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Immune/natural killer cell treatment when TTC or pregnant (aka the 14th pred thread)

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sunnyday01 · 29/11/2014 13:57

Continuing from 13th thread

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sunnyday01 · 04/02/2015 11:08

can't believe you had to work dildoos - i can't believe how insensitive some people can be - i actually think its because they don't know how to deal with it themselves so sought of ignore it!

I can understand you are tearful, and can sympathsise about having a mc on the treatment - thats exactly how i felt - although now i have moved on to being fustrated as i thought we had the 'answer' but obviously its not going to be that easy for us x I guess we have to also remember that mc happen for all kinds of reasons and it may not be nkcell related. so fustrating all of this, and so hard too.

I am getting ready for my appointment today - a bit strange as this was originally going to be my first scan appt but instead we will be talking about my mc - oh well hopefully we get a few answers!

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dildoos · 03/02/2015 18:29

Hi all, thankyou so much for all your lovely wishes and thoughts. I had to work as short staffed but did shout at practice manager as no thoughts were given to how I would be feeling so they asked me to go in as short staffed and could've done with day off! I am quite tearful this time which has amazed me but think it must be the disappointment as first mc on the programme of drugs xx

Determined123 · 03/02/2015 16:33

Yeah I think if there was an issue he would have gone through it. That said, when I had mine he did say I needed my thyroid checked annually as with hashimotos your thyroid gets destroyed slowly by the antibodies and eventually function gets reduced (could end up with it not working at all one day). A lot can happen in 6 months/a year so its always worth asking the question.

Also Hashi/Hypo/PCOS seem to have a lot of similarities so would certainly get it checked!

Hope that helps x

sunnyday01 · 03/02/2015 16:18

I don't have a thyroid problem diagnosed but over the past year i seem to have issues loosing weight - i thought it may be due to PCOS but i have been checked for that and nothing was found.

My tests were done in july last year and i think the thyroid test was done but all he focussed on was nk cells - i guess if he had found anything else he would have said.

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Determined123 · 03/02/2015 16:03

Yes hope you are ok Dildoos?

Ah yes you have your appointment tomorrow. I hope it goes well! Didn't Mr S test your thyroid anti bodies and function Sunny? When did you last have your tests?

Tryingno1 · 03/02/2015 15:22

Have u got thyroid problems sunny? Good luck for appt. hope he helps u feel postive!

Dildoos, I hope ur doing ok xxx

sunnyday01 · 03/02/2015 14:52

thinking of you dildoos x

I have my appt tomorrow which I am quite looking forward to - i have quite a lot of questions to ask too. One thing i have been pondering on is thyroid - he didn't mention anything at my consultation where we discussed my results, but i wonder if my diffiuclty loosing weight is linked to it?

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Tryingno1 · 03/02/2015 11:09

Hi dildoos? How r u doing? Thinking of u

Waves to others x

Hopender · 02/02/2015 20:28

So sorry Dildoos. I'm not sure how it is possible to keep bearing the unbearable but we are all here for you and sending you so much love. Life is crap sometimes but there will definitely be brighter times ahead. Sending you huge hugs, xxxxxx

Rosa27 · 02/02/2015 19:56

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Rosa27 · 02/02/2015 19:55

So sorry Dildoos.. Gutted to hear your news. You know we all know exactly how you feel- it should be helpful to know how the emotions pan out, but it gets exhausting I know. But please remember 3 things
1- though none of us/most of us have never met we're all hear for you and genuinely care
2- you are statistically just as likely to be next with BFP that turns into a beautiful baby as any of us
3- a month is only 4 weeks so focus on a month of being really kind to yourself and don't forget there is no sense in this cruel situation we're in.. But if you believe in karma we all deserve very, very happy futures.
Take care x

Determined123 · 02/02/2015 18:56

Dildoos I am so so sorry. I wrote a big post earlier on the train and lost it. I know there aren't really any words but I am thinking of you, dp and your girl Flowers

Am so sad for you. Hugs.

?Xxxx

Hula2 · 02/02/2015 18:55

Oh Dildoos - so very sorry. Just so unfair. i m gutted for u. Hugs xx

Tryingno1 · 02/02/2015 18:02
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dildoos · 02/02/2015 17:45

Thank you all. I won't lie I am devastated . Fx for one of you ladies to give us all the positive news soon xx

Tryingno1 · 02/02/2015 17:11

I know I was thinking the same. It's been a while.

Thinking of u dildoos I'm so so

sunnyday01 · 02/02/2015 16:59

oh no dildoos, i'm so sorry to hear that. Take care of yourself and we are here if you need us.

We haven't had much luck on here recently have we? we must be due some good news/good luck soon

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dildoos · 02/02/2015 16:53

Very emotional at the moment so can't talk over phone I have emailed but not heard back just yet. Thank you trying what a roller coaster and was doing so well xx

Tryingno1 · 02/02/2015 16:48

I'm So sorry dildoos. Really am. How u holding up. Have u spoke to Louise?

dildoos · 02/02/2015 16:11

Thank you all for your eternal support. It's sad news for us this time hcg dropped to less than half AT 99 . So looks to be a miscarriage from last month ? How did I not know? If only I had taken that test even on period xx

Rosa27 · 02/02/2015 14:01

Everything crossed for you Dildoos.. Hope you're ok x

Tryingno1 · 02/02/2015 13:59

hey dildoos any update? hope ur ok x

sunnyday01 · 02/02/2015 09:27

good luck for today dildoos.

Hope everyone else is doing ok

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Tryingno1 · 02/02/2015 09:20

Good luck dildoos. Thinking of u x

dildoos · 02/02/2015 09:05

Thank you determind. I imagine I should know results late afternoon. Xx