped! The first pregnancy I thought I was just ill for the first few days, all the subsequent ones I recognised the feelings immediately.

I have ferocious, uncontrollable hyperemesis in pregnancy though so presumably am oversensitive to the hormones involved.

bluewisteria · 17/12/2014 15:24

Thanks so much for all your replies, and so sorry for loses Flowers

I know I sound completely bonkers, but... We only dtd once this month, and I remember thinking that it was real baby making sex somehow! Xmas Blush

I think I might have convinced myself I'm pregnant. I feel like I 'know' I am, but I'm not trusting myself. AF due this weekend.

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SpanielFace · 15/12/2014 23:41

Looking back, I should have known with DS - sore boobs, weird taste in mouth, funny "tugging" sensation in my lower abdomen. But we weren't trying, so I didn't make the connection, and it was still a shock to get a BFP. Second time around, I felt that "tugging" feeling about 3 days before my period was due, and I just knew. Sadly I miscarried that time.

robotnikchair · 15/12/2014 23:12

Big tender veiny boobs a few days before my period was due gave it away.

Still got pissed on NYE before I took the test though Wink

DramaAlpaca · 15/12/2014 23:08

I knew within days with all three of them, well before it was soon enough to test.

It sounds mad, but I knew immediately after dtd that I'd get pregnant with DC2. No idea how or why, but I've never been so sure about anything in my life. It was weird as it was the first time of trying and it had taken almost a year to get pregnant with DC1.

I didn't have a clue what sex any of them were though - all boys, incidentally.

BingBongSongEveryDamnDay · 15/12/2014 23:03

Yes. From only a few days post ovulation. Nausea, insomnia & PMS symptoms starting far earlier than usual. And I knew beyond any doubt, that DD would be a girl.

Aimey · 15/12/2014 23:03

I never tested. Does that count?

PickledMoomin · 15/12/2014 23:02

I had no idea with DD- a total shock. I'd consumed quite a lot a wine a few days before and thought I had a long lasting hangover.

I had an incline the second time I was pregnant but sadly MC'd.

We were travelling back from France before I found out I was pregnant with DS. I was only 10dpo but I felt really acidic. I didn't tell DH. I arrived home and had a test in the drawer. I was so convinced. I didn't even look at the test- I handed it to DH and said 'there you go!'

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