April TTC girls! Where there's a new baby! Tons of BFP's! And lots more to come!

Lil I think it's really common for the nipple darkness, lots of ladies get that. I don't mind about the boobs really, If after the second baby I still don't like them I'm getting implants haha! I think it's just because I'm not used to them being heavy.

Confidence is key! Cupcake you should spruce yourself up and go out for an evening, leave DH to look after his son for a bit.

Ducky Are you going to do anything to remember her? I hope DS is back to a healthy weight.
Siarie that makes sense about the rib cage - I hadn't thought about that! Sorry that you don't like your new boobs! Mine have always been saggy, like two Christmas stockings so at least I'm used to it! I've always wanted an augmentation but never bothered saving up for it because I always knew I wanted to try and breastfeed. At last I can start planning for it when I've gone back to work!
The only thing that seems to have changed about my boobs is my nipples have gone really dark! Has anyone else had that while pg?? (God I sound boob-obsessed! )
Tori bravissimo is a great idea! They've got some lovely things.

Sorry you've lost your confidence cupcake Having a rubbish DP or DH often does that I hope you find a way to regain your confidence, you mustn't just give up and let yourself feel line that.

Mine have grown, I don't like them at all which is funny as I thought I would. It really freaks me out how they rest on my stomach at the moment where as before they weren't huge so they were just perky.

I hope they go back down! Mostly though it's the fact the your rib cage expands which means you band size usually increases.

I think I'm the only person in the world who's boobs didn't grow while I was pregnant I think I had a bit more of a cleavage for about a day :,) I'm a bit jealous :,)

It's dd's brithday waiting for someone to come weigh ds to check he put his weight back on because he lost quite a bit when he was ill

I'm due the 27th of April, the lady was 30+2 I'm 28+2 so was two weeks ahead. It was a c section due to high blood pressure but it just shows anything could happen now

oh god! I need to get mine packed too!!! What was her due date?? And what's yours?

Get to it siarie! That is early

We had our first baby born on my April due date thread! Early (of course) but the lady was only two weeks ahead of me. Madness! The baby seems to be doing well.

I really do need to sort out my hospital bag pronto!

It's a long story lulu wouldn't want to post it on here just incase someone I know ever saw

Never say never Tori. I hope it is true for you but I have seen a man who I had never caught lying before and who I thought was incapable of lying because every emotion he felt showed on his face and he had been devastated when him wife cheated on him, and yet he cheated on me several times and lied in incredibly devious and creative ways which emerged afterwards.

I don't think DH would cheat or lie - he is ridiculously straightforward and totally decent and loves me to bits. But I would never say never.

Cupcake and Ducky- not mincing my words, you two have awful DHs. I don't know why either of you stay. You are both married- you would both get maintenence and be able to keep where you live. Neither of them are any help now anyway. They are just eroding your self-esteem. You both deserve much better and so do your children. And I speak as someone who has lived with the crappest of the crap partners in the past.

Lil if he had cheated that would be the end. I really couldn't/wouldn't put up with that

I forgot to ask - did / have everyone's boobs grown during pregnancy? and if so, when? Because min have grown a tiny bit, just enough for me not to be able to fit into any but one of my bras, which I wore all the time until a couple of days ago when I went out to get myself one that did fit. And it was the weirdest thing because before I was pg, I was a size 32C/D and the one I'd still been able to wear was I think a 32/34D but it took me aaaaaages to find one that actually fit and the one I ended up buying is a 38C! So not bigger in the cup at all but much bigger around the back, even though I don't think I've actually got a fatter back or if I have, it doesn't look it! The one I got is a nursing one because I was thinking I could use it after the birth as well, but now I've realised that my boobs might grow a lot more in the next couple of months???? I expected them to be huge by now tbh!

Ducky That really does sound very dodgy After everything you've been through in the last year I really feel for you, and Cupcake having such rubbish H's! How are you feeling about it? What would you do if it turned out he was cheating? Would you be able to ask him to leave? Or would you be able to leave him?
Cupcake, what you said about if your H cheated again being an excuse to chuck him out, I was thinking the same thing.
I know I'm very lucky with my DP in that he is incredibly trustworthy, but the biggest reason I'm not bothered about marrying him is that if things did go down the shitter at some point, it would be a lot easier for us to go our separate ways. I know it's a bit pessimistic thinking like that, but sometimes you have to be practical

Tori, you're so lucky having a baby shower! My friend asked me a few months ago if I was going to have one and I said no because I thought I'd feel a bit cheeky asking people to buy me stuff, but since then I've decided I really want one but I know you're not supposed to organise them for yourself and I've mentioned I'd like one to a couple of my friends and hinted that maybe they'd like to organise one but I don't think they've got the message!

I'm pretty sure he will be doing exactly what you expect him to be doing Ducky based on what you've said.

He deletes his texts! He says because his inbox gets full quickly, surprisingly it never used to!

He cheated on me before years ago, he told me they only kissed but everyone else said they had sex, I also found another girls necklace in his bed shortly after that, he completely denied that one too and said it was my necklace! I did actually leave after te cheating incident but due to reasons out of my control I had to go back

Ohh I hope ds feels better soon cupcake I can't beleive how similar our husbands are!

That's what I was thinking, anything I say he will deny but I don't think he'll slip up again any time soon if it is that.

Only time will tell!