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April TTC girls! Where there's a new baby! Tons of BFP's! And lots more to come!

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Cupcake92 · 12/12/2014 22:26

New thread girlies!! :) hope this is okay.

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Cupcake92 · 23/12/2014 09:02

Aw thanks everyone :) Flowers don't know how I'd get through anything without u all!
The bleeding this morning is just a ton of ewcm blood Confused
Still not had any pain at all or cramps. Felt normal. If I didn't know I was bleeding I wouldn't think anything has changed.

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poppet85 · 23/12/2014 08:55

Fx for you today cupcake . I had an internal scan at 6 weeks and they could pick up a very tiny heart beat I hope its the same for you

iamthedivergentbuddytheelf · 23/12/2014 07:34

fx for you today cupcake Sad Thanks

Ducky23 · 23/12/2014 07:31

Think that's a good idea lulu!

Good luck today cupcake, am keeping my fingers crossed for you x

LuluJakey1 · 23/12/2014 00:12

Good luck tomorrow Cupcake. Hope it is good news. Will be thinking of you.
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LuluJakey1 · 23/12/2014 00:11

I am not having one that does that Ducky. He will wake up just twice, DH will give him a bottle and change him and he'll go straight back to sleep and I will sleep through it all.

That's that plan anyway. Xmas Grin

Ducky23 · 22/12/2014 23:06

Lulu he will soon snap out of that when it's more than twice a night he's up! Grin And don't forget the nappy changes! (Ds eats every 1.5 hours per night and has at least 3 nappy changes and takes around 15 mins or more to settle Confused)

Purplelilly · 22/12/2014 22:30

So sorry for you Cupcake, I hope your doctor is wrong. Will be thinking of you tomorrow

LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 21:38

Well DH is clearly mad. He has had weeks of my moodies and we haven't even got this one yet. And he thinks that in about 4 or 5 weeks time we are going to be having sex and conceiving another one and it'll all be sweetness and light. He is living in cloud cuckoo land .

Just wait until a couple of weeks time when he is up twice a night doing bottles. He won't be as keen then.

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 21:30

Not in the corner anymore Lulu Grin had cuddles and he's gone to bed now :)
And ooo sounds yummy Lulu! :)
Ohhh gosh Lulu a 1 year old and a 2 month old!! Xmas Shock

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LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 21:18

He has just said to me 'if we have another baby quickly , we could have a one year old and a 2 month old this time next year. What do you think?'

What I think is not repeatable here.

His response was to grin and say 'We'll see then'

Is he a masochist?

LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 21:14

Is he still in the corner? Xmas Wink

DH and I have baked for tomorrow. He has done cheese and onion pie and fruit scones and I have made a victoria sponge that i'll fill with cream, jam and raspberries. The grandmas wil love it all. He is wrapping presents now- helped by the cats not

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 20:25

He had hit me because I had told him to stop jumping off the stool lol!!

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LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 19:53

What has DS done? Does he just go to the naughty corner when you tell him? That is very good really.

I manage groups of naughty boys really well but one naughty baby will be the undoing of me I think.

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 19:33

Thanks everyone Flowers

Lulu DS is being a bit naughty atm so is in the naughty corner and isn't allowed a cuddle just yet haha!

Siarie that's true I just have to wait for my good egg to come along

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Siarie · 22/12/2014 18:46

I do hope they do your scan and find a nice healthy bean for you tomorrowFlowers

Siarie · 22/12/2014 18:43

It will be that the egg just wasn't right, didn't implant properly or something like that. Had you not been testing you probably would have just thought you were a bit late.

But there is still hope, the ladies who bled had heavy red blood. They visited for scans so often in the first trimester. If it is a MC it's nothing you've done cupcake, it's just natures way. Cruel as it is..

Ducky23 · 22/12/2014 18:43

SadSadSad So sorry cupcake, really hope you prove them wrong

I love Charlie lulu Smile

LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 18:36

Give DS a big cuddle.

how has DH reacted?

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 18:28

Somebody must really hate me up there lol for this to happen twice in just a a couple of months is crap. And right before Xmas? That's just mean. :(

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LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 18:23

That sounds grim Cupcake. I am so sorry you are going through this again. I don't know what to say to you except I am sorry it is happening.

LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 18:21

Ducky, he sounds a sweetheart. We are still wrestling with names- Joseph is our current favourite but Guy is still there and Charlie.

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Cupcake92 · 22/12/2014 18:20

It's still heavy bleeding. There literally no possible way the baby is alive or even in there. No one can bleed this much and baby be fine.
I don't understand why it's happened again?! The doctor said that This time I'd more than likely have a healthy baby and I dont :( :( :(

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LuluJakey1 · 22/12/2014 18:15

Through not though!

Siarie · 22/12/2014 18:14

Sad Fingers crossed for you tomorrow cupcake