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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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April TTC girls! Where there's a new baby! Tons of BFP's! And lots more to come!

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Cupcake92 · 12/12/2014 22:26

New thread girlies!! :) hope this is okay.

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LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 18:14

Sorry Cupcake! I hope he is wrong. At least you will know tomorrow. You have had a bad few months and deserve something good.

Flowers Brew

Give Ds a big cuddle- he will get you though.

Ducky23 · 22/12/2014 18:13

Oh cupcake I'm so sorry Sad really hope that they have made a mistake with you. Is the bleeding bad still? Will be thinking of you x

Dr said that he looks like a very happy baby and he's never met a better behaved one when having his temp took & stuff Envy

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 18:02

Bleeding**

I just have no luck at all Sad

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 18:01

Glad DS is okay Ducky!

Blessings got worse. Still no pain but went docs today, my scans been brought forward to tomorrow at 2:30pm. But doc said even tho I've had no cramping, the amount of blood ive lost is a considerable about so he believes im in the process of a miscarriage. Sad
Scan will confirm this tomorrow :(

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LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 17:50

Oh phew Ducky! That must have been worrying. Glad he's fine. He sounds as if he is doing really well.

Ducky23 · 22/12/2014 17:41

Cupcake could you get a private scan? There is a private fertility clinic by me that scans in cases like yours?

Ds is fine, they couldn't find anythig wrong and said he looks very happy, alert and is putting weight on so they think it was just his bowels sorting themselves out Smile so relieved!

21questions · 22/12/2014 16:50

Oh no ducky let us know how you get on at the doctors.

21questions · 22/12/2014 16:48

Oh cupcake I hope you are ok Flowers What a horrible thing for you to go through after everything. Don't give up hope yet, like others have said lots of people experience bleeding in early pregnancy and go on to have healthy babies. Big hugs to you.

Ducky23 · 22/12/2014 16:31

Hope everything is ok cupcake x

I'm on the way to drs with ds Confused he had blood in his poo ConfusedConfusedConfusedConfusedConfused

LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 16:23

How are you now Cupcake? I have been thinking about you .

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 11:05

Yeah 6 weeks Siarie.
I'm gonna try and forget about it for now. I've still not had any kind of cramps, blood has filled a 1/4 of pad so far. Still red tho. But I can't do anything about it anyway.

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LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 09:57

Oh Cupcake! But Sairie is right. You are just going to have to wait and see what happens and that is awful.

Wha is the bleeding like now? Much? Or is it spotting? I rang my friend and she had really heavy spotting for two days at exactly this point . Her little boy is 3 months old now and lovely. Just try and stay calm.

Siarie · 22/12/2014 09:52

Just back through so six weeks tomorrow, I suppose it is quite early they might not be able to tell you anything useful yet. HB might not be there yet.

Siarie · 22/12/2014 09:47

How many weeks are you at the moment?

Try and keep calm lots of ladies bleed early on and it's worrying but you just have to accept the lack of control.

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 09:15

Can't scan me till 2nd January as too early.

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LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 09:12

Try and keep calm Cupcake- easier said than done but you can't change anything so just try and keep calm. I had quite a bit of it across two days. My friend had red bleeding at your stage and it was nothing to worry about. You are just going to have to wait and see what happens at EPU. Can your mum go with you? It must be really scarey for you. Flowers

Bears, sorry you are having a tough time. Hoarding and OCD often go together don't they and they are really hard for the person who has them as well as the people they live with. Try and get some R and R over the next couple of weeks. I just started ML on Friday - am 38+1 today. The midwife said I did too much. TBH I have loads of energy but I was dreading leaving work and not coping very well emotionally. Anyway, I am certainly in baby mode now- it is like work stopped existing on Friday.

I am still in bed. DH has brought me some tea and toast and fruit. He is stating to do a clean and tidy- PIL coming up for a few hours tomorrow from Yorkshire. I am just relaxing Grin. I can hear him talking to the cats- who are talking back.

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 08:40

I've called work and they were fine about it and I can come back next Monday when they open again after Xmas.
My epu opens at 9am so will call them first and if I can't get a scan I'll call my midwife and she'll get one for me.
I'm terrified. I don't know if I can go through another MC. It broke me last time. I never went out, I cried every day all day and I stopped speaking to family and it was horrible :( dunno how I'd cope this time.

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poppet85 · 22/12/2014 08:27

It could easily still be ok cupcake call in work though this takes priority

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Ducky23 · 22/12/2014 08:05

It could still be ok cupcake Confused if you don't feel up to work call in sick, you won't be able to concentrate if your worried. Keeping my fingers crossed for you x

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 07:44

It's red now :(

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 07:34

It says on Google it's not open till 9! :( I can't wait that long! I'm supposed to go to work but dunno if I can face it :(

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Bearsinmotion · 22/12/2014 07:13

Oh cupcake, I hope not :(. Have you called epu yet?

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 07:08

I don't think all will be fine! Sad
When u all say u had bleeding how much?
Cuz I've got more today Sad more than yesterday's. Still mainly brown but with streaks of red Sad I think I'm loosing my baby SadSad

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